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Mommy4Amari
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Location: Dayton, OH
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Amari Is Leaving Me...
Posted: 10-03-04 21:42pm
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I haven't explained my situation to you
guys yet but me and romair have joint
physical custody of amari. I have her 6
months and he has her 6 months.
This all took place when romair left me
for his now exgirlfriend. I don't
understand why we have to do this when
both me and romair are getting along now.
Is there a way we can fix this?
I was thinking about going back to court
to have this all worked out.
On october 6th, she goes over to romair.
He is visiting his mother who lives 30
minutes away from me and I can't stand not
to see my daughter everyday. I have work
and school and it would be difficult to
see her all the time. But just think when
they go back to indianapolis and I won't
be able to see her for 2 weeks at a time.
What should I do?
Ciara
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smith8500
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Posted: 10-03-04 21:54pm
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He lives that close but goes to him for 6
months. I don't think that makes since.
The courts must have not been thinking....
They never do something like that. Maybe
every weekend or every other.... But not
for 6 months at a time to someone who is
30 minutes away.......
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Mommy4Amari
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Posted: 10-03-04 22:02pm
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I'm sorry. His mother lives 30 minutes
away from me. Thats who he's visiting
currently. He stays in indianapolis.
I'm in ohio.
Sorry about the confusion...
He's staying with his mother for 3 weeks
but just becuz he is visiting there, still
doesn't change the 50/50 thing.
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smith8500
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Mommy4Amari
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Posted: 10-03-04 22:05pm
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Lol...I am going to edit the post so I
won't confuse no one else... 
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IDABABY
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Posted: 10-03-04 22:42pm
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I hope you get things worked out!! Good
luck!
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Mommy4Amari
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Posted: 10-04-04 07:40am
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Thank you sweetie, I hope I do too!
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GuitarJade
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Posted: 10-04-04 08:06am
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Well, I think you and your baby's daddy
need to talk. And if that doesn't work,
you should probably go back to the courts.
The way they have it is really weird...
Especially since that won't work once she
starts school (i know, that's a pretty
long way off but you need to think in
advance). Good luck!
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newlife
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Posted: 10-04-04 09:56am
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Last edited by newlife on 11-04-04 16:38pm; edited 1 time in total
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Mommy2Seany
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Posted: 10-04-04 10:49am
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Damn that sucks, honestly though I dont
think the courts would change a thing,
because romaine(spelling) might not want
things changed. Or he could say medical
question that he wants her full time. You
dont want to end up messing things up
more..
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Mommy4Amari
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Posted: 10-04-04 11:15am
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Thanks ladies!
I talked to romair last night and he said
he is down with whatever I do.
So I am going to go ahead and talk to my
lawyer and explain the situation
to her and have romair do the same, so we
can change all this.
*newlife*
nope, he's not doing anything wrong at
all. So we'll just settle this all in
court.
We both think it would be best, if I had
full custody and he just visits whenever
he comes down here. I think that will be
the best for the 3 of us.
Thanks again for responding with your
informational comments!
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Mommy4Amari
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bellax0x
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Posted: 10-07-04 05:29am
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Congrats girl!!! Im so happy for you!!!
=) I hope it works out
<3
gaby
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Mommy4Amari
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nippz
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Posted: 10-07-04 21:24pm
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That's a good idea ciara  im happy your not
losing amari ;d
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pitterpatter
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Posted: 10-07-04 21:59pm
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I love to see people work this stuff out.
It's so hard on not just the parents, but
the kid too when the parents can't agree.
Job well done!
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Mommy4Amari
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Posted: 10-07-04 23:30pm
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Thanks yall! 
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