Joined: 03 Oct 2004 Posts: 5 Location: Lakewood, OH
Problems Getting Aroused While Using Viagra Etc. Posted: 10-03-04 22:13pm
I'm in my 60's and have been married for
over 35 years. In the early years of our
marraige I was always hard whenever I
wanted and my wife never had to do
anything to get me aroused. As a result
she has never practiced getting me aroused
and hard. We have used foreplay in our
sex play and I am generally trying to get
her to the point where she can have an
orgasm.
When you use one of the medications to get
an erection there needs to be some
stimulation in order to make it work.
Unfortunately she is unable to
satisfactorily stimulate me enough to get
me hard. Even performing oral sex on me
does no do it. Part of this is because
she doesn't like to do it an is afraid I
will ejaculate in her mouth.
The whole thing is very frustrating and I
don't know what to do.