yeah righttt...But it just
makes me sad to see her mess her life up
...Its hard...But any advice she needs im
here...
pooh needs our advice not our opinion that
we might give to our own children. Maybe
she already did tell her mom and she is
telling her the same thing, and she needs
someone to talk to that wont lecture her.
Please think about that ok. I dont see
how you are messing up your life....See
actually I am 18 yrs old I have a 7 month
old son who will be 8 months on the 28th,
plus I am 3 months pregnant too.
Children do not mess up your life if
anything they make them better. I dont
see how jillian can sit there and tell you
that your messing up your life because ur
not.... :evil:
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~*~Jillian~*~
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Feb 2005 Posts: 1759 Location: Tennessee, USA
Posted: 01-04-06 20:17pm
Numomie1...
...Well I am also 18 and I have a 5
month old son...But I guess I cant say im
pregnant...Yeah my son is the greatest
thing that ever happened to me I wouldnt
take anything for him...I just wished I
would have waited until marriage...I had a
hard pregnancy considering that the night
I found out I was pregnant ...Was the
night I buried both my parents....They
were killed in a head on collision in
georgia...So I wasnt meaning anything rude
in my post....And yeah it will take alot
of fun out of her life ...Considering she
is only 14...Not saying it would *ruin*
her life....And like I said ...Any advice
that she needs im here...Maybe you should
read my post once more and see that I
meant nothing rude by it ...I just hope
that her family is behind her on it
...Because she will need the help at 14
with probably no job and no car and being
in school...I wasnt meaning the baby in
general would mess things up...The fact
that with a baby there are things you need
and at 14 those things are hard to come
by....Because money nor other things you
need for a baby grow on a tree and sure
arent cheap!! Im 18 and receive social
secruity checks from the death of my
parents and my bf has a good paying job
and we still struggle from time to
time....So thanks for all the hatefulness
in your post...Im not sitting here telling
her she messed her life up in the fact of
her having a baby..I meant it in the way
that she is only 14 and it will be
hard....Very hard!
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numomie1
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Dec 2005 Posts: 20 Location: wisconsin
Jillian Posted: 01-04-06 20:21pm
Jillian~~~
im not going to sit here and make myself
feel bad for what I said to you because of
your parents. Dont take that the wrong
way im not talking bad about them and I am
very sorry to hear about what happen to
them. If you read your post again it
does sound kinda rude.
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~*~Jillian~*~
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Feb 2005 Posts: 1759 Location: Tennessee, USA
Posted: 01-04-06 20:25pm
I dont care if you do feel sorry....I
didnt type it to make you feel sorry
....Yeah well I read it again ..And guess
what I dont take it as a rude thing...You
dont know me as a person ...So therefore
you dont understand me ...And another
thing if I were trying to be rude ...Then
why would I have mentioned that I was
there for her ....If she needed
advice...Sorry I was being honest and not
trying to front...If my daughter were
pregnant at 14 thats what I would have
told her....Treating her like I would my
own...Whats wrong with that....Nothing
...So thanks once again for your wonderful
post :wink:
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~*~Jillian~*~
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Feb 2005 Posts: 1759 Location: Tennessee, USA
Posted: 01-04-06 20:28pm
Maybe if you have time tonight you can
search and find all the other topics where
there are 12 and 14 year olds and there
are more people than I ...That say rude
things ....Post to them as you have
me...You wont ever be bored again...!
Promise
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numomie1
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Dec 2005 Posts: 20 Location: wisconsin
Posted: 01-04-06 21:41pm
~*~jillian~*~
wrote:
maybe if you have time
tonight you can search and find all the
other topics where there are 12 and 14
year olds and there are more people than I
...That say rude things ....Post to them
as you have me...You wont ever be bored
again...!
Promise
wat is the point in still being rude I am
leaving you alone now I am not trying to
fight. I wasnt doing it because I was
bored got just give it up!
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wife_and_mom4life
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Dec 2005 Posts: 53 Location: Amherst VA
Re: Please I Neeedddd Help Tooooooooooo Posted: 01-06-06 17:37pm
victoriapink
wrote:
i'm 17yrs and my last period
was december 14th and on december 30th I
had unprotected sex with my boyfriend
where he ejaculated in me. That was
5days ago and since then I haven't been
able to sleep. Please can someone tell
me an over the counter pill to miscarry
from 1-2 weeks that does not involve
medical attention at all. I'm not 100%
sure and i'm already considering abortion.
That's to tell u how freaked out I am/
although my mom consents to the
relationship, this will devastate her, him
and me. I'm will to try anything. Any
little technique that anyone can give i'll
try right now. Pleaseeee someone
help
okay, I know alot of people are going to
jump all over me and get mad at me for
posting my opinion on this but I can't
help it... Things like this really make
my blood boil. Victoria, why in the heck
did you let your boyfriend cum in you
knowing that it could and probably would
get you pregnant? You say that you don't
want a baby... Then why do something so
stupid that you knew could give you just
what you don't want. It's beyond me!
Please do not kill your baby because of
your irresponsibility! If you think that
that is right and okay, then please let me
know how. It's not your baby's fault...
It's your own! Oh my goodness! What is
wrong with people! It would be a totally
diffrent story if you used a condom and it
broke or you were on the pill or something
but you had unprotected sex on purpose!
Wow! I'm usaully not such a mean person
but I can't tolerate something liek this.
You want advice... Okay here is the best
I can give you. Grow up! Start praying
and get very close to .God! You will be
in my prayers.
God bless,
teresa
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Ta-ra
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Dec 2005 Posts: 97 Location: uk
Re: Please I Neeedddd Help Tooooooooooo Posted: 01-06-06 18:29pm
wife_and_mom4life
wrote:
victoriapink
wrote:
i'm 17yrs and my last period
was december 14th and on december 30th I
had unprotected sex with my boyfriend
where he ejaculated in me. That was
5days ago and since then I haven't been
able to sleep. Please can someone tell
me an over the counter pill to miscarry
from 1-2 weeks that does not involve
medical attention at all. I'm not 100%
sure and i'm already considering abortion.
That's to tell u how freaked out I am/
although my mom consents to the
relationship, this will devastate her, him
and me. I'm will to try anything.
Any little technique that anyone can give
i'll try right now. Pleaseeee someone
help
okay, I know alot of people are going to
jump all over me and get mad at me for
posting my opinion on this but I can't
help it... Things like this really make
my blood boil. Victoria, why in the heck
did you let your boyfriend cum in you
knowing that it could and probably would
get you pregnant? You say that you don't
want a baby... Then why do something so
stupid that you knew could give you just
what you don't want. It's beyond me!
Please do not kill your baby because of
your irresponsibility! If you think that
that is right and okay, then please let me
know how. It's not your baby's fault...
It's your own! Oh my goodness! What
is wrong with people! It would be a
totally diffrent story if you used a
condom and it broke or you were on the
pill or something but you had unprotected
sex on purpose! Wow! I'm usaully not
such a mean person but I can't tolerate
something liek this. You want advice...
Okay here is the best I can give you.
Grow up! Start praying and get very
close to .God! You will be in my
prayers.
God bless,
teresa
i agree with u.After reading your post, I
just notice she mentions about advice to
miscarry.
Omg girl u dont wanna miscarry. Give some
credit here for people who have
miscarried. Just live with the
irresponsibilitys u and your bf have done.
Abort if thats your way out but I feel
for the baby.
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numomie1
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Dec 2005 Posts: 20 Location: wisconsin
to Victoriapink Posted: 01-06-06 18:47pm
I cant believe someone would want to take
a pill to miscarry their child. A child
is god's gift of life. He gives you this
child to take care of for him until he is
ready to call him/her back home. God
does not give you this responsibility so
that you can get rid of it. You did this
to yourself and I believe that you should
have to take care of it and love it like
it deserves. This child did nothing to
you but become something you never wanted.
Now step up and be a mother and be who
this child needs and expects you to be.
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BaByGiRl222
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Jan 2006 Posts: 1 Location: calgary
Posted: 01-06-06 19:30pm
Hey guys wow im sorry to hear about your
parents!! Im only 16 and have a son who
is almost 3 months but I would die for him
I hate when people sit there and say that
they are going to ruin their lives because
they got pragnent believe me everybody
told me that and it hasnt ruined mine you
just dont do as much as you used to! Yeah
you might struggle a little bit me and my
b.F both have well payin jobs and we still
have problems with money sometimes *not
usually* but still I wouldnt worry too
much about tellin your mom my parents
didnt find out until I was over 6 months
pragnent and they still took it well which
amazed me very much! If they love you
very much like they should then the last
thing that should be on their minds is
kickin you out of their house!! :d
