Gf Unable to Have An Orgasm? Posted: 10-04-04 16:50pm
My girlfriend was sexually molested a few
years ago and she said the gyno told her
she is unable to have an orgasm because of
what the molester did(he shoved his entire
fist inside her) she said that her hymen
was torn in more than one place and thats
why. I thought the hymen had nothing to
do with that and some girls dont even have
one. Could it be something else damaged
by what he did? If thats true cant she
still have an orgasm by clitoral
stimulation? I love her more than
anything and I want her to enjoy it when
we do stuff.
Having an orgasm isnt just physical it has
alot to do with the head. Maybe this
molestation she went thru has caused some
emotional problems, which is very common.
Until she deals with the trauma she went
thru it may never be possible. As for the
physical aspect of it im not sure.
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Demore
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Sep 2004 Posts: 68 Location: Australia
Posted: 10-11-04 00:59am
Man that would hurt. I've been sexually
active for 6 years and you still can't get
more much in there. as
for the physical problem causing her to
not orgasm she would have had to been
emensely scard inside, which would mean
spikes and such. The hymen does not have
any nerve endings that can lead to an
orgasm so that is not why she doesn't
orgasm. Her g-spot would have to be
ripped to shreads and her clit would have
to but cut off. So it's definately the
mental side of the situation. A friend of
mine was molested as a child by her female
baby sitter and even though she wasn't
physically damaged she's selfconcious she
doesn't have sex. Neither does she feel
comfortable being naked.
So even it is possiblefor her body to give
her internal or external stimulation,
doesn't mean her mind will. These wounds
take time to heal.
I don't mean to be gory with all the
cutting and spikes, but it's true. I know
a fair bit about rape.
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as
for the physical problem causing her to
not orgasm she would have had to been
emensely scard inside, which would mean
spikes and such. The hymen does not have
any nerve endings that can lead to an
orgasm so that is not why she doesn't
orgasm. Her g-spot would have to be
ripped to shreads and her clit would have
to but cut off. So it's definately the
mental side of the situation. A friend of
mine was molested as a child by her female
baby sitter and even though she wasn't
physically damaged she's selfconcious she
doesn't have sex. Neither does she feel
comfortable being naked.
