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Sex for the first time
Posted: 10-06-03 22:10pm
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I'm not sure if I am or not. I didn't go
all the way with this guy but he did
pentrate, he didn't ejaculate but I heard
u could get pregnant from the
pre-ejaculate. He did wear a condom
though, that was my first time and I made
him stop before we went all the way b/c I
didn't wanna do it, and I got my period
last month but I have an irregular one so
I dunno if i'll get it this month but i'm
scared b/c I heard that u may think its
your period but its really just vaginal
bleeding. ( i'm so scared someone please
help me )
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Posted: 10-06-03 22:16pm
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I think you're probably just fine. If you
didn't have sex for very long and he
didn't go ahead and ejaculate, then the
chances of sperm penetrating is very slim.
Your period is probably messed up because
you've been stressing out over getting
pregnant. Don't worry about it, i'm 99.9%
sure that you're not pregnant. If you
feel this worried, then go to planned
parenthood and get on birth control. This
way you'll be adequately prepared the next
time you want to have sex with your
boyfriend. Don't be scared, you're ok.
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Posted: 10-06-03 22:21pm
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But I am only 14 years old, i'm soooo
scared my mom would literally kill me.
There is nothing I regret more than
letting him penetrate he pushed a few
times but thats it, I am going crazy and
my stomach seems to be hurting more than
usual, but I kinda thinks its just a
stomach virus cause I seem to have fever
too.
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Posted: 10-06-03 22:26pm
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Yes, you are definately being paranoid.
Every girl goes through this the first
time she has sex. It's because our
parents have threatened us with pregnancy
if we have sex. I went through this very
thing when I lost my virginity. It also
caused my period to be late and that
really scared me. But I was fine and I
didn't get pregnant until I wanted to.
I will not preach to you about having sex,
but I will say this: don't do it if you're
not ready. If you'll feel this scared
every time, then it's not worth it. Also,
you want to think about what you'd do if
you did get pregnant. If you don't feel
like that's something you could do, then
not having sex is definately the safest
birth control. So, if you do plan on
remaining sexually active, go ahead and
get some birth control. I promise, you're
fine. If he was wearing a condom and only
put it in you for a little while, the
precum couldn't have even hurt you.
Feel free to discuss any more concerns
don't worry, ok?
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Posted: 10-06-03 22:28pm
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First of all, let me commend you both for
at least having the sense to use a
condom--that was a very smart move!
There is no way of knowing right now if
this just happend. You would have to
wait until the time you think your period
is due. When that time comes around,
take a test if you are unsure.
The fact that you are not feeling well
could be stress related. I won't say
don't think about it, but know that by at
least using a condom, you did lessen your
chances (not by 100%).
Please keep us updated and take care
*hug*
missbuttons (who really is a mrs.)
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Posted: 10-06-03 22:34pm
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Thanks u guys, I will never have sex again
until i'm married, I feel alot better, but
just to be safe how would I go about
getting a pregnancy test w/o my mom
knowing???
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Posted: 10-06-03 23:14pm
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Well, you would first of all need to wait
and see if you miss a period. If you do
miss one, go to planned parenthood. Look
in the phone book to see where the closest
one is. They'll give you one for 7-10
dollars.
If you don't miss a period, then you're
fine.
Good luck
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Posted: 10-06-03 23:19pm
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Yea but I miss periods regularly b/c my
cycle is irregular, so if I miss one it
may or may not mean anything
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Posted: 10-06-03 23:22pm
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I know that you're worried, but I promise
you're fine. If he put it in and took it
out and was wearing a condom and didn't
ejaculate, then precum couldn't have even
gotten in. You will have to atleast wait
a month from the time this happened before
you can find out. But like I said, i'm
99.9% sure you're not.
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Posted: 10-06-03 23:33pm
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Its been more than a month and i've
already gotten my period once already for
last month, when that happened with him it
was august 9th and I got my period
somewhere in mid september or earlyish
september, but I heard that it may not
have been my actual period it may have
just been vaginal bleeding, thats why i'm
worried.
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Posted: 10-06-03 23:50pm
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Was it a regular period? The reason
people say that is because some people
will be pregnant and have a light period,
meaning two days of spotting. If you had
a regular period, then there is absolutely
no need to worry.
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Posted: 10-07-03 19:09pm
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Yea my period was regular and really
heavy, hey r u a doctor?
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Posted: 10-07-03 19:38pm
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Sometimes when a woman gets pregnant there
is a spotting period on implantation day.
This will happen after you ovulate and
aftert he egg gets fertilized. If you had
a heavy period or normal period you
probably are not pregnant. If you miss
your next period you will probably need to
go to the doctor. But try not to stress
because that can alter when you start too.
Hang in there.
I am not a doctor but my hubby and I are
trying to get pregnant adn this is
something that we have learned by going to
our Dr.
Good luck
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Posted: 10-07-03 19:48pm
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I pray and hope that i'm not pregnany b/c
i'm wayyyyyyy to young to have a baby and
my mom would literally homicide me.
Thanks for all the help u guys
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Posted: 10-07-03 19:57pm
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Hey I need more help please, i've been
havin stomach problems for the past few
days, and it hasn't been pain but my
stomach has been like bubbling and ppl are
saying its gas, but I just read that your
could have stomach problems from your
uterus opening, help me please
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Posted: 10-07-03 20:02pm
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You need to calm down!! It sounds like
you are making yourself sick with worry,
and that doesn't help. More than
likely, you are not pregnant. Try to
relax and remain calm.
The pain you are experiencing 'sounds'
like gas, especially with the bubbling you
have been feeling.
Please do yourself a favor--try not to
read or research anything for the time
being. It doesn't help things either,
and will probably end up making you more
sick with worry than what you are.
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Posted: 10-07-03 20:05pm
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Well i'm scared and I wouldn't know how to
tell my mom if I actually was pregnant,
i'm like crying over here
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Posted: 10-07-03 20:13pm
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I know you are scared-i went through a
pregnancy scare a few months ago, and i'm
23 and married!
Many people have told you that your
chances of pregnancy are slim to none. I
don't know what else to say to convince
you. But I do know that making yourself
sick won't help things at all.
I wish you all the best hon-good luck!
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Posted: 10-07-03 20:16pm
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Okay thanks I appreciate your helping me
out, I will calm down
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