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alex19
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Posted: 10-06-04 19:54pm
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I know this might sound really horrible
that am asking but this is a need to know
question well recently me and my girl have
decided that having a baby is not the
right time we need to know how to have a
miscarriage without having to get an
abortion but if all fails then thats the
road we will take but any suggestions
please inform me thanks but they have to
be for sure answers thanks a lot
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lady_eliza1
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Posted: 10-06-04 20:00pm
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I cant really give you advice on how to go
about that....But if you are trying to
avoid an abortion...I hate to say, forcing
a miscarriage is not far from abortion.
Its still a life. Changing your mind
after your girlfriend is already
pregnant....Well frankly, thats a bit
late. Perhaps you need to discuss
alternatives like adoption? I hope it
all works out.
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bellax0x
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Posted: 10-06-04 20:36pm
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Youre sick, sick and twisted. You
shouldnt ever have kids, person
<3
gaby
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jessamyn
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Posted: 10-06-04 22:50pm
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I cant believe you would even ask that how
doing it horrible I dont care if you
changed your mind if your arent "ready"
then you arent mture enough to even be
sticking your dick anywhere... Grow up go
back to health class get your gf on birth
control so no child is ever forced to be
stuck with you as a parent. Sorry if I
sound harsh but in the words of my husband
(who is ready for a baby) your part of the
gene pool that needs a little chlorine.
Seriously. Adopt the baby out if need be.
Even if you do change your mind agian you
dont deserve a child. You know at 8 weeks
I heard my babys heart beat how far along
is she.... The baby is a person little
yet significant...! Ass
p.S. To anyone else who comments on that
sorry i'm really not a health forum that
just infuriates me ... Ergha!
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Kia
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Posted: 10-07-04 06:14am
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Someone else posted this a while ago.
Self induced abortion is worse than a
regular abortion, if it is incomplete it
can lead to all sorts of problems
including death.
Take the sensible route, take
responsibilities for your actions. See a
doctor, I think counselling is in order
for both of you.
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JanetBee
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Posted: 10-07-04 06:33am
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The correct term for a miscarriage is
"spontaneous abortion" -- inducing a
miscarriage is exactly the same as having
an abortion. So what you are asking is
simply how to have an abortion without
actually going to a clinic. The usual
methods are the same as what women had to
do without legal abortion -- coathangers,
falling downstairs, injecting poisons
inside, etc. So not a good idea. If you
don't want to continue with the pregnancy,
be grateful that legal abortions are
available.
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2littlegirlz
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MsWebster
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Posted: 10-07-04 08:30am
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Please never have kids both of you are
sick!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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babyonboardnov
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Posted: 11-21-04 18:41pm
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I can't believe you would even consider
something that terrible..You dont deserve
kids or the right to even be able to have
kids..You need to grow up and take
responsibility for your actions...When you
have unprotected sex it comes with the
consequences of becoming pregnant..You are
such a loser...Geez
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mommax3
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Posted: 11-21-04 18:46pm
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Thank god no one is actually posting any
suggestions!!!!!!!!!!!
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Tazzy D
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Posted: 11-21-04 18:47pm
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| babyonboardnov
wrote: | | i can't believe you would
even consider something that terrible..You
dont deserve kids or the right to even be
able to have kids..You need to grow up and
take responsibility for your
actions...When you have unprotected sex it
comes with the consequences of becoming
pregnant..You are such a
loser...Geez |
you know what im not going to even waste
my time to tell you what I think of you
and what you just asked all im going to
say is may god be with your child.
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sarahsweet
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Nikki n Rudy
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Posted: 11-21-04 18:54pm
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This is an old post, but damn! How can
someone actually ask that???? I would
never for the life of me consider a
medical abortion or a self induced.
My grandfather's mom killed herself doing
a self inflicted abortion. She used a
coat hanger and killed her and the baby.
She had done this because she was being
accused of sleeping with someone other
than her husband. No one believed she was
carrying his child. So she decided to end
it, probably not thinking she would kill
herself in the process. My grandfather
was 5 at the time..I can't imagine.
:shaking head:
i agree w/ jess. Chlorine in your gene
pool, please!
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sarahsweet
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Posted: 11-21-04 18:59pm
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Oh my gosh..What a terrible story!! How
sad that is...
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Nikki n Rudy
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Posted: 11-21-04 19:03pm
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It is sad. I never knew about that until
I was about 10. I have never been for an
abortion. I am not even for adoption (for
myself) but I do see adoption a better
choice than ending a baby's life who didnt
scream from the uterus or the penis saying
'have me, have me'. I can't stand anyone
who says they changed their minds on a
baby and want to end it. Please please
please for the love of your body and baby,
just deliver and hand him/her over to
someone who will take better care of
her/him!
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sarahsweet
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Posted: 11-21-04 19:08pm
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No kidding! Im not for abortion
either....At all. I think its selfish.
I know there are certian circumstances,
such as rape, but still, I would have the
baby and if I couldnt bear to look at the
poor child due to the situation, I would
give it up for adoption.
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Kia
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Posted: 11-21-04 19:33pm
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I have to say in the circumstances of rape
you may well think different.
I did. I was at a critical stage in my
life trying to persue a career and I was
raped after my drink was spiked with a
drug.
I could not carry that child, many other
women the world over think the same.
For me in hindsight - well I would
physically have been incapable of carrying
it anyway, and I don't think then I could
have dealt with what I have been through
now either. 7 years ago I was not who I
am today.
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sarahsweet
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Posted: 11-21-04 19:40pm
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Yes, every woman has their own opinion on
this topic.
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mommax3
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Posted: 11-21-04 19:40pm
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| kia_breizzze
wrote: | i have to say in the
circumstances of rape you may well think
different.
I did. I was at a critical stage in my
life trying to persue a career and I was
raped after my drink was spiked with a
drug.
I could not carry that child, many other
women the world over think the same.
For me in hindsight - well I would
physically have been incapable of carrying
it anyway, and I don't think then I could
have dealt with what I have been through
now either. 7 years ago I was not who I
am today. |
oh my god kia, can you imagine going
through what you went through now back
then trying to carry a baby because you
were raped., that would have made it soooo
much harder to deal with.. I think you
made the right choice, I wouldn;t be able
to carry that baby either... Sorry...
And what about someone who is raped by a
family member? Who could carry that
baby?
Last edited by mommax3 on 11-21-04 19:49pm; edited 1 time in total
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l2at24
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Posted: 11-21-04 19:45pm
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They are young and scared. Probably too
scared to inquire about abortion, in case
parents may find out. It still doesn't
make it right.
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