Okay, I have a question for you all. My
boyfriend and I have been sexually active
together since july. I enjoy having sex
with him, along with the foreplay and
other aspects, but whenever we have sex he
cums quickly, like within ten minutes of
entering me. Generally I do orgasm,
because before we have sex he will
manually stimulate me, or orally, but I
would like for the sex to last longer,
because I know that the orgasms i'm having
now are not as good as they could be. Is
there anything that I could do that would
make it last longer? I've heard that
changing the tempo helps, but i'm not sure
how to do that with him on top...
Thanks in advance for all your help.
Daile
This may sound gross but have him
masterbate a couple of hours or so before
if thats possible, cause who knows when
your going to have sex right. This some
times helps. Also have him pull out
several times during sex and do something
else. Good luck
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Heathergirl
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Oct 2004 Posts: 719 Location: Michigan
Posted: 10-14-04 21:05pm
My man would die if he knew I was saying
this...But I have never came....And he
usually lasts less than three
minutes...Lately it's been better....A
little. I would love it if he lasted
ten minutes...Omg. Lol.
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mike69
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Mar 2004 Posts: 6 Location: texas
Posted: 10-14-04 21:13pm
My suggestion would be to change positions
during sex. Him on top, you on top, you
on the edge of the bed, him standing up,
doggie style. The stopping for a while
and moving will slow him down hopefully
letting him last longer.
Mike
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aanifant
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Aug 2004 Posts: 101 Location: Galway
Posted: 10-18-04 10:26am
Tell him to slow down, shallow strokes so
he is stimulating your g-spot. Tell him
to pull all the way out before going in
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misscamie20
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Oct 2004 Posts: 27 Location: ohio
Lucky Posted: 10-19-04 09:04am
Must be nice to get 10 minutes I get like
10 seconds. And he doesnt even get me off
when having intercourse!!! I say suck
it up your lucky as hell !!!! Lol
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kitty2luv
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Oct 2004 Posts: 1089 Location: with my love
Dont Feel Bad Posted: 10-22-04 15:42pm
I never had a guy last more they mayb 5
mins what ashem but I love being on
top its fun for some reson
like some men just dont last long well
many men dont and we get pissed cause they
cant last I never had a oragasim w/ the
guy on top I get my self off
better then nothing I guess
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Daile
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Oct 2004 Posts: 319 Location: Missouri
Posted: 10-23-04 03:28am
Well, I can't stand to be on top. It's
not that I don't enjoy it, because I do,
but I would enjoy it more if it was
longer. I've had boyfriends before that
could last hours, but I never liked it as
much as I do with this guy, even though
he's fast. Next time we're together i'm
going to try some of these suggestions,
though. Thanks for all your help!!!
Daile
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Jag
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Oct 2004 Posts: 4 Location: NY
Re: Lucky Posted: 10-24-04 18:47pm
misscamie20
wrote:
must be nice to get 10
minutes I get like 10 seconds. And he
doesnt even get me off when having
intercourse!!! I say suck it up your
lucky as hell !!!! Lol
what's wrong with u??Other's aren't lucky
- they know they're worth more. Your
boyfriend's selfish and you are allowing
him 2 continue treating you like that.
Wake up people!!!
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zoomer815
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Oct 2004 Posts: 32 Location: South Carolina
Posted: 10-28-04 12:47pm
Unfortunately, we men have a lot of
problems with that. And it's hard to
find anything that really helps.
I have been able to go longer, but it's
not like I can go in-out-in-out for 15-20
minutes straight. I have to stop a bit.
I think a lot of it is psychological.
When I thrusting, and I hear my wife
really enjoying what i'm doing, it really
turns me on. And that speeds things up.
It doesn't matter if i'm thrusting fast
or slow.
So the thing I do is just stop for a
minute, and let the feeling of me wanting
to cum subside and then start back
again.
A lot of things say to have the woman on
top because she can control it, but for me
that is even more difficult for me to stop
it if I get close to cumming. I can tell
her to stop, and she may take just a
couple of extra bounces, and that can put
me over the edge.
Then theres the funny one that they use to
talk about. The squeeze technique.
Where if he started to cum, you were
suppose to squeeze his penis, and stop him
from spurting. The only thing that did
when we tried it was just that. Stopped
it from spurting until she let go. Lol!
Then it shot twice as far! Ha! Ha!
And i'm serious. Maybe we did it wrong
but that's what happend with that.
Well that's my two cents worth on this.
Zoomer
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BeckLyn
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Nov 2004 Posts: 476
More Often Posted: 11-04-04 15:12pm
With my experience it seems that the more
often he has sex, the longer he can last.
I don't know how often you guys get it
on, but maybe you could put more effort
into having it more often.
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Daile
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Oct 2004 Posts: 319 Location: Missouri
Posted: 11-05-04 08:14am
Well, we do it as often as we can...It was
almost every day in july and the beginning
of august, but then I moved away to
college, so I only see him like once a
month now, and only for a couple of
hours...
I guess I shouldn't complain, since i'm
still coming and everything, but I kinda
got spoiled by my ex...He could last,
literally, for hours...Which was
great...But I never came with him...I
guess I should just be happy with what
i've got.
Thanks everyone, for your advice.
Daile
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doola
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Oct 2004 Posts: 22 Location: south carolina
Posted: 11-07-04 15:43pm
Some of them is right make it last longer
by making him satify you first stop before
you know he is going to get off. You will
know when he starts to cum he will start
to tremble, if that start to happen
immedialy take him out,start foreplay or
something. This will work, I have been
married going on eleven years and 41 years
of age and still having sex at least
30mins at a time
but I love being on
top its fun 
for some reson
like some men just dont last long well
many men dont and we get pissed cause they
cant last I never had a oragasim w/ the
guy on top I get my self off 
better then nothing I guess
