I started dathing this guy like over three
months ago, and we have already said the
"i love you" and he's the one to have said
it first, but things seemed so awesome at
the start, we do have long distance
relationship but we usually get to see one
another quiet often, with the exception of
few spans here and there, but at the
beginning I remember we use to go to sleep
he always had to have his arm around me,
and was always telling me how much he
missed me and that stuff, but now its so
rare, part of me is bit worried that the
long distance relationship might be
getting to him or something, but part of
me just thinks it might be the whole
comfortable factor, that now he just feels
he doesn't have to try as much...What do
you think? Bad sign or just comfortable
around me now? Thanks a bunch
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bellax0x
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Jun 2004 Posts: 3572 Location: Jersey Baby!
Posted: 10-16-04 23:27pm
Could be either, try talking to him about
it
<3
gaby
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Daile
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Oct 2004 Posts: 319 Location: Missouri
Posted: 10-18-04 03:18am
I know how you feel. Me and my boyfriend
have been together for four months now,
and the same thing is happening. We used
to be close to each other, and always
touching and stuff, but now we're doing
the long distance thing, and it isn't the
same when we're together anymore. I asked
him about it the other day, like why he
wouldn't hold my hand anymore and stuff
like that, and he said he didn't want to
embarrass me. Apparently one of his
smarta s s friends said they didn't
believe he could get a girlfriend, and now
he thinks he isn't good enough for me!!
It's sooooo frustrating, because nothing I
say helps!! Does anyone have any ideas on
how to make him believe me? I really love
this guy, and I want him to be comfortable
with me. Please help!
Daile
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domini
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Oct 2004 Posts: 2 Location: England
Posted: 10-20-04 05:52am
Hi,
first of all it isnt anything you are
doing wrong. What his friend has said
about him not being able to get a
girlfriend has really upset him and
probably feels a bit low in himself. What
you need to do is build up the confidence
in him. Even though you probably do make
him feel special just try by being a bit
more affectionate.
What you also need to make him realize is
that mroe than likely this other person is
jealous that he has a girlfriend and is
trying to knock his confidence so they can
feel better themselves. Dont worry about
because if you truely love him things will
be ok and you will get through the
problem.
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bellax0x
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Jun 2004 Posts: 3572 Location: Jersey Baby!
