So my boyfriend and I had been trying for
a baby for about two months. Everything
was great. In fact, better than great.
And we were both so excited and happy.
We'd done the whole ovuation tracking
chart, and everything else. Then about a
month ago, we started having money
problems. I suggsted that I should maybe
get back on the pill because of that, but
he told me everything would be fine and he
didn't want me to. Then a week later he
hits me with "i think we moved too fast in
our relationship". He's been so distant,
and he doesn't want to hear another word
about anything having to do with trying to
get pregnant. And all of a sudden he's
not happy.
But...
It's been about 7 weeks since I had a
"normal" period. My last was about 3
weeks ago, but it was very abnormal for
me. It was only about 3 days, and mine
are usually almost a week long. I know I
should get a test, but i'm terrified about
what the results could be. I'm scared
that if I am it's only going to piss him
off more and he'll be outta here in a
heart beat. I know he's not that kind of
person, but with how unhappy he says he
is, it just makes me wonder. I guess i'm
asking if anybody has been in a situation
like this, and has any advice for how to
approach this whole thing. Guess I should
have thought this out more three months
ago, huh?
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jessamyn
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Posted: 10-21-04 17:42pm
Going on and off the pill could be causing
the odd periods. But if your still
worried wait a week or two and test...
Still adnormal periods or no period see
your doc
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JessM4283
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Joined: 28 Jun 2004 Posts: 23
Posted: 10-21-04 18:37pm
I could understand that if I had been on
and off agfain with it. But I haven't
been on it at all for almost 4 months now.
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JessM4283
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Jun 2004 Posts: 23
Posted: 10-21-04 18:38pm
I could understand the werid period if I
had been on and off again with it. But I
haven't been on the pill for almost 3
months now.