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gurl_frompville

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Am I Still a Virgin???
Posted: 10-23-04 20:09pm

I have a question...Well more than one. I was a virgin until the other day..I think. The last couple nights ago...My boyfriend and I were making out and next thing I know...We had oral sex and than I let him put it in me...And it hurt too much that I told him to take it out. It wasn't even in halfway and it hurt. Last night, I let him do the same thing...But he actually got it in all the way. He didnt cum at all. He didn't go all the way. And he wasn't wearing a condom for the 2 times he did. But there was one time he did wear a condom. I didn't bleed though. He said he never came. Am I still a virgin even tho he didn't pop my cherry and...Is there a chance I could be pregnant? And we did do dry humping. There is no way to get pregnant that way right? Any help I can get...Would be grateful. Thanks! :d
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Magic_Tinkerbell

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Re: Am I Still a Virgin???
Posted: 10-23-04 22:53pm

Okay...Um... In my opinion, no you aren't a virgin anymore. If a guy puts his penis inside of you....You've lost your virginity regaurdless if he poped you're cherry or not. No, you can't get pregnant from having dry sex. Yes you most certainly can get pregnant from pre-cum if you're man doesn't wear a condom...Even if he didn't really cum. Believe me, i'v been through it!!! My advice is, if you are going to continue to have sex, use protection. There are alot of diseases out there...And it's easier than you may think it is to get pregnant!!! Good luck!!!!
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MonsterKitty

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Hola
Posted: 10-23-04 23:54pm

Well even when you do pop the cherry it dosent always have to bleed...Mine didnt
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PattyV

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Posted: 10-24-04 15:24pm

Nope ,not a virgin anymore.You may have lost your hymen due to sports or tampon use.Not eveyone bleeds their first time.Please do not have sex again without some form of birth control!!Pre-ejaculate fluid has semen in it!And the guy does not know that he has released this fluid!Please use birth control,you are playing russian roulette!Patty
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kitty2luv

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Posted: 10-25-04 13:33pm

I dont think my "cherry poped" im not sure I had sex many time but only one I can rember is when I first rode a guy I bled Embarassed and the blood got on his white pants ut oh lol but I dont kno nut hunny your not a virgin any more when I lost mine the guy didnt get it in all the way but it still went in and as patty said some sort of b/c
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nippz

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Posted: 10-26-04 19:34pm

Nope not a virgin. Did ur cherry pop?
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gurl_frompville

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Posted: 10-26-04 22:19pm

He had it in me....For awhile but it didn't go that far to where he came.
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nippz

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Posted: 10-26-04 22:45pm

Ehh well I can't really say and judge because I wasn't the one experiencing it.
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Daile

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Posted: 10-28-04 04:53am

If it was in you, you're not a virgin. It doesn't matter if he came, or if your cherry popped, or anything like that. If his penis was inside you, you lost your virginity!

Daile
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oangelc543

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Posted: 10-29-04 15:25pm

You arent a virgin and u can get pregnant.
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2ferano

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Posted: 10-31-04 17:08pm

Yes, if you were penetrated then you are not a virgin anymore.
And most women don't have a hymen by the time they have sex anyway, so you really cannot go by that.
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sheilaif

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If You Cant Answer Those Questions
Posted: 11-01-04 13:11pm

If you cant answer those questions yourself you shouldnt be doing it. Does anyone educate themselves before putting their self at these hugh risk?
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Heathergirl

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Posted: 11-02-04 03:51am

You are not a virgin. Listen to this: my name is heather, but 90% of my friends call me......... Virg. This nickname is even tattooed on me. Bc I was the only virgin left between the group of friends I grew up with. And then one day I let my bastarrrd boyfriend talk me into (while I was drunk) sleeping with him.....I was 18, and he put it in about 1/8th of the way, and I bled, and made him stop bc I knew it wasn't right. But honey, I wasn't "virg" anymore! I knew I had lost it, but my friends still know me only as virg, and insist in calling me that. Now, however, I am madly in love and in a long term relationship with my bf, whom I live with. And we do have sex, often, lol. He is the only man I count. I say i've been with one man, but I know deep in my heart, i'm cheating.
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sally20

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Right.....
Posted: 11-02-04 11:41am

From what you said, you are definately not a virgin, he entered you, so no. If you use tampons you may find you have "popped your own", I hate that term. If he didnt cum, you cant be pregnant but you are still vulnerable to std's if you do not use protection. Depends on his history. Dont do anything your not happy with though chick, he's lucky he's your first.
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swimmer

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Posted: 11-10-04 14:08pm

Ya know, this reminds me of a story my friend told me one time...She said to me "amanda, he put it in me and took it out so fast it was like a sneeze- achoo- and then it was gone"- my dear, you are no longer a vrigin- when its in, its in- doesnt matter if your "cherry was popped" ( who the hell thought of that expression anyways), you arent a virgin-
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PattyV

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Yes,you Can Get Preggy If He Does Not Come!!!
Posted: 11-10-04 14:13pm

Yes,you can get pregnant if the guy does not come!!!!!Arghhhhhh!Pre-ejaculate fluid has sperm in it -that is why so many ladies get pregnant, even if the guy does not come inside of her!!!!Patty
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swimmer

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Posted: 11-10-04 14:25pm

What ever happened to sex ed?
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kitty2luv

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Posted: 11-10-04 14:40pm

Sex is sucks lol they dont talk about caca liek that in skool
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vengence1171

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Posted: 06-05-05 22:21pm

Ummm can you get pregnant if the guy sticks it in there but doesnt do the motions or anything
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Lucyinthesky005

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Posted: 06-06-05 17:15pm

Just because he didn't "pop your cherry" doesn't mean your not a virgin... Everybodies is different,some girls are very sensitive and it could pop from anything...My cherry didn't pop until the second time, and you can get pregnant even if he didn't cum,sometimes the pre can be more potent then load.
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