What is the quickest way to relieve manic/depression passion?
Cry
50%
[ 2 ]
Written word
0%
[ 0 ]
Talking to a close friend
25%
[ 1 ]
Sleep
25%
[ 1 ]
Exercise
0%
[ 0 ]
Total Votes : 4
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putznutz
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Oct 2004 Posts: 3 Location: West Coast
Are Any of You An Emotional Sponge? Posted: 10-24-04 16:17pm
I swear I take on any and all feelings or
situations I come across. From as simple
as feeling tearful at a hallmark
commercial, to feeling fear, and paranoia
after someone shares of their severe
abuse. I take it on and then I can't get
rid of it.
Any suggestions on how to set up emotional
walls so that my house doesn't collapse
everytime the wind blows?
How do I say "no" to my sister who is
bipolar also, when I am fragile myself?
Shouldn't this intense abilitiy to
empathize be used to our benifit?
I guess I just want to know if I am the
only one or if this fluxuating passion and
intense emotional reponce to outside
influences belongs to the disease?
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Azrael
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Oct 2004 Posts: 7 Location: In my house ;o)
Posted: 10-25-04 02:46am
I am beginning to recognise just how much
I do this.... I seem to not only take on
other peoples emotions but also a lot of
their personality like accent and
mannerism when I am with them/talking to
them. Its almost like I am not 'me'..
Just this big empty white canvas, or a
chameleon taking on the colours of its
surroundings. Unfortunately I can't offer
any advice on how to stop this.
As for your sister.... Do you live with
her? My father is very controlling but
also needy and if I am not up to talking
with him, I just ignore the phone when it
rings and if its anyone else who I feel I
am able to talk to I will phone them back,
and I will call my dad when I feel better.
Maybe try gently suggesting to your
sister that she call an external helpline
for advice sometimes. Or agree a code
between the 2 of you so that you can both
communicate when you feel unable to deal
with the other... As I am sure if she is
bipolar then she must have times where she
feels the same as you?