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1sttimemama

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Posted: 10-25-04 12:12pm

Its true that not having drugs is sooo much better for the baby, thats what I plan on doing. I even want a water birth. I m doing a bunch of reading on active birth, you should check it out if you havent already

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1sttimemama

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Posted: 10-25-04 12:17pm

The midwives that acompany you are trained to know when and if you should be going to the hospital. Plus the percentage of complications is so small. Women have been giving birth alone or without doctors for thousands of years. Western medicine has turned pregnancy into a medical condition when really its just the end of a natural process that comes after having sex. Plus women who are at risk for having a high risk pregnancy or delivery are advised and even stopped from having a home birth
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IDABABY

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Posted: 10-25-04 12:18pm

You still never know, I still like the idea of the at home water birth, sounds wonderful!

-kristin
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1sttimemama

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Posted: 10-25-04 12:19pm

Thats true, kristin...And doesnt it sound wonderful!?
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Posted: 10-25-04 12:26pm

1sttimemama wrote:
estern medicine has turned pregnancy into a medical condition when really its just the end of a natural process that comes after having sex.


yeah, but you can't deny the number of stillbirths and deaths of mothers during childbirth has dramatically decreased as a result.
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IDABABY

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Posted: 10-25-04 12:30pm

I found this website...That talks about home births vs hospital just the safetys of it.
"i think "what if I need a c-section?" is the number one question most people ask about home birth. The thing is, in a birth that's being closely monitored by a compitent birth care provider, it's extraordinarily rare that a c-section situation would come up so suddenly that not being at the hospital causes a problem.

In hospitals, women usually (though not always) labor mostly on their own and the doctor checks on them once in a while and shows up when she calls the nurse because she's ready to push. This means that problems often go undetected until they're at the emergency level.

Also, in hospitals, a number of things are done as protocol either out of convenience for the doctor or hospital staff, or as a "cya" consession to their malpractice insurance. These things are not always in the interest of an individual mother or her baby. Although it's true that many women have no problem with epidurals, narcotics, labor inducers, and artificially broken waters, not all women are so lucky. The main thing that leads to "emergency" c-sections is hospital intervention. Drugs and monitors that keep a woman flat on her back mean a higher likelihood of a stalled labor, which in turn means a higher likelihood of a c-section.

At home, a good midwife is with the woman most or all of the time. Usually, she has an assistant who is with the woman when the primary midwife can't be. Most midwives listen frequently to the baby's heartbeat and keep a close eye on the woman and how she is reacting to labor. They anticipate problems before they happen, and keep them from getting worse. This is also true concerning the pre-natal care and the birth preparation. It's all centered around preventing problems as opposed to responding to them once they arise. As my midwife put it, "we have a vested interest in keeping you low-risk, because once you're not low-risk anymore, we lose you as a client."

another thing to remember is that it takes time to prepare a doctor and or for an emergency c-section even if the laboring woman is in the hospital to begin with. A good midwife will spot the problem at least as early (often much earlier) than an ob would. She can then call the hospital ahead of time so they are prepared for the arrival of the woman and they can summon the doctor. By the time the woman arrives, the nesthesiologist has the spinal ready and the doctors are all scrubbed up. The fact is, in most cases, the time between "decision to incision" when an emergency c-section is necessary is not any longer than it is when the woman is laboring in the hospital. And, since the decision itself is often made sooner (because of a more attentive birth attendant) the safety is actually increased. Of course the distance to the hospital is a factor in this and i'm not sure I would try a home birth if there weren't a hospital within 30 minutes of my home (in fact there's one within 10 minutes).

My midwife is actually a naturopathic doctor (she does gynecology care, too) and she has all the training that a normal family doctor would have, plus midwifery. She's not a surgeon, so if we went to a hospital she wouldn't be the one doing a c-section. But she does bring with her all of the emergency equipment that's normally available in a delivery room. She brings pitocin (not for labor but to stop bleeding afterward if necessecary), antibiotics, infant recussitation equipment, a whole buch of other stuff I don't remember, and another nd as well as an assistant. That way if there's a problem and both the mother and the baby need special attention after the delivery, there's a doctor for each one of them. I really feel like if i'm ever blessed with another child, that i'll be in very good hands with her.

Of course, there will always be people who end up with an incompetent midwife who botches the whole thing, doesn't pay close enough attention, and/or doesn't transport soon enough or refuses to transport when it's necessary to do so. But then again, there are just as many of these stories about incompetent obs or other types of doctors. Birth can become dangerous when improperly attended. But a good homebirth midwife should be able to keep a woman and her baby safe and healthy at least as well as a good ob in a hospital can do. There are never any guarantees... There are some problems that come up that neither a midwife nor a doctor can solve. But that's the risk we take when we become parents - in fact, when we choose to live life at all.

The other thing I think of is all the other things we do in life which are more dangerous than childbirth. We don't drive our cars in the hospital, learn to ride our bicycles in the hospital, or play sports in the hospital. Instead, we go about our lives, and when something goes wrong, that's when we go to the hospital. Sometimes it's true that we don't make it there in time. But that's not any more true for childbirth than it is for other things we do in life." - http://www.Rainbowapp le.Com/homebirth.Html :d
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1sttimemama

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Posted: 10-25-04 12:32pm

But you also have to look at alll the problems taht can occur due to putting drugs in you body at the time of birth.... I cant speak for anyone else but the thought of having an oxy drip to speed up contractions after they were slowed down by some other drug just doesnt sound like any fun...But I hear where your coming from. I just dont want my baby born drugged
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Posted: 10-25-04 12:37pm

Cat, I know what you are saying, its like my baby is going to be a drug addict before it even gets into the world.

-kristin
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1sttimemama

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Posted: 10-25-04 12:39pm

There you go again kristin...Thanks that helped a whole bunch...Youre my hero!! Laughing
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IDABABY

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Posted: 10-25-04 12:44pm

I just find you so interesting...About your active birth. I never thought about it before because I didn't think I had the money for it ya know? But after thinking about it...Im getting extremely interested in it. Lol. Hehe..So really you are my hero!

-kristin
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1sttimemama

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Posted: 10-25-04 12:46pm

I felt the same way at first, with the money issue. But I found out medicaid covers it, so I can't see why real insurances wouldn't.
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1sttimemama

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Posted: 10-25-04 12:50pm

I'm checkin out for a while to take a shower and get dressed, my boyfriend will be home from work soon I dont want him to think I did nothing all day....Even though thats what I did!!


If you want feel free to email me: f ormonedarkflame@yahoo.Com.

Bye
---cat
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Posted: 10-25-04 12:58pm

Well you can have docs there and you have to have an oncall ambulence so yeah Smile
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