I know you guys are probably tired of
hearing me, but I was just wondering, if
anyone has any ideas to keep cool, when
you and your signafagent other are
fighting, I am tired of fighting, and dont
have the strength to do it, so I am just
going to to let him do what ever, I am
thinking of going to go to the doctor and
get some happy pilss to help me through
this
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linuxChique
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 May 2004 Posts: 4535
Posted: 10-24-04 20:50pm
i'm sorry you're
having trouble... Maybe count to three in
your head before every response... I
dunno... I hope things get better for you
two!
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bellax0x
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Jun 2004 Posts: 3572 Location: Jersey Baby!
Posted: 10-24-04 20:53pm
Aw im sorry. Maybe you should go out with
your friends to try to forget about it for
a lil
<3
gaby
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IDABABY
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Mar 2004 Posts: 2236 Location: ***Wisconsin Baby***
Posted: 10-24-04 20:58pm
Think about what you would do without him
in your life, if he ever got taken away
from you. That helps me cool and be
lovey. We always talk through our
problems with each other, when we have
fights. I wouldn't suggest happy
pills....Because that isn't going to make
the problem go away. Ya know?
-kristin
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Michelle1337
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Aug 2004 Posts: 1739 Location: Houston, Texas
Posted: 10-24-04 20:59pm
Everytime you start to fight...Tell him to
get completely naked and go lay in the
bath tub. And then you go put down the
toilet seat and sit next to him. And
continue to fight. If you can fight with
him laying in the bathtub naked, your
crazy!
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CAMAROGIRL82
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Aug 2004 Posts: 96
Posted: 10-24-04 21:00pm
Thanks guys your the best, I hope it works
out to, (he is the baby of his family and
you can tell), and my daughter has gotten
so attached to him that she calls him dad
(her real dad left me when I told him I
was pregnant, and never heard from him
again, and she is 5 years now, so that was
five years ago) he just wants everything
his way and he dont care who he hurts just
as long as he gets its his way. So for
the sake of the kids I just hope that if I
let him do what he wants for a while that
he might grow up and ralize that is more
to life than his stupid friends and car.
Tonight was supposed to have been my night
to relax and unwind, but he just had to go
with his friends, I just left it go and he
left. I was so pissed. Sry, a little
stressed, but thanks again
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kitty_55
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Aug 2003 Posts: 1473 Location: Canada
Posted: 10-24-04 22:02pm
Hey take a nice bath if you have a dog
take the dog for a nice long walk, scream
in a pillow listen to music really loud
and sing your lil heart out hehe
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BbyBlu0602
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Feb 2004 Posts: 822 Location: Virginia
Posted: 10-24-04 22:19pm
To deal with my frustrations I put in a
good song and sing a long.
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bd1012
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 May 2004 Posts: 1998
Posted: 10-24-04 23:05pm
When frusturated.. I blast loud rock
music and sometimes I clean
hence why i'm going deaf practically
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jessamyn
Moderator
Joined: 18 Aug 2004 Posts: 4107 Location: San Diego, CA
Thanks: 11
Thanked:3
Posted: 10-25-04 00:45am
Paul and I argued all day today not really
fighting but like biting at each other ya
know? We never really do that but today
was crazy...
So like hes like medical question I am
just gunna sleep on the floor so i'm like
whatever
anyways it continued to "whats wrong"
"nothing" and all that crap... So yeah
then like I finally just closed the door
turned off the lights grabbed a blanket
and got down on the floor with him and put
my arms around him...
You gotta be the bigger person find a way
to compromise hun even if it makes you
upset... Find a way to make him laugh and
just kiss and make up... Fighting hurts
you and the baby...
Smile for a mile and just know it will
work because you love each other...
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lauren22
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Jun 2004 Posts: 647 Location: Alabama
Posted: 10-25-04 01:23am
michelle1337
wrote:
everytime you start to
fight...Tell him to get completely naked
and go lay in the bath tub. And then
you go put down the toilet seat and sit
next to him. And continue to fight.
If you can fight with him laying in the
bathtub naked, your
crazy!
you guys give great advice, but michelle's
is by far the best!
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Kia
Supporter
Joined: 23 Jun 2004 Posts: 6594 Location: Planet Tampaxia,
Posted: 10-25-04 04:46am
The strongest thing to do is walk away
from a fight.
Then talk when you have both calmed
down.
However in a confrontational situation, to
give yourself an edge never look the other
person in the eyes but look instead at a
spot on their forshead between their eyes.
They still think you are looking at them
but you aren't and this can be all it
takes.
Remember at school when you used to see
who could stare each other out for longest
- do this and you will always win that
game.
But seriously, it's best not to fight, try
to find somwthing to diffuse the
situation, even if it's just saying "i'm
not going to have this conversation right
now".
i'm sorry you're
having trouble... Maybe count to three in
your head before every response... I
dunno... I hope things get better for you
two!
