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kitty2luv
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Oct 2004
Posts: 1089
Location: with my love
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I Cant
Posted: 10-25-04 12:11pm
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For some reason sex isnt good I can never
have a orgasim and I know it might not be
me mayb its the guy I have no clue does
any one have n n suggestions
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Sarah Jane
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Oct 2004
Posts: 4
Location: Canada
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It's Not That Hard
Posted: 10-25-04 16:41pm
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So you can never have an orgasim??? Have
you ever tried to just do it yourself???
I can tell you one thing i've learned to
be able to have multiple orgasims all by
learning more about myself and helping out
my partner by not making him do all the
work. Play with yourself let him watch.
It may sound awkward but it works! You
have to find out what turns you on and
then tell him to do it this way or that
way... Do you get it??? Kind of like
masterbation but it's not cause your just
furthering you knowledge in the sexual
world. Good luck.
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kitty2luv
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Oct 2004
Posts: 1089
Location: with my love
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Ok
Posted: 10-25-04 18:56pm
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I will try and see what happends i'll let
ya kno
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aanifant
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Aug 2004
Posts: 101
Location: Galway
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Posted: 10-28-04 08:24am
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Hi,
masterbation is great but orgasms from
masrerbation are usually very short, high
intensity and coming from only one
spot--your clitoris. Most people's
solutions to unfulfilling sex is the whole
do it yourself advice. I would say yes,
masterbate but do it when your are
alone--it is so much more fun without a
guy gawking at you!!
As for sex most men do not know about a
woman's g-spot. It is a very sensitive
spot right behind your pubic bone on the
upper inner wall of your vaginal canal.
During sex it's stimulated when the man
uses shallow strokes, not deep
penetration, goes very slowly and pulls
all the way out. The kind of orgasms
from the vaginal are exactly what you may
heard about women's orgasms. They are
like an overwhelming emotional, explosive
feeling of pleasure that happens
throughout you. There are several books
on it if you are interested.
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kitty2luv
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Oct 2004
Posts: 1089
Location: with my love
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Yea I Am
Posted: 10-28-04 12:40pm
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What are they called c like I can get my
self off when I am riden a guy and taht
bout it my friend trys to convince me to
get a vibrator but I wont
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oangelc543
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2004
Posts: 521
Location: TX
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Posted: 10-30-04 18:01pm
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Some women cant orgasm from sex.. Have u
ever had oral sex performed on you?..It's
sort of hard.. I dont know, when your a
teenager.. Neither you or your partner
may know what your really doing
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kitty2luv
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Oct 2004
Posts: 1089
Location: with my love
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True
Posted: 10-30-04 18:11pm
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But im with a older guy that seems like he
knows what he doing but he a mintue man so
mayb that it
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2ferano
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Dec 2003
Posts: 3717
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Posted: 10-31-04 17:32pm
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Orgasm, minute, maybe.
Okay that was the lesson for the day.
You need to find you a man who can last,
you know, a real man. And also someone
who actually tries to get you off. That
would help a great deal.
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kitty2luv
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Joined: 22 Oct 2004
Posts: 1089
Location: with my love
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Yea
Posted: 10-31-04 18:52pm
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I kno I need a real man if there is any
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zoomer815
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Oct 2004
Posts: 32
Location: South Carolina
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a Guy's Point of View
Posted: 11-04-04 13:57pm
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Hey,
i am married, and so far the only way i've
gotten my wife to orgasm is either with me
using my hand, or doing oral on her.
I don't last forever, but it's not real
quick either. I know that making sure
you are very aroused before you start will
certainly help. One thing that i've
tried to convince her to do is to touch
herself while i'm inside of her. I know
most positions aren't right to stimulate
the proper spot, but if there was other
stimulation at the same time, it might
help.
Ok. That was my point of view.
Zoomer
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zoomer815
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Oct 2004
Posts: 32
Location: South Carolina
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a Guy's Point of View
Posted: 11-04-04 13:57pm
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Hey,
i am married, and so far the only way i've
gotten my wife to orgasm is either with me
using my hand, or doing oral on her.
I don't last forever, but it's not real
quick either. I know that making sure
you are very aroused before you start will
certainly help. One thing that i've
tried to convince her to do is to touch
herself while i'm inside of her. I know
most positions aren't right to stimulate
the proper spot, but if there was other
stimulation at the same time, it might
help.
Ok. That was my point of view.
Zoomer
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zoomer815
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Oct 2004
Posts: 32
Location: South Carolina
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a Guy's Point of View
Posted: 11-04-04 13:57pm
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Hey,
i am married, and so far the only way i've
gotten my wife to orgasm is either with me
using my hand, or doing oral on her.
I don't last forever, but it's not real
quick either. I know that making sure
you are very aroused before you start will
certainly help. One thing that i've
tried to convince her to do is to touch
herself while i'm inside of her. I know
most positions aren't right to stimulate
the proper spot, but if there was other
stimulation at the same time, it might
help.
Ok. That was my point of view.
Zoomer
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zoomer815
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Oct 2004
Posts: 32
Location: South Carolina
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Posted: 11-04-04 13:58pm
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Hey,
i am married, and so far the only way i've
gotten my wife to orgasm is either with me
using my hand, or doing oral on her.
I don't last forever, but it's not real
quick either. I know that making sure
you are very aroused before you start will
certainly help. One thing that i've
tried to convince her to do is to touch
herself while i'm inside of her. I know
most positions aren't right to stimulate
the proper spot, but if there was other
stimulation at the same time, it might
help.
Ok. That was my point of view.
Zoomer
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zoomer815
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Oct 2004
Posts: 32
Location: South Carolina
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Posted: 11-04-04 13:58pm
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Hey,
i am married, and so far the only way i've
gotten my wife to orgasm is either with me
using my hand, or doing oral on her.
I don't last forever, but it's not real
quick either. I know that making sure
you are very aroused before you start will
certainly help. One thing that i've
tried to convince her to do is to touch
herself while i'm inside of her. I know
most positions aren't right to stimulate
the proper spot, but if there was other
stimulation at the same time, it might
help.
Ok. That was my point of view.
Zoomer
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Renae
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Nov 2004
Posts: 3
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Posted: 11-08-04 02:40am
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I would really like to orgasim but I cant.
My boyfriend would really like me to
too. We havent had sex yet and we arent
in that point in our relationship yet.
What can he do while just using his
fingers or his tongue that can help me to
orgasim?
I have never yet had an orgasim, I am
young and inexperienced so I do not really
know what to expect. What does it exacly
feel like? How will I know when I have
had one?
I would really appreciate your advice.
Thanks
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wajldc
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Nov 2004
Posts: 47
Location: Maryland
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Posted: 11-09-04 09:01am
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I had the same problem with my ex
boyfriend. I know this sounds stupid but
my ex-boyfriend's penis was actually
bigger than my current one and my current
one is always able to give me at least one
orgasm during sex. I think i'm a little
more relaxed with my boyfriend now.
Maybe you could try to relax and not think
about it. Whenever I really try to have
one it doesn't come but when I just relax
and enjoy sex it always does.
To me they feel kind of like pleasurable
muscle contractions.
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BeckLyn
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Nov 2004
Posts: 476
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Posted: 11-09-04 13:18pm
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Just thought i'd give my input. I have
never came from oral or fingers. Only
from riding. My mom (i know this sounds
wierd but we have a strange relationship)
has only came from herself (a guy has
never made her cum). Some girls just
aren't as comfortable doing it a certain
way or as comf. With who their with. I
think I just like to be in control so its
hard for me to relax and let go.
Everyone is diff. So it doesn't matter if
you can't cum or only can in certain
ways----it may make it more fun and
challenging for your man!
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kitty2luv
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Oct 2004
Posts: 1089
Location: with my love
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Posted: 11-09-04 13:37pm
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Omg me 2 I only cum when I am riding the
guy weird huh I guess that my way of
getting off then cause the guys doesnt
help it so hey as long as we get off some
how
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swimmer
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Nov 2004
Posts: 65
Location: Utopia
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Posted: 11-10-04 12:39pm
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First question is, have you ever gotten
yourself off? Not to be crude, but you
cant expect a guy to do it for you if you
cant do it yourself- the women that say no
"they dont masturbate" are lying- everyone
does it lol, just no one wants to admit
it- so, if your guy isnt doing it for ya,
I say give it a try yourself then go from
there- you cant expect him to please you
if you cant please yourself first-
secondly, not all women get off during
sex- some need the hand, some need the
mouth, some just need sex- it all depends-
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kitty2luv
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Oct 2004
Posts: 1089
Location: with my love
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Posted: 11-10-04 12:58pm
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I do masterbate 
but I do get my self off when I am riding
a guy I guess its better then nothing
right?
What are some ways to masterbate ?
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