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1sttimemama

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Posted: 11-13-04 14:44pm

I'm 18 and i've never been able to have an orgasm. I've tried just about everything, the bath tub, the vibrator...I have really good sex with my bf but i've never cum. It makes him feel bad, but I cant really help it. When i'm riding him I can get myself to a point where I feel like I might cum, but then it just passes and it sucks so bad cause its like right there but I cant quite get it, anyway thought i'd put my two cents in :d
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Granps

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Location: Arlington, TX
It's Not That Hard
Posted: 11-16-04 09:44am

It's not that hard
posted: 10-25-04 4:41pm

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so you can never have an orgasim??? Have you ever tried to just do it yourself??? I can tell you one thing i've learned to be able to have multiple orgasims all by learning more about myself and helping out my partner by not making him do all the work. Play with yourself let him watch. It may sound awkward but it works! You have to find out what turns you on and then tell him to do it this way or that way... Do you get it??? Kind of like masterbation but it's not cause your just furthering you knowledge in the sexual world. Good luck.

My current lady friend has been able to show her pleasures to me openly. Wow! I love it. She ask me to masterbate on her clit while she is fingering herself
this is a real trip for her and me. Too.
This is just about as personal as you can get.
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BeckLyn

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Posted: 11-16-04 09:58am

I've found that riding is the best way for me. U may get to that point and pass it cuz u start moving differently. Gotta stick with the rhythm. Or cuz ur not relaxed enuf.....
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Granps

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Becklyn
Posted: 11-16-04 12:55pm

Honey if yuu r rocking my penis i'm not going to lay still. :d
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BeckLyn

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Posted: 11-16-04 13:05pm

Yeah well upper body movement and lower body movement r diff. And don't move ur pelvis! U can at first but when I tell u i'm about ready to cum, hold on for the ride!
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Granps

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Becklyn
Posted: 11-16-04 14:12pm

Whoa lady. I've got to do somethhing........ Surprised
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BeckLyn

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Posted: 11-16-04 14:15pm

Sorry... Couldn't help it..... :d and if that smiley doesn't work, mayeb this will. Smile
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BeckLyn

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Posted: 11-16-04 14:15pm

Lol Smile
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zoomer815

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Posted: 11-17-04 12:48pm

I love to lay still and enjoy the ride!!!!
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kitty2luv

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Posted: 11-17-04 20:45pm

I like it when a guy just lays there and make me feel incontrol and I dont like it when he moves me around
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LilJewelz0714

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Joined: 17 Nov 2004
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Location: Maryland
Same Prob. Here
Posted: 11-18-04 14:39pm

I only orgasim when i'm riding, or masterbating. I have tried so hard to let him give me one but it just doesn't happen. Sounds like a lot of us have the same ordeal goin on, if anyone could tell us what we need to do so that we can relax and let the guy please us, thanks!
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kitty2luv

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Posted: 11-18-04 16:10pm

I kno my friend is the same way too she cant have a orgasim either what ashame lolriding is the only way I can get off
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zoomer815

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Posted: 11-19-04 15:04pm

I would say men have a problem, but it's the exact opposite.

We have the problem of cumming too fast. And I would almost guarantee that most reasons women can't cum during sex is because of the guys problem.
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BeckLyn

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Posted: 11-19-04 15:58pm

I disagree. Ive had it for a long time... And really good, and it feels good but doesnt rub right unless I am in control....
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kitty2luv

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Posted: 11-19-04 18:02pm

Yea I would agree like when we hit doggie it hits my g-spot but thats it mayb I should rub my clit???? But I like riden it makes me cum ..........
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PosrscheLvr

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Joined: 05 Oct 2004
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Location: Plano, Texas

Posted: 11-23-04 16:58pm

oangelc543 wrote:
some women cant orgasm from sex.. Have u ever had oral sex performed on you?..It's sort of hard.. I dont know, when your a teenager.. Neither you or your partner may know what your really doing


there is only one partner that I have had that can make me achieve prgasm through penetration. Just work up to it slowly. Lots of foreplay and lots of teasing. The more you are aroused the more like your body will me more open to orgasms. Good luck
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