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Michelle1337

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Predestination Vs. Freewill
Posted: 10-25-04 22:19pm

Me and lauren were having a discussion about this tonight. And we thought it would be interesting to see what all of you think.

Me and lauren are both christians...So we have a christian point of view on the subject...But we are interested in what you guys believe.

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i believe that .God gives every person a choice in everything...

Like, picture a tree...And as it goes up it has branches that stem on each side..And with each choice you make you head in one direction. And even though .God gave you the choice between the two branches..He knew which you were gonna choose.

And so therefore (using my relationship with chris as an example), .God knew I was gonna choose to date chris, and .He knew I would choose to sleep with him, so therefore, the sin of pre-marital sex was planned for me in a way, but my choices led me to that sin. If I had chosen to take the other "branch" and not date chris, there would have been other "planned" sins for me in the future.
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which puts me into an "in-between" category. I dont believe in either predestination or freewill. I believe in a combination of the two.

And just incase some of you didnt know...

predestination - the doctrine that god has foreordained all things, especially that god has elected certain souls to eternal salvation.

freewill - done of one's own accord; voluntary

i dont want this to turn into a huge debate or anything, I just want to see what you guys think on the subject. So lets please not let this get out of hand.
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IDABABY

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Posted: 10-25-04 22:26pm

I agree, but after things happen...You have choices in a way..Ya know??God makes you grow as a person...And you grow and start seeing more..And make better choices in life...Thats what I think about it.

-kristin
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nippz

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Posted: 10-25-04 22:41pm

It's true! Or I say so. Im a strong catholic christian, and I believe that we all made our decision before we were born.

Well I believe (dont critisize me on this, because I said I believe .. Not stating this is a fact or anything) that we all had lives as angels before we were on earth. Our birth is a forgetting. Once we are born into mortality, we forget about our lives before we were alive.

Moving on.

We all knew about the lives we were about to live, the decisions we made, and risks/mistakes.

I dont know, haha thats just what I believe. I read about it from this lady who had a near death experience. She died, talk to god and god gave her a second life..

But yeah. We must not forget, everything happens for a reason! God already knew our plans in lives and god forgives.

You know how people say that your punished for having sex by getting pregnant? I dont think god punishes anyone or tries to teach them a lesson, because he already knew about the mistakes we would make. And like I said, everything happens for a reason Smile

ok. Thats just what I believe so pleease no one health forum at me. Like I said im a strong catholic christian, and if your wondering about that book I read its called "embraced by the light". It even has some info about what god says about abortions + pregnancy and everything, its a great book and I recommend it if you're a religious believer of god and wondering about life.
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linuxChique

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Posted: 10-25-04 22:43pm

Freewill all the way!! God wouldn't be a perfect .God if he chose for specific people to go to hell. He's got to give us a chance. There is no other choice in his nature. He knows, but he must give us freewill.
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Nellypoo

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Posted: 10-25-04 23:10pm

Have you girls taken history 156 in college Question
do you understand the first and second great awakening? John calvin, jonathan edwards, george whitefield ?Calvinism, deism? Understand the christian, anglican, presbyterian religion origins and their take on predestination & freewill?? I think the history of these should be taken into account before saying which you believe in pretty heavy stuff! :d

i don't have a preference of the two.
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Daile

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Posted: 10-25-04 23:16pm

Well, I don't believe in the definition of predestination that you gave, because I don't believe in a god, persay. I believe that there is fate, and that some things are meant to happen. I believe in soul mates: that two people are meant to be together, and nothing will stand in their way. And I believe that you are meant to go through the bad stuff as well as the good, because the bad also contributes to the person you are today.

Daile
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Nellypoo

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Posted: 10-25-04 23:17pm

Smile
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smith8500

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Posted: 10-25-04 23:26pm

I'm 100% with you michelle.
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Michelle1337

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Posted: 10-26-04 00:29am

Thanks girls for all your opinions. Its really interesting to see all of the different opinions and beliefs that we have on this forum.

And thanks for keeping it clean!!

Keep 'em coming!!
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newlife

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Re: Predestination Vs. Freewill
Posted: 10-26-04 08:09am

michelle1337 wrote:
me and lauren were having a discussion about this tonight. And we thought it would be interesting to see what all of you think.

Me and lauren are both christians...So we have a christian point of view on the subject...But we are interested in what you guys believe.


*~~~~~~~~*
i believe that .God gives every person a choice in everything...


Like, picture a tree...And as it goes up it has branches that stem on each side..And with each choice you make you head in one direction. And even though .God gave you the choice between the two branches..He knew which you were gonna choose.

And so therefore (using my relationship with chris as an example), .God knew I was gonna choose to date chris, and .He knew I would choose to sleep with him, so therefore, the sin of pre-marital sex was planned for me in a way, but my choices led me to that sin. If I had chosen to take the other "branch" and not date chris, there would have been other "planned" sins for me in the future.

*~~~~~~~~*

which puts me into an "in-between" category. I dont believe in either predestination or freewill. I believe in a combination of the two.


And just incase some of you didnt know...


predestination - the doctrine that god has foreordained all things, especially that god has elected certain souls to eternal salvation.


freewill - done of one's own accord; voluntary

i dont want this to turn into a huge debate or anything, I just want to see what you guys think on the subject. So lets please not let this get out of hand.


i agree with your point of view.
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sparklypixie12

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Posted: 10-26-04 08:24am

To an extent I believe in pre-destination- I believe that its already determined when we're meant to die but we have the free will to change things-i believe that god knows when I will die & how I will die. I believe that to a small extent we can control things for example, we choose whether we step out onto the road without checking for traffic-one day we might not check & get hit by a bus but if we had have checked it might not have been our time to die yet....Confusing I know!
I believe that we have free will to choose to do things-we all have the free will to choose to do certain things-people may say murderers have the free will to choose whether or not they homicide however by law & morality they are bound not to do it-they may feel free in themselves to commit such crimes however this very freedom will be removed because they'll end up in jail!
Another point is how do we know that we have free will?? Just because you sit there & decide you want corn flakes and not rice cripsies one day (not much of an example I know!!) does that mean you've used your free will to decide?? Perhaps god already knows your choice-maybe he knows what your choice will be 10years before you choose it then that makes free will an illusion. No one has come down from above & told you 'you have free will' so why do we presume we do?!
*can anyone tell that I study philosophy??!!*
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bd1012

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Posted: 10-26-04 08:40am

I say screw "god's" plan.. This is my life, not his and I am not a puppet in a puppet show! Also, not to bring this up again for debate but just saying.. If predestination is true and abortion is wrong, why did "god" make the mother concieve if he knew she was going to abort? That either wipes out the predestination thing or the assumption abortion is wrong to "god". Just a thought. Anyways, what is the point of our existence if we all have preordained destinies? What, did he just get bored one day and decide to make a puppet show for himself but without strings? Thought it would be fun to watch us screw ourselves over time and time again and thought it would be funny to give us urges to do certain things and then set the rules in opposition? Whatever Rolling Eyes
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sparklypixie12

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Posted: 10-26-04 09:01am

Thing is though-none of us know if there is a god or if there isnt so what we're talking about could be completely irrelevant....We'll find out for sure one day! Brandy-you can't exactly say 'i am not a puppet in a puppet show after all...None of us truly know do we? Maybe we have no choice about it....Maybe we do...Who knows?! No one said pre-destination is 'true' or right though-it's all just opinion. I think god allows a woman to conceive even if he thought she'd abort the baby because he's allowing her to use her free will to choose-if he stopped her from getting pregnant then that would be interfering in her free will & stopping her from making a choice
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bellax0x

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Posted: 10-26-04 16:01pm

This is what I believe

god has a plan for us and a n y t h I n g that happens in your life was supposed to happen. Even if its bad like dying as a child.. There was a sig. Reason behind it

<3
gaby
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linuxChique

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Posted: 10-26-04 16:14pm

That still doesn't say whether you believe that .God *makes* those things happen or if we choose our path in life.
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GuitarJade

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Posted: 10-26-04 16:36pm

I'm pretty much with you michelle. My best friend said it best when she said: "god has a plan, and you can't stray from that plan, but even if you do stray from the plan, you don't really stray from the plan because god knew that you were going to stray from the plan, and therefore, it's part of the plan..." (i know, slightly confusing... Read it a couple of times and you'll get it). I'm a christian and I believe that humans have free will but that god knows what we're going to do, and therefore, it's already planned out for us. It's a complicated thing... Kinda like parenthood, life, and love...
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nippz

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Posted: 10-26-04 16:45pm

bd1012 wrote:
if predestination is true and abortion is wrong, why did "god" make the mother concieve if he knew she was going to abort?


taken from the book I was talking about earlier;


"after watching the spiris trying to corral these two young people together, my attention turned to other spirits making preperations to go to earth. One exceptionally brilliant and dynamic spirit was just entering his mother's womb. He had chosen to enter this world mentally handicapped. He was very excited about this opportunity and was aware of the growth he and his parents would achieve. The three of them had bonded with each other and planned for this arrangement long before. He chose to begin his mortal life at his body's conception, and I watched his spirit move into the womb and enter the newly formed life. He was anxious to feel the great love of his mortal parents.

I learned that spirits can choose to enter their mother's body at any stage of her pregnancy. Once there, they immediately begin experiencing mortality. Abortion, I was told, is contrary to that which is natural. The spirit comming into the body feels a snese of rejection and sorrow. It knows that the body was to be his, whether it was conceived out of wedlock or was handicapped or was only strong enough to live a few hours. But the spirit also feels compassion for it's mother, knowing that she made a decision based on the knowledge she had.

I saw many spirits who would only come to the earth from a short time, living only hours, or days after their birth. They were as excited as the others, knowing that they had a purpose to fulfill. I understood that their deaths had been appointed before their births - as were all of ours. These spirits did not need the developement that would result from longer lives in mortality and their deaths would provide challenges that would help their parents grow. The grief that comes here is intense but short. After we are united again, tall the pain is washed away and only the joy of our growth and togetherness is felt.

A time was establised for each of us to complete earthly education. Some spirits would come only to be born, to give experience to others and to pass quickly out of this world. Some would live to an old age to complete their goals and benifit others by allowing them opportunities to serve"
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babyluvwu

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Posted: 10-26-04 16:46pm

Definitely freewill, it was given to us even though god knew everything that was going to happen already, he didnt plan it that way, he just wanted for us to choose whether we want to believe in him and follow him and in return spend eternity with him in heaven or choose to go our own way and do what we wanted to do which is the path that leads to destruction.
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