How Do I Tell My Mom And Boy Freind Posted: 10-25-04 23:44pm
Im pregent I found out in aug.. But my
boy friend is in jail now and my mom hates
him I have not told any one yet and I dont
even know how far along I am but now im
getting bigger and have like a rash or
spot or something all over my tumy and my
mom is starting to ask me why im putting
on so my weight and I get to go see my boy
friend thursday in jail im only 17 I live
with my grandma cause my mom had kicked me
out and I have to tell them this week
cause im getting bigger and every thing is
changing im so scared
help chia
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Daile
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Joined: 11 Oct 2004 Posts: 319 Location: Missouri
Posted: 10-25-04 23:50pm
Sweetie, if you found out in august, then
you'd be at least two months along, closer
to three probably...You really need to
tell them. I know they'll probably be
upset, but you aren't going to be able to
hide it much longer. It might be easier
to tell your mom if you do it over the
phone...Maybe you could call her from your
gram's house and tell her the news, and
then she could come over and talk to you
once she cools down a bit...
I hope it works out for you!
Daile
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jessamyn
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Posted: 10-26-04 00:35am
First of all I dont care how you do it you
just have to you ahvvve to get in to see a
doctor... Being pregnant is not a game
i'm sorry if that sounds mean but if your
think your ready to have sex you need to
be ready to have a baby and own up to all
its responsibilities... You need to see a
doc and get on prenatal vitamins and all
the regualr mommy checkups and dos and
donts and I cant preach that any harder...
Especially tell your grandmother... Do
you have a job or finacial support? If
not shes probably going to be your main
source and if they end up making you "so
to speak " have an abortion its gunna be
too late... You could be anywhere from
2-4 months... Everyone needs to know and
you just need to flat out tell them!
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bellax0x
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Joined: 10 Jun 2004 Posts: 3572 Location: Jersey Baby!
Posted: 10-26-04 05:58am
It would prolly be best to just tell
everyone straight out
<3
gaby
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IDABABY
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Joined: 12 Mar 2004 Posts: 2236 Location: ***Wisconsin Baby***
Posted: 10-26-04 12:03pm
Honey, its okay. I was in the same boat.
I tried to hide it for months. I lived in
sweatpants/jeans and hoodies!
Seriously...My mom didn't find out until I
was around 17 weeks. I did go to the
doctor though. Really, I know you are
scared, I was too. My mom told me she
would put me in the morgue if I ever had
sex, let alone get pregnant. Either way,
what you have to realize, is that that
baby isn't going anywhere...Its staying
right there....So you have to tell..And
get to the doctor. Go to wal-mart and get
those 5.98 prenatal vitamins, get those!!!
Just get to the doctor, and ask them that
you want to get on medicaid, they should
give you a form, right at the doctor. You
need to tell them...There is no good way
to do it, you just have to tell them as
best as you can. *hugs* good luck.
-kristin
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Shayna
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Joined: 17 Jul 2004 Posts: 180 Location: NY
Posted: 10-26-04 13:23pm
That sucks when does your man get out of
jail ??
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Ellie6388
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Joined: 26 Oct 2004 Posts: 201 Location: Destin Fl
Posted: 10-26-04 14:50pm
You need to tell them soon, especially
your grandma, telling you mom over the
phone was a great idea if you are scred of
how she might react. Good luck and for
everyone's sack please take care of your
self
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nippz
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Joined: 11 Sep 2004 Posts: 2173 Location: ,
Posted: 10-26-04 14:53pm
Your grandmother should be there for you,
especially if she's the only one caring
for you. Tell your grandmother, because
if your starting to show, then you're most
likely past the first 3 months. Get to a
doctor, like jessa said! You need a
checkup and some vitamins! Dont be so
worried, you're 17, almost 18 so they
should be more understanding, I mean your
mom can't do anything since she already
kicked you out. Just tell your
grandmother, it's very important you get
checked out. I didn't tell my mom until I
was 5 months pregnant & im 14, and my
pregnancy wasn't doing too good until I
got a checkup. So yeah.
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cherriegurl
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Joined: 11 Jul 2004 Posts: 1218 Location: Washington state
Posted: 10-26-04 14:54pm
Good luck but u need to tell them soon and
just be honest!!
