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Michelle1337
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Aug 2004
Posts: 1739
Location: Houston, Texas
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Rant...
Posted: 10-26-04 14:15pm
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Why does life have to be so doing it hard?
I'm litterally sitting here balling my
eyes out over a stupid guy. Why does it
hurt so bad? I just want him to go away
but he wont, he has to constantly make
things more and more difficult for me.
My friend ashlyn told me about 30 minutes
ago that chris wanted me to call him
because he wanted to try and work things
out between us so he could atleast be here
for me as a friend. So I gave in and
called. Well instead of wanting to talk
he wanted me to apologize to him, because
apparently i've been a health forum. And
he got mad because I wouldnt apologize
because I have no reason too. And he
freaked and basically told me that he
hated me and wants me out of his life.
And he drug it out and bashed me for
almost 10 minutes. Saying that i'm a
health forum, and he hates me and he hates
his son. And that all i've done for him
is medical question up his life. I
messed up his life?
I dont get it...
Sorry girls, I just really needed to
rant..
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bellax0x
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Jun 2004
Posts: 3572
Location: Jersey Baby!
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Posted: 10-26-04 14:17pm
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Aw huni im soo sorry!! Guys are suckers!!
=( feel better! We love you!
<3
gaby
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IDABABY
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Mar 2004
Posts: 2236
Location: ***Wisconsin Baby***
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Posted: 10-26-04 14:21pm
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Awww michelle sweetie, its okay to
cry...But you dont need him in your
life...You shouldnt even want him in your
life! Everything is going to be
okay...You are going to be a wonderful
mother, he needs to have his ass kicked
and im sorry you have to go through this
*hugs* just hang in there, and be strong.
I know its hard when you are carrying a
part of him within you...And I hope that
someday chris decides to grow up and be
apart of you and your babys life, but
until he decides to grow up....You need to
be strong...For you and your son. I luv
ya girl. He shouldnt have said all those
hurtful things to you. I dont understand
him...And I dont know why he tricked you
like that.
-kristin
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cherriegurl
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Jul 2004
Posts: 1218
Location: Washington state
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Posted: 10-26-04 14:21pm
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Oh girl im so sorry u r a wonderful girl!!
U are not a b*tch! And if he really
feels that way u dont want him in ur life
or the babys life! Im so sorry girl good
luck!!
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linuxChique
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 May 2004
Posts: 4535
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Posted: 10-26-04 14:21pm
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Michelle, you just gotta start ignoring
him. You should have hung up on him.
Don't worry girl, things will get easier.
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1sttimemama
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Oct 2004
Posts: 198
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Posted: 10-26-04 14:24pm
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Stop calling him!!!Dont even both
michelle...You know he's no good for you
and you said yourself that hes insecure,
he's trying to make you feel like sh*t iin
order to make himself feel better. And
the whole thing about him hating his
son...That just shows how immature he is
and hes obviously no where near ready to
be a father. All you can do is be the
best mother that you can possibly be (and
we all know you'll be awesome!!). Forget
about chris, I know it seems hard but
eventually everything will be so much
easier. We all love you, hang in there.
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smith8500
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 6623
Location: Louisiana
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JeNNy985
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Oct 2004
Posts: 295
Location: INDIANA!!!
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Posted: 10-26-04 14:32pm
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Girl what did I say last time?? He's dirt
on ur shoulder...Brush him off!!! Haha!!
I know what you are going through though.
I did it for 4 years with my ex and I feel
so much better now that I don't have to
talk to him anymore. You don't have to
talk to him anymore either. You may feel
lonely or that you are gonna be all by
yourself for the rest of your life or even
that nobody else you could try to date
will be as good as him in some ways...But
ya gotta move on. You cannot stress over
somebody that has nothing good to say.
Look at him, an ignorant kid who says
hateful things to get himself off and make
his day better? Who does that? Dumb boys
do! Don't cry about it, that's what he
wants you to do!! He wants to be able to
control your emotions but you know
what...Don't let him. Don't let him get
that satisfaction! The only thing that is
going to make you feel better and that is
going to make him feel like s#$ t is if
you just act like he doesn't bother you
the least bit. You run things girl, and
he needs to know that! Hope this helps!
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Ellie6388
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Oct 2004
Posts: 201
Location: Destin Fl
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Posted: 10-26-04 14:36pm
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I'm so sorry to hear that, you would think
that a man that is about to have a child,
would be a little more mature and not hurt
the mother of his son! I am so sorry for
you, don't worry about him just
concentrate on the beautiful son your
about to have.
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cherriegurl
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Jul 2004
Posts: 1218
Location: Washington state
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Posted: 10-26-04 14:37pm
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Oh ya michelle I dont know if u have
already done this but I would reccommend u
getting a notebook and documenting every
thing he says everything he does
.E.V.E.R.Y.T.H.I.N.G. Because if someday
he decides he does want to be in his life
u have evidence. Good luck girl im so
sorry
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Michelle1337
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Aug 2004
Posts: 1739
Location: Houston, Texas
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Posted: 10-26-04 14:44pm
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Thanks ladies, i'm starting to feel a
little better now. I was stupid to call
him...I shoulda known better.
I'm trying so hard to get him out of my
life, but it feels so impossible. A part
of him will always be with me, no matter
what I do.
But thanks girls, I really appreciate you
guys being here for me.=) *hugs*
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nippz
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Sep 2004
Posts: 2173
Location: ,
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Posted: 10-26-04 15:04pm
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Ohmyy michelle, im sorry things aren't
going as you would expect with chris.
Yeah, guys are suckers, that's why you
need a woman in ur life! Ahemahem  
lol jk. U deserve so much better. Ur a
great personn and u don't need a guy like
him in ur life.
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lauren22
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Jun 2004
Posts: 647
Location: Alabama
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Posted: 10-26-04 16:17pm
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Do I need to come to houston and take the
phone away?!?! Because I will!
i'm glad you're doing better! Take it a
day at a time! Love ya girl!
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sparklypixie12
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 3099
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Posted: 10-26-04 16:59pm
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Omg what a caca-he doesn't deserve you or
his son. I know it'll be hard but it'd
probably be best for you emotionally to
cut ties with him-you don't need people in
your life that make you feel so sad. Hope
things start looking up :d
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little_woman
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Mar 2004
Posts: 765
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Posted: 10-26-04 19:28pm
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Dont take that from him girl, not even as
a friend
remember: god only invented men cause
vibrators cant mow the lawn *he11 men dont
do it either half the time!
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nippz
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Sep 2004
Posts: 2173
Location: ,
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Posted: 10-26-04 19:38pm
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| little_woman
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remember: god only invented men cause
vibrators cant mow the lawn *he11 men dont
do it either half the
time! |
lmfaoo!!!!
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LHSbabe0207
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Oct 2004
Posts: 632
Location: Louisiana girl!!!
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Posted: 10-26-04 19:46pm
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Im sorry gurl! You dont need a guy like
that if he is just gonna put you down.
Soemone will come along and will love you
forever. Dont stick around for that if he
is just gonna be an problem! You can do
better. Trust me!
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bellax0x
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Jun 2004
Posts: 3572
Location: Jersey Baby!
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Posted: 10-26-04 20:08pm
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Im glad youre feeling better! 
<3
gaby
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jessamyn
Moderator
Joined: 18 Aug 2004
Posts: 4116
Location: San Diego, CA
Thanks: 11
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Posted: 10-26-04 22:34pm
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Even though it hurts do you love him above
it all?
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nippz
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Sep 2004
Posts: 2173
Location: ,
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Posted: 10-26-04 22:42pm
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| jessamyn
wrote: | | even though it hurts do you
love him above it
all? |
ughhh omg, for me, even though it hurts
like hell when he lies to me and cheats on
me, I still love him. Its that whole
"first love" thing. I can't get over it
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