nippz
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Help!
Posted: 10-26-04 17:06pm
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I need excuses to make my boyfriend send
me money, because his stupid ass is
lagging and hasn't sent me any lately!
It's been two months and I haven't even
been able to buy myself some milk for the
baby's brain development and crap because
he keeps spending his money on hooking up
his damn car. So I need excuses for him
to send me money.
Last night I told him I was gonna buy a
crib already since im 7 months and "what
if I pop this month". But then he said
"ill just send you the one my brother gave
me instead so we dont have to spend
money". Ughh. Your gonna send a crib
from new jersey to cali!? Lol im not
paying for the shipping and handling buddy
boy.
So i'm thinking of one excuse as
"bottles".. But I need more because I
dont want him only sending me 50 bucks for
bottles. And he might make another
excuse with "i'll send you bottles".
Ughh, I need money for food tooo! I keep
telling him about milk for the baby but he
won't listen.
I checked his email and he's planning on
buying more stuff, he's like negotiating
200 bucks with this guy for his stupid
ugly 240sx.
Plus I want me some handmade baskets 
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bellax0x
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Jun 2004
Posts: 3572
Location: Jersey Baby!
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Posted: 10-26-04 17:11pm
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Anything! Lol babies need so much! He
should want to provide foryou
<3
gaby
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nippz
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Posted: 10-26-04 17:12pm
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He keeps saying "ill bring stuff when I
get there" but I dont even know when he's
comming here, what if I give birth before
he gets here?! Thats exactly why I need
excuses ;[
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sparklypixie12
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 3099
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Posted: 10-26-04 17:13pm
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His excuses aren't good enough-you need to
get tougher with him. He helped to get
your pregnant so he needs to stand up to
his responsibilities & help you
out-what kind of a man is he??? Tell him
straight out what you need & how much
money you need-tell him that if he doesn't
help out you'll do him big time for child
support once the baby arrives. Don't let
him keep giving you crap excuses-it's just
not fair on you
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Michelle1337
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Aug 2004
Posts: 1739
Location: Houston, Texas
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Posted: 10-26-04 17:15pm
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Tell him you wanna start stocking up on
diapers. By buying a package everytime
you go shopping...
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linuxChique
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 May 2004
Posts: 4535
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Posted: 10-26-04 17:18pm
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| sparklypixie12
wrote: | | tell him straight out what
you need & how much money you
need-tell him that if he doesn't help out
you'll do him big time for child support
once the baby arrives.
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yep! Tell him you'll be reasonable then
if he'll pay now. Tell him that if he
doesn't you'll suck as much as you can get
out of him!
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nippz
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Posted: 10-26-04 17:40pm
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Im afraid  lol im serious.
He's gonna think I just want his money or
he's gonna health forum and say "i dont
have any at the moment im still looking
for a job".
..Anyone else have any suggestions?
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kitty_55
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Joined: 18 Aug 2003
Posts: 1473
Location: Canada
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Posted: 10-26-04 17:43pm
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Say you want to save up for the baby and
what if something happeneds I dunno he
should give you money tho!!!
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bellax0x
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Jun 2004
Posts: 3572
Location: Jersey Baby!
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Posted: 10-26-04 18:00pm
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Ask him to send you a bag of diapers and
$150 a week! (or more) until he comes
<3
gaby
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nippz
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Posted: 10-26-04 18:01pm
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Holy shiot, that's a lot of money. I dont
even think he gets that in a month, lol
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Michelle1337
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Aug 2004
Posts: 1739
Location: Houston, Texas
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Posted: 10-26-04 18:02pm
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Or you could be really cool . . . And
threaten to send him to jail if he dosent
stop spending money on his car and start
sending some to you. Lol
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nippz
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Posted: 10-26-04 18:05pm
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Lol he would get so pissed and probally
leave me. He'd be like "well you agree'd
to have sex with me so.."
or the infamous excuse ..
"your the one who told me age was just a
number!"
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nippz
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smith8500
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Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 6623
Location: Louisiana
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Posted: 10-26-04 18:37pm
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I dunno what to say huni. He should be
sending money without you having to give
excuses. I dunno what to tell him.
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sdwood2
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Jan 2004
Posts: 645
Location: KY
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Posted: 10-26-04 19:20pm
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Hun I dint know what to tell you I never
got any money from my sons dad he owes me
over 10,000 in childsupport. Good luck
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little_woman
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Mar 2004
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Posted: 10-26-04 19:23pm
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I have to agree with what liz *sparkly
pixie* says, he needs to know this is his
responisbility too and that you dont have
to make excuses for him to send money he
just should!!
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oangelc543
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2004
Posts: 521
Location: TX
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Posted: 10-26-04 19:24pm
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This is a tough situation.. You
shouldn't even have to make up any excuses
for this... First of all, it's not like
you climbed on top of yourself and got
pregnant.. So why should you have to
deal with all the responsibility
especially financially just because your
the girl.... Secondly, if he's 18..
He's an adult, and should legally be more
capable of getting money then you are...
That being said, I know guys can still be
really difficult...
So heres what i'm thinking... Tell him
you have no money to pay co-payments or
something about doctors visits.. And
make it clear that doctors visits are
n.O.W and you need money for them to keep
you pregnancy healthy..
Will be buy that one?
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LHSbabe0207
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Oct 2004
Posts: 632
Location: Louisiana girl!!!
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Posted: 10-26-04 19:31pm
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Dont pity him or take his crap! Tell him
you ((need)) these things for your baby to
develop!!!!
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linuxChique
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 May 2004
Posts: 4535
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Posted: 10-26-04 20:50pm
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| nippz
wrote: | lol he would get so pissed
and probally leave me. He'd be like
"well you agree'd to have sex with me
so.."
or the infamous excuse ..
"your the one who told me age was just a
number!" |
if he tells you that just tell him to tell
it to the judge and see if he lets him off
the hook with that lame excuse.
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