Hello,
my name is melissa and I am 15. Me and my
boyfriend have been dating alittle longer
than 3 months but we have already had sex.
The last time we had sex was on wednesday
night, it all went good but then it
started to hurt on the right side of my
vagina like where the opening is so we
stopped but before that happened we were
not using a condom and he usually pulls
out before it comes, which I know doesn't
always work, but this time he was alittle
late and he said that he thinks some of it
got in me. But you know I really wasn't
that worried cause I had a scare that I
was pregnant before cause I completely
skipped my period but then when the next
one was supposed to come it did. But my
question is that saturday morning when I
woke up I had really bad stomach pains,
like cramps, and then about the middle of
the day I started bleeding. I was alittle
freaked cause I had no idea that my period
was coming and so I just thought that
since I never bleed the first time I had
sex maybe now I finally am. So I didn't
think too much of it. But then all day
yesterday I was sick and cramping really
bad and I never ever get cramps even
little ones. And still today I am having
cramps, what could be wrong with me? Is
it my actual period and I am just starting
to get cramps now....But ive had it since
I was 11....Or was I pregnant before
(cause the condom has broke before and we
don't always use one either) and I just
had a miscarriage and didn't realize it?
Or what's happening? The bleeding isn't
like a lot a lot but at times it is and
sometimes when I go to the bathroom and
then wipe it is like major blood there.
Please help me thanks
~melissa~
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nippz
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Sep 2004 Posts: 2173 Location: ,
Posted: 10-27-04 19:33pm
I dont really know what to say. Im ka
btw, 14 and 30wks preggy tom. I think u
should just get a blood test to find out!
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bbak
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Oct 2004 Posts: 21
Posted: 10-27-04 19:53pm
Go see your doctor for sure. This could
be a lot of things, or it could be
nothing, but it's always better to be safe
than sorry. Take care.
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Ducky
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Oct 2004 Posts: 31 Location: foley
Thanks Girls Posted: 10-30-04 15:21pm
Thanks alot for your opinions. I am very
glad that people are willing to read my
storys and try and help me out. Its all
better now and was nothing. My parents
and his mom all know that me and him have
been having sex. I told my mom last
wednesday and my dad thursday. They took
it really well and andrews (my boyfriend)
mom took it really well. Now alot of the
pressure is gone cause if I do worry about
being pregnant my mom will take me in.
Last night me and andrew had sex and it
hurt with the condom so we didn't use one
any more and hes really good at pulling
out but last night he said that he thinks
most of it came in me and he only caught
some of it. Now I just wait for awhile to
find out if i'm pregnant...Any
suggestions? Thanks alot girls!
~melissa~
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Assena
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Nov 2004 Posts: 328 Location: Georgia
Posted: 11-13-04 07:32am
If you are afraid of pregnancy then why
are you using the pull out method... With
that you will eventualy get pregnant.
Even pre-cum (men don't realize they
release it before orgasm) still has some
sperm in it. So even if he did pull out
before, one may have escaped.
There are other things out there other
than condoms, spermacides (creams and
foams, there is the vcf which is a femanin
contraceptive film... You may want to
talk to your mother since she knows you
are sexualy active and you can start some
sort of b/c, like the pill, patch , ring
or shot.
Strangly enough talk to your parents, they
may have some suggestions. I doub't that
they want to be grandparents at thier age.
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BeckLyn
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Nov 2004 Posts: 476
Posted: 11-15-04 09:31am
Dear, u should be using some kind of bc--i
suggest condomns at ur age just bcuz of
all of the diseases out there. And trust
me not all of them can be treated. And
sometime u won't even know if u have
anything until way down the road. Please
try to use some bc. I would check with
ur doc about ur probs. Sounds like it
could be serious. I'm not sure of the
signs of appendicitis, but I know ur side
hurts. Also a cist or tumor.... Go get
checked...
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soon to be mommy
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Dec 2004 Posts: 1 Location: Hollister
Posted: 12-06-04 02:09am
I dont know what to say to help you
except, in the end it will all be ok.
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Prince Wyte
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Jul 2005 Posts: 18
I Might Be of Some Help Posted: 07-31-05 16:54pm
Im 15 a boy with a pregnant 14 year old
girlfriend. I think if you skipped your
first period it is natural for you to
bleed my girlfriend bleeds like that all
the time no worries. If it does bother
you thou get it checked out but other than
that you should be ok. Trust me its
normal. Also cramps is normal aswell. If
some did happen to slip in it could still
get you pregnant so watch your tests.
