Sorry for the long post, but I dont know
what to do anymore. And I know he isnt
all the problems in the relationship,
thats why I am trying to work on my part,
but he dont seem to work on his me and
my boyfriend have been dating 2 1/2 years
and have a son together ( I also have a
daughter who loves him and calls him dad
even though he is not her biological
father) well ever since I became pregnant
with our son (this was 1 1/2 years ago) we
started having really bad problems. We
consantly agrued. I would complain
about him not being there for me and he
complained that I was trying to take his
freedom away and being syco.So as a result
of us fighting he whould leave me and my
daughter when I was pregnant he would
leave for weeks at a time and the come
back for a few days and leave again.
Since then we ended up having to move out
of our apartment and move in with his mom.
He still thinks that I am a syco bi***
and I cant do anything to make him happy.
We have been fighting really bad lately
and his parents think that I just need to
deal with it, but it is hard to deal with
when he is consantly putting me down and
calling every name in the book. Plus he
has been reciving text messages on his
phone and phone calls from some girls.
And we have been reciving alot of hang
ups. I just recently found out that he
has a account set up with his phone
company and I asked him about it and he
said it was none of my business. He has
been acting like he dont want me around
and actually told me he wishes I would
just leave him. (i dont have a place to
go, other wise I would) I dont know what
is going on, I am trying to make things
work because of the kids, but I dont have
the strength anymore. This morning he
said it was ok to take a shower and after
I got out he was chewing my a** out for
taking a shower. I am beging to think
that he is purposly starting fights. I
just dont know what to do, I love him and
would like for things to work but if he
dont want that I need to find somewhere
else to go.
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2ferano
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Dec 2003 Posts: 3717
Posted: 10-31-04 16:19pm
This is going to sound harsh, but here
goes. He obviously doesn't want you
around. He doesn't kick you out on the
street because of the kids, but if it were
just you, you would have been gone a long
time ago. You are just hurting everyone
involved by staying. You cannot go to
your parents? A friends? An aunt or
grandmother? There is always somewhere
you could go. If you really have no one
then go and apply for state help. If you
explain your situation then they will help
you and you can get out.
Think of your kids. Get out.
