to Those of You I Love

Hey.. I didn't mean to be rude or anything and i'm sorry if you were offended.. Don't leave because of me.. It wasn't totally directed towards you but sometimes people ask for help on here or something and they get bashed or something.. It was more directed to the people who implied that she was a mean person.. I didn't mean to say you felt you were superior or anything.. It wasn't really pointing fingers at anyone.. I'm sorry if I offended you.

No, it's cool. Sometimes I am ultra sensitive, but it really isn't just our little "argument"
a lot of the time it feels like no matter what I post just turns into a big argument. Maybe it is me, seriously, it could be! I just get frustrated sometimes.
I do try really hard to be supportive and to bite my tongue.....I am the kind to tell it how it is. You either love that or you hate it. It is just that when you say you did something really moronic, it is so hard for me not to just tell you how it is. Ya know?
But, it's cool, really. We both just tell it how it is and butt heads when we disagree, that's all.

Ok.. Yeah.. I've noticed alot of your posts turn into arguments.. Not saying anything wrong with you or anything but we both have views that people don't like and we both feel the need to express them.. I probably just misunderstood you.. Sometimes it's hard for me to tell tough love from condescencion..Especially over the net..

Dude id call you crazy too but seriously to be honest here lets see if someone judges me... 3 years I dated someone the first time he got sent off to iraq we broke it off I was soo livid at him I like blamed him for leaving me... My girlfriends took me out (i am not a party girl) but we were just downtown having some fun I met this guy knew him for like 3 hours ended up having sex aweeesome awesome sex 5 minutes later for the life of me I didnt know his name... We are still friends and I swear to you I dont know his name he'll call my cell and sayhey whats up and what not and I just have his name in my phone under hot guy... And like his answering machine doesnt have his name and like at all... He asked me to set him up with a friend of mine and I lied saying she had a bf because of that yes I am std free and yes it was a dumb move but caca happens... And if I were to post that I would have wanted u guys to be like stupid stupid jess...

Sorry babe please stay! I wasnt a part of why you left but please do stay

That is actually really funny....You still dont know his name!Lol.
Yes, that is stupid. Honestly. But, you know what, that is the kind of mistake that I have made also......Not proud, but true. And yeah, if I had told you girls that, I would expect you to say the same! Stupid, stupid girl!Lol.

Bd, yeah, I don't know why my posts turn into arguments. Well, some of them I post are like an opinion thing and understandably turn into an argument, but others shock the crap out of me. I dunno.

I won't leave girls. I was just venting because I am frustrated. But, you are right it is hard to read something and know the tone of the person who wrote it. Maybe that is it.

Angie-i know what you mean. Maybe people don't respect others opinions enough & end up getting personal - it's b/s isn't it?! Anyway I just wanna say that you always have valid,well thought out logical opinions :d you know what I think about the whole thing on here anyway............

Angie!!
Don't leave!! I miss seeing your posts! I always loved reading yours, chanda's and kari's posts because they sounded so mature and full of information and I loved it how no one could ever cut u guys down without u guys coming back with a quick line to shut em up!
I miss reading those posts from u! I didn't read the post u were talking about where someone was calling u unsupportive, but we all know that u are in fact, supportive and we love u and miss u! I hope u come bakc more!!!!

Shauna

I love you angie and that is all I will say! I love you huni pie!

Angie your too cool to be leaving us! I love you girl! I think that honesty like yours is entertaining and it get's the point across without beating around the bush. Some people will never learn unless your quick with them like that and I know i'm like that sometimes, but I could care less if people get pissed at me. If they can't handle the truth than they needn't be on here. You know what I mean? I'm sure there's people on here that wouldn't have changed if it wasn't for you. In fact I could say there's someone on her that did change because of you and i'm very proud of you for saying it and for her for changing it. I won't name anybody, but you can help people with your blunt comments. It's definatly needed.

Hey angie-
people shouldnt ask questions if they arent going to take honest comments. I agree with you on that one. When people do that just say medical question them! Hehe. Dont leave just because ppl can be rude. *hugs*

kristin

You girls are just so darn sweet. I am very blunt. I know it can come across mean, but that is just me! I don't like to beat around the bush or sugar coat things. I tell it like it is! Thanks for respecting that!
Love ya
ang

Hides in corner feeling guiltly... I didn't mean to cause a rucus or anything.. I just misunderstood if any one should leave it'd be me and it's already been shown nobody gives a flying crap if I go but i'm just too damn curious to stay off this place. Maybe i'll do as before and just lurk.

Don't feel guilty! I told u I was overly sensitive that day. You shouldn't leave either. This was just a little misunderstanding and it is all alright now.
And like I said, this post wasn't pointed at you. Our little argument was just one of the little things that inspired this post. If the truth be told (and I really don't want people to take this the wrong way, but I know they will) all of the money flying around here is starting to bother me too. There are a lot of girls on this forum who need things and if we help one we should help them all, but it doesn't seem to work that way.