Joined: 19 Jan 2004 Posts: 1410 Location: burlington
Im So Upset Posted: 10-30-04 11:37am
To top everything off well mackenzie ryan
and I are gettin our pics taken today and
so I was cuttin her fingernails because
she needed it. Well I was and then she
moved as I closed the clipper and got a
big chunk outa her thumb she is bleeding and
of course I didnt mean to do it and now I
hurt her. So ryan and I had to eat lunch
so ryans mom took her and is saying how
bad it is and all this other caca but when
ryan did it the one day it wasnt a big
deal. But since I did it im a bad person.
His sister dad and mom are all actin like
its their baby and covering her with
bandaids and taping her fingers together!
I want her back down here adn I want to go
home. Im sick and tired of feeling like I
do everything wrong with mackenzie ebcause
of his danm family. Im sorry im so ticked
off. I gotta get mackenzie they are
talkin more caca. Ugh I just wanna blow
up at every single one of em!!!!! They
had her all last night so ryan and I could
watch a movie and now they have her again
I want her back!!!
Huni,
it is an accident. I can remember 3 or 4
girls on here saying they did the same
thing to their kid. It's an accident and
doesn't make you a bad mother. Go get
your daughter and tell ryan you want to go
home. You should not, not have
to feel inferior with your own child in
ryan's house! You don't deserve that!
Get mackers and tell ryan you want to
leave! You are a good mom and don't need
their caca!
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noodleandshorty
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jan 2004 Posts: 1410 Location: burlington
Posted: 10-30-04 11:43am
I know it was an accident but they dont
seem to care so wahtever. Im just a bad
person to them
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lilmama2b_oct04
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Mar 2004 Posts: 1970 Location: Wisconsin
Posted: 10-30-04 12:05pm
Thats just a bunch of bs. Every mom will
do it sooner or later, im sure ryans mom
has done it several times. Ugh I still
just wanna give her a piece of my mind
with the neosporin thing. Do you know how
much longer you have for school? Are you
two still getting your own place?
*a tip on cutting baby fingernails*
wait til they are sound asleep, hold their
finger firmly, but not too firm, and pull
back on their finger so the skin is out of
the way (lol I dont know if I explained
that right)...
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noodleandshorty
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jan 2004 Posts: 1410 Location: burlington
Posted: 10-30-04 12:19pm
Well see mackenzie is a really light
sleeper now and if u just touch her shell
jump and wake up so I just did it when she
was awake. I did one hand fine and then
the second hand and the last finger(thumb)
and she moved as I clipped and bam I got
her. I didnt mean too. Its so hard to do
that and it hurts to know that I hutr my
baby because shes bleeding and crying. I
packed all my stuff adn mackenzie's and I
want to go home. His mom came down with
mackenzie and has her in a f*ckin band aid
cast thing on her hand! what is that
stuff Its not even her kid and shes
puttin all this caca on her. Im so pissed
my face is red and wont go away. And then
she(his mom) says u might as well cancel
the appointment for pictures, mackenzie is
in no shape for em...Grrrrrrrrrrrr I just
wanna k*ll her!!!! I need to get outa
this house im shakin so bad because I have
sooo much to say to her right now. His
mom started cryin cause I said I was
leavin cause of what she was sayin and
said "please dont leave because of me"
blah shut up u health question. She says
she doesnt mean to hurt my feelings..But
then again she must not remember sayin how
I was a bad parent and appologizing to
ryan for calling him one but not to me.
But then she says im a great mother even
though I hurt mackenzie. I didnt eman to
f*ckin hurt her!!! God im grrrrrr sorry
im really ventin now
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linuxChique
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 May 2004 Posts: 4535
Posted: 10-30-04 12:27pm
Don't worry heather! Remember when ryan
pulled her umbilical cord off too soon and
it started bleeding? And how it doesn't
make any difference because she forgot
about it and its all healed up. Same
thing. She'll heal and forget about it
and never think about it again. You
should forget about it too! Accidents
happen. I know you're a great mother, and
no accident will change that.
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linuxChique
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 May 2004 Posts: 4535
Posted: 10-30-04 12:44pm
Hey heather sorry I had to go so quick
when we were talking. Mike's grandad
fell down and we think his nurse is
drugging him. I think your mom is smart.
Ryan can come visit you. But his parents
need to be told whats up. They need to be
told that they have to ask permission from
you to do anything with mackenzie. She is
your child and that is only fair.
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2ferano
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Dec 2003 Posts: 3717
Posted: 10-30-04 13:38pm
The joy of the in-law family.
Don't let them get you down hun!
Everyone makes mistakes, no one is perfect
and she will be fine! Screw them!
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IDABABY
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Mar 2004 Posts: 2236 Location: ***Wisconsin Baby***
Posted: 10-30-04 13:40pm
Awww, that is nothing heather, a lot worse
things are going to happen. I wouldn't
worry about it at all. *hugs* dont worry
sweetie, I know that you are a wonderful
mother...medical question ryan's parents,
it isn't their baby. Mackity is your baby
girl...And they don't need to barge in
like that. I luv ya girlie. Don't worry
about it...
Kristin
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babyrae
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jan 2004 Posts: 2957 Location: Manitoba, Canada
Posted: 10-30-04 13:51pm
Heather hun!
Remember when I made that post about whne
I pinched danicas skin while cutting her
thumb nail and she started screaming and
bleeding and I felt so bad! She forgot
about it after a bit but I had to listen
to tims mom saying to her " oh I know she
hurt u, nanny's here now for u" and sh*t
like that. I was pissed! She made it
seem like I intentionally hurt her or I
didnt know what I was doing n she wasnt
safe wit me. I was mad! Dont worry
hun... Mother-in-laws usually get on some
peopels nerves.... Im better wit it now
but sometimes.. It'll just tick me off
cuz if danica starts crying she tells
everyone "oh shes starving!" and I get so
mad! I hope it gets better.. I hope u
and ryan find an apartment soon so it'll
njust be u 2. Dont worry hun, ur not bad
and mackenzie wont remember it!
shauna
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nippz
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Sep 2004 Posts: 2173 Location: ,
Posted: 10-30-04 19:09pm
Heather! We will all make mistakes sooner
or later with our kids, don't worry. But
the inlaws, shouldn't be taking the blame
on you! It was an accident. Dont mind
them, you should just take mackenzie home
and have some family time with just you
three.
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bellax0x
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Jun 2004 Posts: 3572 Location: Jersey Baby!
Posted: 10-30-04 20:50pm
Girl, no matter what you do they seem like
they will be buttholes, so just forget it.
You and I both know that youre an awesome
mommy! =)
<3
gaby
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KissyBai912
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Aug 2003 Posts: 1762 Location: Venice, Florida
Posted: 10-31-04 09:36am
Girl, do not feel bad. I know exactly how
you feel. Everytime josh starts fussin my
mom will go, oh he's hungry. And im like
no hes not and shell say yeah he is and we
will argue about until I scream at her to
shut up because she doesn't know what the
hell she is talking about because she
doesn't know how to raise kids obviously
because look at the way hers turned out.
Lol. But I never mean it. Just tell her,
yell it if you have to. "i was oregnant
with this little person right here for 9
months and I am the one that has been
there for her 24/7 from day 1, not you.
So I think I might know what my daughter
needs just a little bit better than you
think you do. Ok ok buh bye." lol im a
nerd. But dont feel bad. I did it to
josh once. Do what april said, pull the
skin back. I do it when josh is awake. I
just take a quick snip. And I only take a
little off, just enough to where he cant
scratch himself, but I do it often. It
works for us that way.
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lilmama2b_oct04
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Mar 2004 Posts: 1970 Location: Wisconsin
Posted: 10-31-04 16:09pm
This made me think of how it was when I
was at my moms for a couple nights...
Brooklyn doesnt mind a wet diaper (but I
dont let her sit in it if im aware that
its wet), but when she poops, she only
goes a little bit at a time, and it'll
take her about 30 minutes to be done, well
the second brooklyn would start fussing my
mom would say "oh poor baby, you got a wet
diaper, dont you?" and then she would be
constantly changing her diaper, and
brooklyn got a real bad diaper rash from
how my mom was changing her, when I put
her diaper on, I dont have it pulled up
tight, so its touching her butt, I have it
a bit saggy (but not too saggy where it
leaks) so then when she pees its not
touching her skin... Well my mom puts her
diapers on so tight! And also, I dont
burp brooklyn during night time feedings,
cuz no matter how much I try to burp her,
she doesnt burp while shes asleep, and it
wakes her up, and then I gotta feed her
again to get her back to sleep. Well my
mom kept tellin me I have to burp her at
night or shes gonna wake up in the middle
of the night with a tummy ache... I tried
explaining to her that brooklyn burps
herself most of the time (lol I will try
and try and then I stop and out comes a
burp, or I will lay her down, and she will
burp) my mom said she would burp her while
I went back to bed, well my mom was trying
and trying and she wouldnt burp, then she
goes to lay her down, and out comes a
burp. Lol... And then she wouldnt go
back to bed so I had to feed her again.
My mom was acting like she knew my baby
better than me, and trying to tell me how
to take care of her, when how I do things
is just fine. Shes been fine at night for
the last 7 weeks, so why would not being
burped at night start to bother her now?
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jessamyn
Moderator
Joined: 18 Aug 2004 Posts: 4107 Location: San Diego, CA
Thanks: 11
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Posted: 10-31-04 19:04pm
Accidents happen hunni medical question
em.. Shes okay and she still loves
you trust me my mother in law is
annnnaaallll
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mommaashley
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Oct 2004 Posts: 420 Location: Canada
Posted: 10-31-04 19:09pm
Its a typical nanna thing to do...Ive cut
myself cutting my nails and im sure
everyone else has too at one point or
another. Accidents happen and they happen
to everyone. Cutting a little ones finger
nails is a fine art they dont sit still so
just know that it isnt your fault, it
wasnt on purpose and she needs to realize
this is your child. She wouldnt have
wanted anyone interfering when she was
raising her children so she shouldnt do it
to you
she is bleeding and
of course I didnt mean to do it and now I
hurt her. So ryan and I had to eat lunch
so ryans mom took her and is saying how
bad it is and all this other caca but when
ryan did it the one day it wasnt a big
deal. But since I did it im a bad person.
His sister dad and mom are all actin like
its their baby and covering her with
bandaids and taping her fingers together!
I want her back down here adn I want to go
home. Im sick and tired of feeling like I
do everything wrong with mackenzie ebcause
of his danm family. Im sorry im so ticked
off. I gotta get mackenzie they are
talkin more caca. Ugh I just wanna blow
up at every single one of em!!!!! They
had her all last night so ryan and I could
watch a movie and now they have her again
I want her back!!!
