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ChristineMoney
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Oct 2004
Posts: 20
Location: Sarasota, FL
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B/f Problems
Posted: 10-30-04 15:05pm
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 ok i've hit a
problem my boyfriend I told him about the
baby and he dosent see how I can know so
soon. So I told him I aint had my cycle
yet its been 8 days and I aint had my
cycle yet and he just, I guess he was
surprised by the news. But hes scared
that the baby will come out "odd". And I
dont know if he wants this baby cuz I
dident do this on purpose and he dident
either.
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oangelc543
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Posts: 521
Location: TX
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Posted: 10-30-04 15:28pm
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Are u sure ur pregnant? How far along are
you? Why does he think the baby will be
odd?
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ChristineMoney
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Joined: 30 Oct 2004
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Location: Sarasota, FL
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Posted: 10-30-04 15:40pm
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Cuz he dose a lot of drugs and I aint had
my period yet and its the end of the moth.
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oangelc543
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Joined: 25 Sep 2004
Posts: 521
Location: TX
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Posted: 10-30-04 15:46pm
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O.. Umm well i'd take a test to be sure
you are pregnant, u might not even be
pregnant at all
and as far as I know, his doing drugs
won't affect the baby.. As long as you
arent doing drugs then I think it's fine.
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ChristineMoney
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Joined: 30 Oct 2004
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Location: Sarasota, FL
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Posted: 10-30-04 15:51pm
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Thank god. But I did take the test twice
first one came up posative then went to
negative and the next one came up
negative. But I asked my older sister
about it and she asked if I touched the
strep that you pea on and I told her I
touched the first one and then the 2nd one
it fell off so I put it back in.
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oangelc543
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Posts: 521
Location: TX
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Posted: 10-30-04 15:53pm
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Well false positives arent very common..
So i'd say your probably pregnant.. I
dont think touching the stick does
anything... Anyways, u should get a blood
test done to be sure..
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ChristineMoney
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Location: Sarasota, FL
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Posted: 10-30-04 16:02pm
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Naw it dose if you touch the strip it will
come up false every time . And also I
dont want my dad to know that I am cuz
then he wont let me live w/my mom. He
told me he'll send me away and I cant talk
to my grandma cuz she'll make me have an
abortion and I dont want to I medical
question up the last time and killed my
baby but I dident know I was and I dont
want to lose this one like I lost my last
one I was put under so much stress that I
stopped eating and started smoking and
doing things that your not suppose to do
when your pregnant
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Michelle1337
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Joined: 04 Aug 2004
Posts: 1739
Location: Houston, Texas
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Posted: 10-30-04 16:03pm
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Just dont stress out - maybe you should
see a counselour weekly or something.
Just so you can talk and keep yourself
from doing those things.
Your grandmother cannot make you have an
abortion. No one can...
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kitty2luv
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Joined: 22 Oct 2004
Posts: 1089
Location: with my love
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Hmm
Posted: 10-30-04 17:49pm
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How did u loose yr baby last time?? How
old are you ?
And no one can make u have a abortion
thats yr choice
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bellax0x
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Posted: 10-30-04 18:06pm
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I suggest taking another test..
<3
gaby
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nippz
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Posted: 10-30-04 18:54pm
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Yeah take another test because you never
know. Try a blood test this time.
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ChristineMoney
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Joined: 30 Oct 2004
Posts: 20
Location: Sarasota, FL
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Posted: 10-30-04 20:14pm
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Thats going to be hard cuz my dad told me
if I got pregnant one more time I wont get
to move back in w/my mom. So I kow its
not good to not see a doctor when your
pregnant but I just want it to have a
better life then me and I told my older
sister and she said when I get biger I
have to see a doctor. So I dont know what
im going to do I told my b/f and he dident
want to beleve it and I aint been able to
get a hold of him sence yesterday hes
probley getting drunk trying to get it off
his mind cuz he'll get in trouble too if
his dad found out.
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Michelle1337
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Location: Houston, Texas
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Posted: 10-30-04 21:14pm
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No offense - I mean, I dont wanna start
anything.
But if you didnt wanna get pregnant, then
why did you continue to have sex? That
was the risk you took when you decided to
"pleasure" yourself. And you need to
take the responsibility and own up to it.
Sure, your dad may freak, but he will get
over it with time. You cant just wait
until your "bigger" to go to the doctor.
You really need to go now . . .
You had sex, you need to deal with the
consequences. You cant hide a baby
forever. The sooner you tell your dad,
the better.
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kitty2luv
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I Agree
Posted: 10-30-04 21:19pm
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With michelle I know I made stupid
mistakes w/ haven sex unprotected and too
much strees involved
i would tell your dad asap sooner the
better
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nippz
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Posted: 10-30-04 21:20pm
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First, go to the doctor and have an
ultrasound, let them run some tests to see
if the baby is "odd" and yeah, you
.N.E.E.D. To tell your father sooner or
later, you can't hide it. And it's best
if you tell him now instead of him finding
out, trust me. I waited till I was 5
months pregnant to tell my father, I
waited 4 months and a half to tell my mom.
I completely regret it.
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nippz
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Posted: 10-30-04 21:23pm
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Oh yeah, about the dad/mom thing, if you
knew that if you got pregnant again and
all that drama, why didn't u be more
careful? I dont wanna start anything
either, just wondering. I mean, for me, I
got pregnant without protection, and now I
know of the consequences so i'm definitely
gonna be careful next time. And even if
you do use a condom or birthcontrol, they
are not 100% effective. Jessamyn got
pregnant using birthcontrol and a condom!
Lol isn't that right my jessa (and I can't
wait till dyllie is here!)?
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bellax0x
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Posts: 3572
Location: Jersey Baby!
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Posted: 10-30-04 22:17pm
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Im with ka and michelle
<3
gaby
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linuxChique
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Posts: 4535
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Posted: 10-30-04 22:21pm
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I agree! The sooner the better!
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ChristineMoney
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Oct 2004
Posts: 20
Location: Sarasota, FL
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Posted: 10-31-04 09:14am
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Well I was talking to a guy on the net and
he likes me right so he told me its all in
my head cuz I was going to meet him when I
turned 16 but sense I think im pregnant I
told him I cant cuz I may be pregnant and
this time im not thinking for myself
anymore if I am. So I went on the net and
found out that I ovulated 2 days after I
had sex so I asked a doc about it and I
found out that sperm can live up to five
days. I dont know I think im going to
wait for about 2 more weeks and if I get
any bigger then ill tell my mom first.
Cuz right now my 9's are tight on me lol.
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IDABABY
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Joined: 12 Mar 2004
Posts: 2236
Location: ***Wisconsin Baby***
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Posted: 10-31-04 12:12pm
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You need to get on some birth control, if
you aren't pregnant.
Kristin
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