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MiracleIn2004
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Location: Louisiana
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Question..boyfriend Dilemma, If Anyone Wants to Help
Posted: 10-30-04 16:23pm
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Ok I was looking on my boyfriends bank
statement (i know...Nosey me), but there
was a purchase on there for a budget inn
motel! A motel!!! what? It said on the
26th but the bank doesnt post till 2 days
later so it would have been the 24th and
that was the exact day he was off work and
was by his "people" all day. I am so
pissed, I called him at work today like 5
times and they couldnt find him. what?
Can't find him? But anyways I was
wondering if I should approach him about
it? I mean I dont want him to know I was
looking at his stuff, but if so what
should I say???? I am soooo pissed and
confued and pissed! 
whitney 
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Michelle1337
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Posted: 10-30-04 16:26pm
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You should confront him...He might get
angry that you were looking into his
stuff. But you shouldnt put up with
that...
Thats just my opinion..
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MiracleIn2004
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Location: Louisiana
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Posted: 10-30-04 16:29pm
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What should I say. I don't want to be
like hey I was looking through your stuff
and what were you doing here or whatever.
I dont know I am so off when it comes to
stuff like that. I usaully just break up
with him no matter what he says to save me
the heartbreak and drama  I am
so confused about it.
Whitney
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smith8500
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Posted: 10-30-04 16:30pm
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Huni, I dunno how to bring up the subject,
but bring it up! You should not have to
put up with that caca! Tell him something
girl
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Michelle1337
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Posted: 10-30-04 16:39pm
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You dont need to explain yourself. Or
even tell him how you know, just ask him
straight up..."what were you doing in a
motel on the 24th?"
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linuxChique
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Posted: 10-30-04 16:46pm
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Call the hotel and ask them about it.
Tell them you'll dispute the charge with
your credit card company unless they tell
you who stayed in that room. Tell them
they can prove to you that it was a legit
charge by verifying who stayed there.
Ask what time they checked in and out.
If you threaten to dispute the charge, it
means the hotel doesn't get paid. And
they'll wanna get paid, so they just might
tell you.
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MiracleIn2004
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Location: Louisiana
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Posted: 10-30-04 16:48pm
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You girls have a lot more balls than
me..Lol. I am scared. But I just asked
him if he had sex with someone else and he
said no...But really, would he tell me???
Hell no! Cause I wouldnt tell him..Lol.
But I wouldnt do it. I dont know what
to do tho. Cause if I lose him ill go
crazy..But he wont just be losing me he'll
be losing his son too until we go to
court, so hopefully its a
misunderstanding.
Another thing I looked up the motel and it
doesnt exist, not a name, or a number at
least not under the name the bank has it
under, its not even in the phonebook.
Does some motels go by different names or
something?
Any advice? Anyone?
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MiracleIn2004
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Location: Louisiana
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Posted: 10-30-04 18:57pm
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Anyone 
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June4life
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Posted: 10-30-04 19:16pm
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Hey jeni, I dont know what you should do,
but budget inn does exist in lousiana. I
did a search on it. Theres one in
jonesboro, la, and another in monroe, la,
and another in gonzales, la.
I wish I had some advice on ur situation,
but I dont know what to tell you.!!
These are the addresses of the budget
inn's in louisiana!
2115 louisville ave
monroe la
71201
318-322-8161
and
305 allen ave
jonesboro la
71202
318-259-3022
and
2142 west highway 30
gonzales, louisiana 70737
<3 june
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MiracleIn2004
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Location: Louisiana
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Posted: 10-30-04 19:42pm
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Thx, im whitney by the way not jeni..Lol..
:d . But ok one more thing this is the
exact thing from the statement
10/26/2004 card purchase
budget inn motel marrero la 20.00
ok but there is no budget inn in marrero,
I checked a thousand times and I called
information. Now there are other motels
thats why I asked if they put diff names.
And 20.00 is only for those nasty pay by
the hour motels so that makes me more
pissed. I know this is really annoying to
yall but I really would like input cause I
have no one else to talk to about it right
now. 
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kitty_55
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Posted: 10-30-04 20:06pm
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Hey.... I dont know what I would do but
you deffianly need to ask him about it...
Where did you find his credit card bill??
If it was in the open say you didnt know
what it was and looked at it and you saw
the motel.....
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MiracleIn2004
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Location: Louisiana
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Posted: 10-30-04 20:13pm
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Actually it was off his online banking
thing on the net, he doesnt know that I
know his social security #. So thats
another reason I dunno how to approach
him.
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bellax0x
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Posted: 10-30-04 20:39pm
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Wow I would deff say somthing to him
<3
gaby
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cherriegurl
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Posted: 10-30-04 22:04pm
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Dont tell him how u know! Pretend like a
"lil birdie" told u!!
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rissalee21
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Location: michigan
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Posted: 10-31-04 07:37am
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Lol I know it sounds bad..But id be like
my friend seen you walking out with
someone..And use like reverse
physcology..Haha it always works..I wish
yah luck tho hunni
<3
marisa
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IDABABY
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Posted: 10-31-04 14:52pm
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That would make me really pissed off, if
he never mentioned it to me. Wow, I am
sorry that you have to be in that
situation, definitly confront him about
it...Hope it goes well!
Kristin
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smith8500
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Posted: 10-31-04 14:53pm
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Yup! Don't tell him you looked at the
statement. Tell him that you were called
and told! And be like what!
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nippz
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Posted: 10-31-04 16:23pm
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| cherriegurl
wrote: | | dont tell him how u know!
Pretend like a "lil birdie" told
u!! |
yeah do that. I confront my boyfriend all
the time when I see his msgs with other
girls or if hes spending his money on his
car again instead of me and the baby, and
he gets pissed that I was hacking into his
account and stuff, and how I dont trust
him. So yeah tell him u heard from
someone (;
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jessamyn
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Posted: 10-31-04 19:02pm
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Tell him that someone saw him and told you
and u wanna know whats up... Heck I have
balls of steel hahahahah i'll call the
hotel for u like erin said!
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