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itzamejonvia
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Could I Be Pregnant?
Posted: 10-31-04 01:10am
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Ok... I got my period on oct 19th and it
lasted till the 23rd. I had sex on oct
30th early in the morning unprotected and
my boyfriend had "cummed" in me. I was
just wondering if theres a possibilty that
I could be pregnant.
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nippz
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Posted: 10-31-04 02:10am
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Well if he came in u then u have a very
high chance.
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itzamejonvia
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Posted: 10-31-04 05:28am
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Well.... I really hope so. But.... Im
19...Which means id be 20 by the time I
had the baby... I work 2 jobs, and I have
my own apt. And car....So im very
responsible. I'd be a good mother too...
I have alot of experience since I practaly
raised my sister. I used to babysit a new
born baby who was colic when I was only 14
years old too... (and her brother who was
2 at that time).... I want a baby right
now so bad...Is that wrong? Do u think im
making a mistake?
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PattyV
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Posted: 10-31-04 11:34am
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Wanting a baby and having a baby are two
different things.The fact that you are
asking if you are doing the right thing
raises the question if you are truly
ready.Would your current boyfriend be
there to help raise the child??Does he
know you want to get pregnant?Your life
will be forever changed,you will not be
able to work two jobs unless you have
really reliable childcare.If you do
,someone else will be seeing your child
more than you.Having a child of your own
is way different than watching someone
else's child,you do not get to leave when
the parents come home-you are the
parent.You are young and have plenty of
time for kids,enjoy yourself and see what
life has to offer you before you have
children.I'm not saying that it's wrong to
have kids so young,but i'm sure if you ask
some of these teen moms if they could have
waited until later to have kids, the
majority would say yes.Not that they do
not love and cherish their kids,but i'm
sure that they would have liked to have
waited.I wish you the best.Patty
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nippz
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Posted: 10-31-04 16:49pm
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Well you seem pretty stable, but make sure
your boyfriend will play his act in the
relationship, too! He needs to be
supportive, baby's are a huge
responsibility. Im 14 and pregnant.
30.3wks to be exact and the father is
wheww..An ass.
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Mom of 2 Boys
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Posted: 10-31-04 17:07pm
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All depends on when you ovulate. You
could be pregnant. It is hard being a
single mom so I hope your boyfriend sticks
with you if you are pregnant...
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jessamyn
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Posted: 10-31-04 18:37pm
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Theres a possibility everytime you have
unprotected sex
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nippz
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Posted: 10-31-04 20:31pm
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| mom of 2 boys
wrote: | | all depends on when you
ovulate. |
but researchers say you will never know
when you actually ovulate.
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bellax0x
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Posted: 10-31-04 21:09pm
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Yes theres a pretty good chance..
<3
gaby
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itzamejonvia
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Posted: 10-31-04 21:21pm
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That is true about not knowing when you
ovalate.... Exspecially since im not
regular with my period.
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sandyallen
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Posted: 10-31-04 21:34pm
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I totally agree with patty v. It
definitely sounds like you are not ready!
Sincerely,
sandy
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itzamejonvia
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Posted: 10-31-04 22:39pm
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Think about it tho... With all the money
and experience in the world....Is anyone
ever ready for there first child... I
mean really ready.
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itzamejonvia
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Posted: 10-31-04 23:20pm
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When should I take a test? Im not
expecting to get my period on time so I
dont have to wait till then...
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