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Sarahs_In_Trouble
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Oct 2004 Posts: 36 Location: Pennsylvania
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This Is My Life
Posted: 10-31-04 07:36am
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Hi everybody...Thanks for the nice
welcome....I was like really scared and I
needed someplace to go. I am 15 and in
9th grade. My mom and dad are divorced
and my dad has custody of me. My mom ran
off with another guy when I was 9 and I
hardly ever even hear from her. My dad is
a lawyer and he's like never around. We
have a housekeeper who works for a couple
hours a day and cleans the house and does
the chores and makes us dinner that we
just have to microwave. I know that
doesn't sound very bad but it is. I feel
so alone most of the time...In a way i'm
almost glad that i'm going to have this
baby because it will be somebody for me.
Anyway, there is was this really cute guy
who works at mcdonalds and every time I
went there he flirted with me and then he
asked me out and we went to a movie and we
sat in the back and we kinda made out but
not like all the way. The next time we
went to a party at one of his friends
houses and we did it. He is 18 and my dad
can send him to jail if he finds out that
we did it...And besides we broke up anyway
cause he said I was too young. I don't
know what to do....I just can't tell my
dad i'm pregnant...He will go nuts and
like put me in a home for unwed mothers or
something so his friends don't know that
i'm pregnant. I really need some friends
to get me through this....My yahoo
messenger name is
sarahs_in_trouble
if anybody wants to talk to me.
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rissalee21
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Feb 2004 Posts: 526 Location: michigan
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Posted: 10-31-04 07:41am
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Hey hun im on yahoo right now if you need
to talk..I think you just need some
venting..It will all be okay belive me..
<3
marisa
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IDABABY
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Mar 2004 Posts: 2236 Location: ***Wisconsin Baby***
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Posted: 10-31-04 14:57pm
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Hey sarah, I know you are scared, but
everything will be okay. Its really
hard...Are you positive that you are
pregnant?? My name on yahoo is
sweetninnocentbabydoll, I added ya.
Kristin
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Sarahs_In_Trouble
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Oct 2004 Posts: 36 Location: Pennsylvania
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Hi Kristin
Posted: 10-31-04 15:22pm
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I am 100 percent sure that i'm pregnant.
I tool two pregnancy tests at home and
went to the clinic...They even gave me a
due date....And i've had terrible morning
sickness...I've already thrown up once
today. I tried the crackers and they are
helping some.
My yahoo is working funny......I'll try to
get it working
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IDABABY
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Mar 2004 Posts: 2236 Location: ***Wisconsin Baby***
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Posted: 10-31-04 15:24pm
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Well, it will only get easier after you
tell your family, seriously. More likely,
a week after you tell everyone, they will
get used to the idea. Are you planning on
keeping the baby/
kristin
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LHSbabe0207
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Oct 2004 Posts: 632 Location: Louisiana girl!!!
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Posted: 10-31-04 15:24pm
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Hey sarah if I havent already introduced
myself my name is jessica 15 in 10th grade
and possibly pregnant. Im taken a test in
a week in a half to see if I am. Pm me or
im on aol or yahoo. My yahoo name is
peytonsdramaqueen_22 and my aol is
xolhsbabi4phm2xo byebye gurl
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Sarahs_In_Trouble
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Oct 2004 Posts: 36 Location: Pennsylvania
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I Don't Know......
Posted: 10-31-04 15:35pm
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My dad is going to kill me when he finds
out i'm pregnant. Maybe i'll just wait a
little while before I tell him. I was
afraid he heard me throwing up this
morning but he didn't say anything.
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Sarahs_In_Trouble
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Oct 2004 Posts: 36 Location: Pennsylvania
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Hi Jessica!
Posted: 10-31-04 15:38pm
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It's nice to meet you. What are you going
to do if you are pregnant? Do you have a
boyfriend? I'm really scared to tell my
dad. I like see him so little I could
probably go through this whole pregnancy
qand he wouldn't even notice.
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lauren22
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Jun 2004 Posts: 647 Location: Alabama
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Posted: 10-31-04 15:44pm
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Hey sarah! I'm lauren, 22, not pregnant
and dont have kids! I'm sorry things are
so rough for you right now, but they will
get better! Let us know if theres
anything we can do to help! We're glad to
have you!
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2ferano
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Dec 2003 Posts: 3717
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Posted: 10-31-04 16:45pm
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Maybe your dad does need to put that guy
in jail! I mean if you weren't too young
to have sex with then you shouldn't be too
young to be with!
You have to tell your dad honey so you can
get proper medical care. Maybe you can
try to contact your mom and tell her
first? Good luck. Everything will work
out fine!
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IDABABY
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Mar 2004 Posts: 2236 Location: ***Wisconsin Baby***
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Posted: 10-31-04 16:48pm
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I have talked to sarah, and she wants to
wait until her dad can't make her have an
abortion. She will tell him after that.
You can't have in abortion in the united
states after 24 weeks..*thank you erin*.
She isnt goign to be able to hide it for
that long.
Kristin
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2ferano
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Dec 2003 Posts: 3717
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Posted: 10-31-04 16:52pm
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Yeah. The most critical time is in the
first couple months.
Sarah...You need to go to the doctor, and
your dad cannot make you have an abortion.
Maybe you should tell a school counselor
or someone like that first. That way if
you "disappear" someone will know what is
going on.
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Sarahs_In_Trouble
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Oct 2004 Posts: 36 Location: Pennsylvania
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Thanks
Posted: 10-31-04 18:48pm
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Having people that care about me when
you've just met me makes me want to cry.
I will do everything I can to make sure my
baby is healthy, I did go to a clinic and
i'm taking vitamins even though they are
yucky. I promise that i'll tell my dad
soon...I just have to find the right
time.
Sarah
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jessamyn
Moderator
Joined: 18 Aug 2004 Posts: 4116 Location: San Diego, CA
Thanks: 11
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Posted: 10-31-04 18:51pm
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The mcdonalds guy is the dad? Does he
know?
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jessamyn
Moderator
Joined: 18 Aug 2004 Posts: 4116 Location: San Diego, CA
Thanks: 11
Thanked:3
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