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Sarahs_In_Trouble

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Posted: 10-31-04 07:36am

Hi everybody...Thanks for the nice welcome....I was like really scared and I needed someplace to go. I am 15 and in 9th grade. My mom and dad are divorced and my dad has custody of me. My mom ran off with another guy when I was 9 and I hardly ever even hear from her. My dad is a lawyer and he's like never around. We have a housekeeper who works for a couple hours a day and cleans the house and does the chores and makes us dinner that we just have to microwave. I know that doesn't sound very bad but it is. I feel so alone most of the time...In a way i'm almost glad that i'm going to have this baby because it will be somebody for me. Anyway, there is was this really cute guy who works at mcdonalds and every time I went there he flirted with me and then he asked me out and we went to a movie and we sat in the back and we kinda made out but not like all the way. The next time we went to a party at one of his friends houses and we did it. He is 18 and my dad can send him to jail if he finds out that we did it...And besides we broke up anyway cause he said I was too young. I don't know what to do....I just can't tell my dad i'm pregnant...He will go nuts and like put me in a home for unwed mothers or something so his friends don't know that i'm pregnant. I really need some friends to get me through this....My yahoo messenger name is

sarahs_in_trouble

if anybody wants to talk to me.
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rissalee21

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Joined: 01 Feb 2004
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Location: michigan

Posted: 10-31-04 07:41am

Hey hun im on yahoo right now if you need to talk..I think you just need some venting..It will all be okay belive me..

<3
marisa
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IDABABY

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Posted: 10-31-04 14:57pm

Hey sarah, I know you are scared, but everything will be okay. Its really hard...Are you positive that you are pregnant?? My name on yahoo is sweetninnocentbabydoll, I added ya.

Kristin
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Sarahs_In_Trouble

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Hi Kristin
Posted: 10-31-04 15:22pm

I am 100 percent sure that i'm pregnant. I tool two pregnancy tests at home and went to the clinic...They even gave me a due date....And i've had terrible morning sickness...I've already thrown up once today. I tried the crackers and they are helping some.

My yahoo is working funny......I'll try to get it working
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IDABABY

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Posted: 10-31-04 15:24pm

Well, it will only get easier after you tell your family, seriously. More likely, a week after you tell everyone, they will get used to the idea. Are you planning on keeping the baby/
kristin
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LHSbabe0207

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Joined: 24 Oct 2004
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Posted: 10-31-04 15:24pm

Hey sarah if I havent already introduced myself my name is jessica 15 in 10th grade and possibly pregnant. Im taken a test in a week in a half to see if I am. Pm me or im on aol or yahoo. My yahoo name is peytonsdramaqueen_22 and my aol is xolhsbabi4phm2xo byebye gurl
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Sarahs_In_Trouble

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I Don't Know......
Posted: 10-31-04 15:35pm

My dad is going to kill me when he finds out i'm pregnant. Maybe i'll just wait a little while before I tell him. I was afraid he heard me throwing up this morning but he didn't say anything.
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Sarahs_In_Trouble

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Hi Jessica!
Posted: 10-31-04 15:38pm

It's nice to meet you. What are you going to do if you are pregnant? Do you have a boyfriend? I'm really scared to tell my dad. I like see him so little I could probably go through this whole pregnancy qand he wouldn't even notice.
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lauren22

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Joined: 24 Jun 2004
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Posted: 10-31-04 15:44pm

Hey sarah! I'm lauren, 22, not pregnant and dont have kids! I'm sorry things are so rough for you right now, but they will get better! Let us know if theres anything we can do to help! We're glad to have you!
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2ferano

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Posted: 10-31-04 16:45pm

Maybe your dad does need to put that guy in jail! I mean if you weren't too young to have sex with then you shouldn't be too young to be with!
You have to tell your dad honey so you can get proper medical care. Maybe you can try to contact your mom and tell her first? Good luck. Everything will work out fine!
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IDABABY

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Posted: 10-31-04 16:48pm

I have talked to sarah, and she wants to wait until her dad can't make her have an abortion. She will tell him after that. You can't have in abortion in the united states after 24 weeks..*thank you erin*. She isnt goign to be able to hide it for that long.

Kristin
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2ferano

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Posted: 10-31-04 16:52pm

Yeah. The most critical time is in the first couple months.
Sarah...You need to go to the doctor, and your dad cannot make you have an abortion. Maybe you should tell a school counselor or someone like that first. That way if you "disappear" someone will know what is going on.
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Sarahs_In_Trouble

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Posted: 10-31-04 18:48pm

Having people that care about me when you've just met me makes me want to cry. I will do everything I can to make sure my baby is healthy, I did go to a clinic and i'm taking vitamins even though they are yucky. I promise that i'll tell my dad soon...I just have to find the right time.

Sarah
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jessamyn

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Posted: 10-31-04 18:51pm

The mcdonalds guy is the dad? Does he know?
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jessamyn

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Posted: 10-31-04 18:52pm

Where in pa do you live?
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