Condoms, Pre Cum And Proper Use Posted: 10-31-04 23:35pm
I used to be on the pill and use condoms
at the same time. I had to go off the
pill six months ago because of how sick it
would make me. I have been just using
condoms. I feel as though we use them
properly. There is no genital contact
before the condom is put on, we use ky
jelly, we squeeze the tip for air and
before my boyfriend pulls out. We always
check for holes using water as well.
However
about a month ago we were having sex and
he went half way soft for no reason but
not soft enough for the condom to slip
off. I am worried there may have been
precum in the condom and it may have
escaped into me since he went slightly
soft. I am worried it may have swam up to
the top and gotten out. Is this
impossible? Should I be worried? Am I
using condoms effectively enough?
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laura_girl
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Mar 2004 Posts: 173 Location: Montreal, Quebec
Posted: 11-01-04 01:51am
If it was a month ago you can test to see
if you're pg. If you have other concerns
such as sti's it may be too early to see.
If "for no reason" the condom slipped off
then there really isn't much you can do
about it... Penises get hard, and
sometimes much to the shagrin of the woman
they get soft. I'm sure you're using it
right, just a freak accident.
Good luck
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PattyV
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 May 2004 Posts: 1103 Location: Chicago area
Posted: 11-03-04 12:27pm
Sounds like you and honey are using
condoms correctly,but you may want to use
a spermicide as a lube, just for the extra
measure of protection.Good luck to both of
you.Oh, and get a pregnancy test to ease
your mind.They are fast and
inexpensive.Patty
