Babby Daddy Drama

When I told tim, he looked like his whole world crashed and he asked me to get an abortion... He even said "i'll pay for it all!" and he didnt have a job. I said no.. We worked things out...
I found the best way to tell him, was just to pull the pregnancy test out and show him. (even tho some guys wont know what it is or what it means lol!) but it was easier for me doin that way then fidning the right words! Lol!

Shauna

Well in my situ we weren't really trying but we knew it could happen and when I didn't get my period he said I should wait to take a prego test cuz I had been stressed out and so I waited til I was 2 mon late and he was in alabama with his brother when he knew I was taking the test and he called me and asked me what it said and I told him it was positive and he got real excited and couldn't wait to get home and he has been a big part and real excited this whole time!!!

I actually had been broken up with mine for like a week or so then I found out I was pregnant and I called him up crying and he was like its ok everythings gonna be ok, then we got back together.

He hung up on me.
He called me back
he swore alot
i cried
he tried to comfort me
it didnt really work because he was just as scared as me.
We didnt talk for a few days
he called and asked me if I was "sure it was his".. Even though he knew the answer to that question.

Didnt call for another few days
then he showed up at my house and let me cry to him, and we decided that as long as we had each other then everything would be ok
and he promised he'd never leave me alone.

Oh its okay! It was rough at the time but me being pregnant acually brought us closer together!
I had a huge drinking problem before I got preggy and after I found out.. I obviously couldnt drink anymore so it was kinda like tim and I got to know eachother for the first time (since I was always drunk when I started goin out wit him)
now hes the most wonderful father!

Babywuv, i'm glad u two got back together!

shauna

My boyfriend forced me to have an abortion, but nope nope nope, me? Never. Only in those "cases" I will use abortion as a exception. Even my mom was pissed at him for trying to make me have an abortion. My father and mother say abortion is homicide so they would kill me too if I had an abortion.

I didnt exactly tell mine...Because we both found out at the same time.

But after we found out there was a slow process of chris turning into a big fat jerk!

At first he was very excited...
Then scared...
Then started getting mean..
And finally, he turned into the problem he is now.

My boyfriend was there when I took the test, and he really really wanted it. He was very excited and still is to this day altho he is getting really anxious lol.

My man freaked out. When I told adam, we were on the phone and 3 hours away from each other, he was down in college, and I was at my house. I told him, and he freaked out...And went for a drive and just wanted to kill himself. We were the kind of people...That were like this would never happen to us..Yadda yadda. So, then we talked on yahoo, and I told him to leave me alone and I asked him if he ever wanted anything to do with his kid, he just wanted to up and leave and forget about me. Remember we were only dating, for about 3 weeks when this all happened if that. So, like 1 hour later after this huge drama fest, he called me and we talked everything out...And when it came down to it, we told our parents eventually...And I thought about adoption and he wouldnt let that happen because he said if I ended up giving it up for adoption, he would be the one adopting the little guy. After losing the baby things got really hard and I think we were going to break up but we didn't, today is our one year anniversary and we are still going strong..And he is still the one. Freaking out isn't a bad thing...Although it still hurts me that he thought about leaving me in that moment of time.

Kristin

Paul was happy just in shock

Kristin,
i'm sorry that you had such a rough time....But i'm happy that you have 'your one'. That makes everything go a little better even when you feel like your world is falling apart.

Hehe its okay, it was all worth, after going through hell for my baby, I just wish he was in my arms right now ya know?
Kristin