The problem with me is that if I decide I
like someone, and I find out they like me
back, I don't like them as much. Its
like the challenge is gone. But once
they move on i'm upset that I lost them.
I don't know whats wrong with me, and i'm
afraid if this continues, i'll end up
alone. I don't know what to do or how to
get over this. Please help.
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nahgem4
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No1s Replyed Posted: 12-08-04 22:25pm
Please, I know some of you have looked at
this..Could u just post any ideas u have
on how I can work this out. Thank you
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darkV
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Oct 2004 Posts: 43
Posted: 12-09-04 16:42pm
It sounds like if you end up dating
someone, they might be an a-hole. I know
this type. You need to find someone who
challanges you, but you need to exept
affection back. Keep persuing the
challenging ones and soon you will meet
someone who holds your attention even
after you have them. Just dont settle for
someone mean though.
Good luck
darkv
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nahgem4
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Posted: 06-21-05 22:21pm
Thanks for ur help :wink:
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MissShortie
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 May 2005 Posts: 146
Posted: 06-21-05 23:01pm
I know excatly what you are talking about,
completly. Nothing is wrong with you, I
went through this when I was in jr. High.
Like I would get into a guy, and what
not, and flirt with them, until they just
had to look my way, and lure them into me,
and once I got them and they told me they
liked me or wanted to date me whatever, id
feel like yuck, and be totally un
instrested anymore, itd just happen like
that! So weeeird! I hated it, because it
made me feel bad, like I just wanted to
like someone have have them like me back,
but for it stay like that! Luckily it was
just a phase and I got over it, I dont
know how but I just grew out of it, just
trying to tell you on what I remember
because jr. High was a while ago, haha.
But don't worry! Not sure how old you
are, but you'll most likely mature out of
it : )
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Justin_Toronto
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Jan 2005 Posts: 418 Location: Toronto, ON
Posted: 06-27-05 12:38pm
You like the chase, that's all. Nothing
wrong with you. Not healthy either, but
hey... Whatever makes you happy. Just
don't toy with anyones hearts too much, or
you can expect when you finally do really
fall for someone.. For it to happen to
you too. :)
