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oangelc543
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2004
Posts: 521
Location: TX
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Break Down
Posted: 11-01-04 23:30pm
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Okay.. Well I was just sitting here..
And I realized.. Im 15. I'm 15 and im
pregnant.. I barely know anything about
pregnancy.. And I dont know how to be a
mom. Im so scared, what if im not a good
mom?! What if the baby is born and I
feel like I do right now?... Im tryingn
so hard to be strong.. But its so hard..
I've got school, and trying to keep up
grades... And thinking about what the
world im going to be doing when the baby
comes. And it scares me because I dont
know! I dont know how to be a mom!!
im sorry.. I just needed to vent a
little.. Maybe its the hormones kicking
in, I dont know.. It just hit me
though.. Really hard..I dont know how to
make myself feel better
**sorry if this posts twice, it delteed it
b4**
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cherriegurl
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Jul 2004
Posts: 1218
Location: Washington state
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Posted: 11-01-04 23:36pm
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Oh girlie im so sorry!! Im sure u will
be agood mom! Read books and study!
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Xlil ne neX05
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Oct 2004
Posts: 73
Location: fontana, ca
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Posted: 11-02-04 00:00am
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Dont worry!!! You will do great! Just
read up online or check out books, theres
lots of info out there!! :d
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nippz
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Sep 2004
Posts: 2173
Location: ,
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Posted: 11-02-04 00:03am
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Aww omg I know how you feel. Hey im 14
and pregnant, we're going through the same
thing. And I know its gonna be hard but
we gotta accept the consequences.
Pregnancy is a beautiful thing. Babies
are beautiful things. And it's our
babies. Dont worry hun, we'll be fine..
In the end this will make us so much
stronger..
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jessamyn
Moderator
Joined: 18 Aug 2004
Posts: 4101
Location: San Diego, CA
Thanks: 11
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Posted: 11-02-04 00:05am
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Omg babe I know how it is... Ive been
there and even now this pregnancy and 18
i'm scared to caca... Trust me your
maternal instincts will kick in plus sooo
many ppl even when you dont want them too
will be there to butt in and give you
their opinions and how to raise your
baby.... You can call and vent to me
whenever if you'd like pm me and i'll give
u my number... I'll cry for no reason and
like I keep thinking i'll fail but it will
all work out... This is all happening for
a reason...
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nippz
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Sep 2004
Posts: 2173
Location: ,
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Posted: 11-02-04 00:12am
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| jessamyn
wrote: | | this is all happening for a
reason... |
yes yes, everything happens for a reason!
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mommaashley
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Oct 2004
Posts: 420
Location: Canada
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Posted: 11-02-04 00:12am
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Ya dont worry, I m 17 and petrified...Im
like a sitting duck now 4 days over
due(its after 12 lol) and I feel like just
screaming...Dont worry everyone goes
through the "ahhh im gonna be a mom"
stage:)
*ps
what does health question mean?*
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Michelle1337
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Aug 2004
Posts: 1739
Location: Houston, Texas
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Posted: 11-02-04 00:18am
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Health question is a forum bleep for
caca....
Aww i'm sorry honey! Dont worry you'll be
a great mom!!!!! Your motherly instincts
will kick in! Go book shopping for "the
first years" books....You'll do great! I
promise!!
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mommaashley
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Oct 2004
Posts: 420
Location: Canada
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Heathergirl
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Oct 2004
Posts: 719
Location: Michigan
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Posted: 11-02-04 03:19am
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Hey ! First, i'm sure you are going to
be a great mommy! And 2ndly, I just had
a mini break down of my own.....And it had
nothing to do with pregnancy! I think it
is in our (females) genetic makeup to have
at least four break downs a year.....And
i've had two this month alone. I guess
i'm one hellofa woman. Mine had nothing
to do with babies and everything to do
with being away from my boyfriend for way
too long. I guess i'm just praying that
he isn't my boyfriend for long and that he
promotes himself to a higher standing.
But anyway, calm down, don't worry, there
are so many resources out there to help
you! Us for starters!
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GuitarJade
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Oct 2004
Posts: 330
Location: Pennsylvania
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Posted: 11-02-04 08:25am
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Girls, all of you are going to make great
mothers... No matter how old or young you
are. Negative thoughts become negative
actions. Being a good mother is not
dependent on how much .S.T.U.F.F you give
your children, but how much .L.O.V.E you
give them... And with that in mind, I
know that each one of you will be awesome
mothers!
~~~~small blessings~~~~
dear lord, it's such a hectic day
with little time to stop and pray
for life's been anything but calm
since you called on me to be a mom
running errands, matching socks
building dreams with building blocks
cooking, cleaning, and finding shoes
and other stuff that children lose
gitting lids on bottled bugs
wiping tears and giving hugs
a stack of last week's mail to read
so where's the quiet time I need?
Yet when I steal a minute, lord
just at the sink or ironing board
to ask the blessings of your grace
i seen then, in my small one's face
that you have blessed me
all the while
and I stop to kiss
that precious smile
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oangelc543
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2004
Posts: 521
Location: TX
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Posted: 11-02-04 09:31am
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Aww i'm gunna cry, you guys are so sweet
i <3 u guys!! Thanks for
understanding!
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LHSbabe0207
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Oct 2004
Posts: 632
Location: Louisiana girl!!!
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Posted: 11-02-04 10:58am
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Hun your gonna be a g.R.E.A.T. Mom dont
worry.. You have to learn and catch on..
Read books.. Get info from other people.
People will help you. Dony put yourself
down like that.
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linuxChique
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 May 2004
Posts: 4535
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Posted: 11-02-04 10:59am
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Don't worry about it!! Millions of women
have been first-time moms and done a
wonderful job at it! I don't know
anything about motherhood either. We
will figure it out together!
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smith8500
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 6623
Location: Louisiana
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Posted: 11-02-04 11:13am
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Awe huni. You'll get it. Don't worry.
It takes time and we're all here for you.
Every mother had to be a "first time"
mother once. We'll help you!
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Sarahs_In_Trouble
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Oct 2004
Posts: 36
Location: Pennsylvania
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Posted: 11-02-04 17:11pm
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I feel just like you do! I'm 15 too and
like suddenly there is this little person
growing inside me thats gonna depend on me
for everything! That's so scary....And I
don't have a mom around to help me. I'm
really glad that I found you
grrls....Knowing you're here makes me feel
better
sarah
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IDABABY
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Mar 2004
Posts: 2236
Location: ***Wisconsin Baby***
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Posted: 11-02-04 23:27pm
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You are going to be a great mother, dont
worry. See you already sound like you are
caring and loving!! Thats huge!!
Kristin
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