nippz
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Sep 2004
Posts: 2173
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Today Is..
Posted: 11-02-04 15:38pm
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Me & al's 2 year anniversary. I feel
so empty. He hasn't been supportive and
how do I know if he'll ever start? My
father expects us to get married, along
with all my other relatives except for my
mom. She's the only understandng person
there is.
Grr and u know what I realized? Im like
.. "the man" of the relationship! I used
to always pay for food whenever we went
out! Gas for .H.I.S. Car! And on
valentines day I got him a gift and I got
nothing  and I even had to
pay for my share of dinner. 
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linuxChique
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 May 2004
Posts: 4535
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Posted: 11-02-04 15:45pm
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Man sounds like you're better off without
him!!
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LHSbabe0207
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Oct 2004
Posts: 632
Location: Louisiana girl!!!
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Posted: 11-02-04 15:48pm
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Im sorry ka! You dont need him if he is
gonna treat you like crap!! There's other
fish in the sea!
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bellax0x
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Jun 2004
Posts: 3572
Location: Jersey Baby!
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Posted: 11-02-04 16:11pm
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I agree with the others. Dont be sad =(
<3
gaby
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hm_03
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Apr 2004
Posts: 483
Location: Massachusett
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Posted: 11-02-04 16:27pm
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Wow that really sucks i'm so sorry to hear
that.
He is no good if you're the one that has
to pull money out all the time. I mean
it's no big deal if it's the two of you
where at times he pays or you pay but when
it's you all the time that sucks. He is
no man and like erin said you are better
off with out him.
Hopefully he'll realize what he is losing
and you don't have to marry him right?
Like are the two of you together?????
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nippz
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Sep 2004
Posts: 2173
Location: ,
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Posted: 11-02-04 16:29pm
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If I dont stick with him, i'll dissapoint
all my family again and they'll laugh and
say "i told you so".
My family is so critical. Getting
pregnant at a young age was their worst
nightmares. The last thing they expected
me to do, because everyone in the family
had gotten pregnant young, too, and they
didn't want me ending up like them, being
a single parent mother with no job,
stressing all the time borrowing money
from parents.
I let everyone down. And the only way to
prove to them that I can still succeed in
life is if I finish my education,
graduate, and live happily ever after with
al.
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Ellie6388
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Oct 2004
Posts: 201
Location: Destin Fl
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Posted: 11-02-04 16:34pm
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Ka, how old is this "boy" ( he should be a
man considering he's about to be a dad) ?
Is he in cali? You are so young and
beautiful (inside and out) i'm sure you
will find someone much better to be apart
of you and kaila's life!
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nippz
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Sep 2004
Posts: 2173
Location: ,
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Posted: 11-02-04 16:36pm
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He's 18. He was 17 when he got me preggy,
though. He's in jersey right now and i'm
expecting him to come here along with my
mom, when i'm about to deliver, but he's
been a real problem lately and is changing
his mind. Thank you so much, that made me
feel a little better (:
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little_woman
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Mar 2004
Posts: 765
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Re: Today Is..
Posted: 11-02-04 16:46pm
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Grr and u know what I realized? Im like
.. "the man" of the relationship! I
used to always pay for food whenever we
went out! Gas for .H.I.S. Car! And
on valentines day I got him a gift and I
got nothing and I even had to
pay for my share of dinner. [/quote
youre a pretty cute man ka! Lol just
kidding, hun I think you need to let him
go already hes done nothing for you and
the lil one but make you cry and get
upset. I know that family is important to
you *if not the most important thing* but
you need to do whats best for you and
kaila
meg
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GuitarJade
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Oct 2004
Posts: 330
Location: Pennsylvania
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Posted: 11-02-04 16:54pm
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Ka- I know what you mean about
"dissappointing" your family... Kinda
runs in the asian bloodline (i know, i'm
korean). I, along with the other girls
here, know that it's going to be tough,
but you need to quit thinking that you let
everybody else down. If he's so immature
and unsupportive, why do you need him? He
won't do anything but pull you down and
make you cry. You and your baby don't
need that. I know that you think that you
can prove to your family that you're not a
"failure" is to finish school (which is
definitely a good idea anyways) and live
"happily ever after" with the boy, but
that's soooooooooooo totally not true.
You just be the best mom you can be and do
the best you can for you baby and that'll
be the .B.E.S.T thing!!!!!
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IDABABY
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Mar 2004
Posts: 2236
Location: ***Wisconsin Baby***
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Posted: 11-02-04 23:23pm
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Im sorry ka!! *hugs* I hope things start
looking up for you..Dont worry about him,
youve got me and I love ya!!
Kristin
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nippz
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Sep 2004
Posts: 2173
Location: ,
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Posted: 11-03-04 01:25am
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Aww thanks girls *cyber hugs*
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1sttimemama
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Oct 2004
Posts: 198
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Posted: 11-03-04 10:54am
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Dont marry someone to please your family.
Thats something you have to live with.
Youre so young, and you dont need someone
who doesnt treat you right.
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hm_03
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Apr 2004
Posts: 483
Location: Massachusett
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Posted: 11-03-04 10:56am
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I know it must be hard with family and
that you are so young. I know the last
thing you want is for them to think
your're a failure. But yes you better
finish school get your education and if al
is not the one who will make you happy
then you can kick him to the curb. I hope
this baby will bring you both together but
if not then you will have to just ignore
what everyone thinks because your
happiness should come first and the babies
well being.
I had an asian friend and her parents
were like that too, but she did not get
pregnant but this guy she was dating they
expected them to get married. But they
didn't she's a bad girl.
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jessamyn
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Joined: 18 Aug 2004
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Location: San Diego, CA
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Re: Today Is..
Posted: 11-03-04 10:58am
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I told you he was a friend babe! But I
know you cant help but love him :-/ has he
called? Or anything yet? This baby is
not a game and he needs to realize that
good and hard... He cant treate you this
way! I love you baby girl!
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