Do you think there is a BIG chance that I am pregnant?
Yes
88%
[ 8 ]
No
11%
[ 1 ]
Total Votes : 9
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YoungN
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Nov 2004 Posts: 42
My Situation Posted: 11-02-04 20:00pm
Hey girls!
...Here is my situation, I am 19 y/o and
my bf is 27 y/o. We haven't been together
all that long (together since june
04)...And we weren't exclusively dating so
I was seeing other guys every now and
then.
The first time we had unprotected sex was
on october 7th...It wasn't something I had
planned on happening but it did happen...I
wasn't too worried b/c I had my period on
october 14th and it was normal. I didn't
want to make unprotected sex a routine
thing in our relationship b/c of how risky
it is...
Throughout october we continued having sex
using the "withdrawal method" mostly...
We had sex on october 11th,18th,and the
25th.
On october 26th I ended up having sex with
another guy (which I regret so
much!!!)...We had sex more than once that
night and he "finished" 2 times, but
withdrew before he did (so once again, the
pull-out method was used)...
Then on saturday, october 30th, my bf and
I had sex and he didn't pull out this time
!!!....He said that he didn't pull out in
time and started freaking out...
My heart just about stopped when I
gathered my thoughts after this
happened...I knew what I had been doing
was risky behavior, but this incident was
just too much for me to handle....I about
had a panic attack...
Girls, I know that what I have been doing
has been very risky and probably not the
smartest thing...I realize this now and am
still very freaked out and dissapointed,
and for the most part disgusted with
myself...I have a tendency to have panic
attacks and have had 2 within the last
week b/c of situations I have let myself
get into...
...Now I have a dilemma....If it turns out
that I am indeed pregnant I cannot be 100%
sure of who the father is b/c I did have
sex with 2 different guys so close
together...I do know a little bit about
getting pregnant, and ovulation, and all
of that stuff so I am aware of the
possibilities...To my understanding,
ovulation occurs 14 days before the start
of your next period. My cycles range
anywhere from 26-36 days, but are usually
about 30 days.
I just wanted to let you in on my
situation b/c I will take all the advice,
support, etc that you are willing to give.
Thanks for taking time to read my post and
thanks in advance for any comments
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Michelle1337
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Aug 2004 Posts: 1739 Location: Houston, Texas
Posted: 11-02-04 20:04pm
Well, theres a good chance that you could
have gotten pregnant any of the many times
you had unprotected sex. Because the
"withdrawal" method...Isnt really a method
at all. You can still get pregnant from
pre-cum. And since your boyfriend did
cum in you, theres an even greater
chance.
But none of us can tell your for sure if
you are or not, wait and see if you are
late or skip your next period and then
test. Until then, no one can tell you if
your pregnant or not.
May I suggest, birth control and condoms
in the future?
Good luck, and keep us posted!!!
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bellax0x
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Jun 2004 Posts: 3572 Location: Jersey Baby!
Posted: 11-02-04 20:06pm
Im with michelle, just wait and then take
a test if your period is late
<3
gaby
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Michelle1337
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Aug 2004 Posts: 1739 Location: Houston, Texas
Posted: 11-02-04 20:06pm
Oh yeah, I voted yes on your poll.
Although, I wouldnt say a big chance that
you .A.R.E pregnant. I would say a
chance that you could be pregnant.
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LHSbabe0207
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Oct 2004 Posts: 632 Location: Louisiana girl!!!
Posted: 11-02-04 20:08pm
Take a test and keep us updated!!! Hope
you get what you want.
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nippz
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Sep 2004 Posts: 2173 Location: ,
Posted: 11-02-04 20:09pm
Theres a very high chance of pregnancy is
the pull out method is used. Thats how my
baby kaila was made (; out of pre-cum,
too!
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GuitarJade
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Oct 2004 Posts: 330 Location: Pennsylvania
Posted: 11-02-04 20:56pm
I'm with the girls... There's a definite
a possibility that you're pregnant. Take
a test and keep us updated!
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Dancinchick0587
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Oct 2004 Posts: 211 Location: Blaine, Mn
Posted: 11-03-04 02:51am
There is a chance. I think that you
should go on bc. Good luck hun.
Then on saturday, october 30th, my bf and
I had sex and he didn't pull out this time
!!!....He said that he didn't pull out in
time and started freaking out...
How did this happen? Did he not know he
was about to cum or???
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1sttimemama
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Oct 2004 Posts: 198
Posted: 11-03-04 10:49am
Take a test and let us know how it goes...
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YoungN
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Nov 2004 Posts: 42
Posted: 11-03-04 11:19am
Thank you ladies for all your advice...I
will try to keep you updated on how things
turn out!!!
"then on saturday, october 30th, my bf and
I had sex and he didn't pull out this time
!!!....He said that he didn't pull out in
time and started freaking out..."--i guess
he didn't know he was about to cum, thats
the only logic I could use to figure that
one out...But he is usually really good @
being able to time things right when using
the withdrawal method...But this time I
don't know for sure exactly why he
couldn't
