...Here is my situation: I am 19 y/o and
my bf is 27 y/o. We haven't been together
all that long (together since june
04)...And we weren't exclusively dating so
I was seeing other guys every now and
then.
The first time we had unprotected sex was
on october 7th...It wasn't something I had
planned on happening but it did happen...I
wasn't too worried b/c I had my period on
october 14th and it was normal. I didn't
want to make unprotected sex a routine
thing in our relationship b/c of how risky
it is...
Throughout october we continued having sex
using the "withdrawal method" mostly...
We had sex on october 11th,18th,and the
25th.
On october 26th I ended up having sex with
another guy (which I regret so
much!!!)...We had sex more than once that
night and he "finished" 2 times, but
withdrew before he did (so once again, the
pull-out method was used)...
Then on saturday, october 30th, my bf and
I had sex and he didn't pull out this time
!!!....He said that he didn't pull out in
time and started freaking out...
My heart just about stopped when I
gathered my thoughts after this
happened...I knew what I had been doing
was risky behavior, but this incident was
just too much for me to handle....I about
had a panic attack...
Girls, I know that what I have been doing
has been very risky and probably not the
smartest thing...I realize this now and am
still very freaked out and dissapointed,
and for the most part disgusted with
myself...I have a tendency to have panic
attacks and have had 2 within the last
week b/c of situations I have let myself
get into...
...Now I have a dilemma....If it turns out
that I am indeed pregnant I cannot be 100%
sure of who the father is b/c I did have
sex with 2 different guys so close
together...I do know a little bit about
getting pregnant, and ovulation, and all
of that stuff so I am aware of the
possibilities...To my understanding,
ovulation occurs 14 days before the start
of your next period. My cycles range
anywhere from 26-36 days, but are usually
about 30 days.
I just wanted to let you in on my
situation b/c I will take all the advice,
support, etc that you are willing to give.
Thanks for taking time to read my post and
thanks in advance for any comments
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ceecee4u
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Oct 2004 Posts: 34 Location: I'm From New York!
I Know How U Feel! Posted: 11-03-04 10:53am
Sweetie calm down lol... According 2 my
calculations u r not pregnant because you
probably weren't ovulating , but I may be
wrong which I think i'm right. Next time
use a condom so your off the hook now.
Listen 2 me when I say this woman 2 woman
the pull out method doesn't always work!
I know this because I got pregnant with
the pull out method.
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silverlou
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Aug 2004 Posts: 124 Location: Toronto
Posted: 11-03-04 11:02am
Youngn
how have you confirmed your pregnancy,
when were you supposed to get your period?
If you had unprotected sex with this
other guy on oct 26, that was only 1 week
ago, not enough time for you to know
you're pregnant from him. So if you
really are pregnant because you've done a
test and it came out positive I would have
to say it's your boyfriend's baby...But
again, doesn't seem like enough time has
passed for you to know you're pregnant at
all...
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YoungN
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Nov 2004 Posts: 42
Posted: 11-03-04 11:55am
No, I don't know if I am pregnant or
not...I am waiting until enough time has
passed for me to be able to test...I
really dont know when I would have
ovulated because my cycles vary from 26-36
days...
Here is a list of my previous cycles
starting in march 04:
dates I started my period/cycle length:
march 1st,march 26th: 26 days
march 26th,april 24th: 28 days
april 24th,may 19th: 26 days
may 19th,june 23rd: 36 days
june 23rd, july 19th:27 days
july 19th, august 13th:26 days
august 13th, september 9th:28 days
september 9th,october 14th:36 days
october 14th, ?????: we'll see what
happens
