Hi everyone my name is yazmine and I was
giving this site by a friend who said I
should post a topic. Well heres my
story,
recently I was raped. It was horrible.
No one in my family knows yet except for
my brother and my bestfriend. It is very
possible im pregnant, but a few days ago
something very scary happened. I woke up
in the morning with really bad cramps but
I had to go to school. I was waiting at
the bus stop and the cramps got worse. It
was bout 50 degress outside and once the
bus got there and I got on I broke out
into a sweat. I live in the city and go
to a private school bout in hour away, so
the ride is long. Once I got to the
school I went to the nurses office, when I
was walking there I got very light-headed.
When I saw the nurse and explained how I
was feeling she had me sit in a chair
while she called my mother, but my stomach
hurt so bad I laid on the floor. I then
had to wait another hour for my mother to
get there from the city. I started to
feel slightly better, I was no longer
sweating or light-headed, the cramps were
still there but a little better. I stayed
home the rest of the night and the next
morning was fine. Nothing like that has
happened since and it was very scary.
Could this have happened beause of the
rape? If so what does it mean? Also fyi
I was sexually active before the rape but
only with one guy.
Yazmine
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shortee913
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Sep 2003 Posts: 141 Location: michigan
Hey! Posted: 10-13-03 22:15pm
Yazmine,
I am very sorry to hear that you were
raped. I think you need to tell your
parents, the police? Why didn't you go to
the cops? This person could do it to
other people. Try and stop them before
someone else gets hurt! Now about why you
were feeling like that, I believe it could
be a chance you are pregnant.. The
dizzines part sounds like a sympton, but
not the cramps. But I can tell you that
maybe all the feelings from the guilt, all
the stress ( if you feel like this) are
making you sick. When I kept the
pregnancy from my mom the first time.. I
was stressed out and it made me
sick...Stomach hurt..I was stressed! I
don't know..That could be a
possibility..But you should really talk to
someone and tell the cops. If you are
close with your parents I think you should
tell them, even if your not, just tell
someone. Or it could possible scar you
emotionally, for life. Good luck. If you
want to talk at anytime. God bless you
and take care.
Much
love,
sami <3
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Yazmine
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Oct 2003 Posts: 156
Thanx Posted: 10-13-03 22:19pm
Thanx for the advice. Me and my parents
arent very close but me and my brother are
tight. Ill talk to him and see what we
can do. Please keep the advice coming!
I wish I had some really good advice to
give you but I am not sure what to say
except that you do need to report this and
maybe get some more help. This is a very
serious situation! Please do what is
right for you. I am so sorry you had to
go through such a horrible situation.
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sparklypixie12
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003 Posts: 3100
Posted: 10-15-03 04:49am
Yasmine-it's awfu;l what happened 2 u. I
suggest u go to ur doctor to confirm
whether or not ur pregnant and then get
checked out 2 make sure ur ok. It may
seem hard to do but u need to get the
health questions that did this to be
punished cos no one shud b allowed to get
away with that.
Perhaps ur gettin the stomach aches cos ur
stressed-after all, ur not sharing this
with many people at home and ur panicking
about what they'll say. U shud at least
tell ur mom-after all, this wasnt ur fault
and u need all the support u can from
people around u
good luck
love liz x
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Yazmine
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Oct 2003 Posts: 156
Today Posted: 10-15-03 20:09pm
Me and my brother went to the police
sation and filed a report. It was tough
having to explain everything they asked
all kinds of questions. My bf is so
understanding and I love him so much! Im
still figuring out how im going 2 tell my
mom, our realtionship has never been real
good. Saturday im going to the clinic to
see if I am pregnant.
Well sweetie, if you are pregnant that
isn't your fault and I am sure that you
mother won't blame you!! She will
probably feel badly for you and be very
over-protective for a while, at least
thats how I would be if chey was in this
situation. I hope all is well and you are
a very brave girl and your brother is
lucky to have such a strong sister like
you!!
Much love
-jessika-
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sparklypixie12
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003 Posts: 3100
Posted: 10-15-03 20:16pm
Yazmine-im glad ur gettin urself sorted
out. U have a excellent boyfriend there.U
were brave 2 report it but it needed 2 b
done. Let us know what happens sat. Good
luck
loadsa love
liz x
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