I was just told by my wife that she has
lost the love spark in our marriage. We
have been together for 7 years and never
had a breakup. She started a new job in
january it is a 3-11 shift at a hospital.
We knew this might be a strain on us but
it seemed to work. We did this because of
our 2 year old so there is no day care. I
love her so much I don't want to lose her
I don't think there is someone else things
haven't changed in her habits I want to
seek counsiling and she does think it can
change her heart she has said that this
has been building for the last 2-3 months
please help
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PattyV
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 May 2004 Posts: 1103 Location: Chicago area
Posted: 11-03-04 13:24pm
Just out of the blue,she wants out of a
seven year marriage??No troubles before??I
find that very hard to take.There must be
some other reason she wants out.If she
does not want to fix your marriage,there
must be another reason.I'm not saying that
there is another person,but there is
another reason-there has to be.A happily
married couple does not just split up over
nothing!!Working opposite schedules can be
hard,but,if the relationship is
strong,that will not cause a divorce.One
of you is not telling the whole
story,there is more to this story.You both
need to be honest and discuss your issues
with each other.Even if you do not save
your relationship,you both deserve the
truth so you can move on.Hope you both get
the answers you're looking for.Patty
