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rissalee21

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Any Help..bad News:(
Posted: 11-03-04 14:14pm

Well guys today out of no where my mom gave me an envelope and I opened it and it was an eviction notice for me and rebekah. Im only 16 but ill be 17 in 2 weeks and at 17 in michigan I can be kicked out with an eviction notice..So yeh me and rebekah have no where to go:( this seriously came out of no where..It brekaas my heart..I have no family to stay with nobody will go against my mom..I lost all my friends when I had rebekah so caca is not looking good at all..I could undestand if it was just me..I can live on the streets I dont care what happens to me..It just kills to know I have a 2 mth old daughter I have to take care of..Do any of you guys know any programs to help? Any input thanks

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marisa
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IDABABY

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Posted: 11-03-04 14:16pm

Wow, I can't imagine your own mother doing that to you! Wow!! I don't know what I would do if my mother ever did that to me, without a child. Why did she do that to you and your daughter?? I dont understand, do you have a job or anything like that? What about staying with your boyfriend?

Kristin
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rissalee21

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Posted: 11-03-04 14:18pm

Seriously she gave noo reason at all..None..And the guy im with his parents are reallllyyyy strict and they are kinda racist against white people:( which sucks..Who knows:(
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hm_03

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Posted: 11-03-04 14:20pm

I can't believe your mom is doing that to you that is just cold hearted. She shouldn't be that way especially because you have a baby with you.

I think there are programs I suggest you look. Use a yellow page to find some programs in your area or the internet.

I feel so bad I really hope things work out for you.

God bless you and your baby and i'm sure he is watching over you. Don't give up at all. All I can say is karma what goes around comes around becuase she is willing to do that to you her own flesh in blood i'm sure the lord sees all.
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JeNNy985

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Posted: 11-03-04 14:21pm

Is your boyfriend now the father of your baby? And also there are homes/schools everywhere for teen mothers!! Look it up here on the internet and call around to places! You can even ask your school counselor what to do and they can help!!
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linuxChique

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Posted: 11-03-04 14:21pm

Oh my gosh! I thought you got along with her Sad i'm so sorry marisa! I don't know of anything, but i'll look!
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IDABABY

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Posted: 11-03-04 14:23pm

There is a home there for unwed mothers that is through the salvation army.

Kristin
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smith8500

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Posted: 11-03-04 15:05pm

I love you rissa. I'll talk to you online
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rissalee21

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Posted: 11-03-04 15:56pm

No my boyfriend is not my babies father..I dont talk to him he wants nothing to do with me or the baby..Thanks guys..I just hope what goes around comes around

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marisa
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oangelc543

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Posted: 11-03-04 15:58pm

I'm sure there are alot of places you can go.. Where do you live? I can look it up for you if you'd like.
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rissalee21

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Posted: 11-03-04 15:59pm

Hey hun I live in michigan

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marisa
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lilmama2b_oct04

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Posted: 11-03-04 16:34pm

What part of michigan do you live in? I cant believe your own mother would kick you out, and then its even worse since you have a baby!! I would offer you to stay with me (im just one state over, in wisconsin) but im not sure how kevin would feel about that, and we dont really know each other so it might be kinda akward... Brooklyn doesnt sleep in her room, so we pretty much got a spare room that we could rent for cheap until you got your own place, but im sure you would want to stay over there by your boyfriend. That is just horrible, I just cant believe that a mother could do that to her own child and grandchild
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rissalee21

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Posted: 11-03-04 16:44pm

Yeh hun thank you..Life is so hard right now I just wish it would all go away and I wasnt here..The only reason im still pushing forward is beacsue of rebekah..My mom is really heartless:(

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marisa
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babyluvwu

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Posted: 11-03-04 17:06pm

I cant believe your own mother would do that to you! I could never do that to my own child, and even worse I cant understand why states would allow mothers to evict their own children, it doesnt seem right! Well I hope everything works out for you sweetie.

If you need anything pm me or email me at: aer isangel88@hotmail.Com

~<3becca
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LHSbabe0207

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Posted: 11-03-04 17:18pm

Oh lord im so sorry your mother did that! I dont know her background but she shouldnt have done that at all especially when you have a 2mth old baby girl!! Confused Sad
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oangelc543

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Posted: 11-03-04 17:24pm

Here are a few things I found for michigan

michigan

-alternatives for girls

alternatives for girls has three programs, two of which deal directly with homelessness. Alternatives for girls conducts street outreach and case management to teens and operates a shelter and transition to independent living program for women aged 16-20 who are homeless.

903 west grand boulevard
detroit, mi 48208-2365
(313) 361-4000
(313) 361-8938 – fax
www.Alternativesforgirls.O rg





i'm gunna keep looking too
:d
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jessamyn

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Posted: 11-03-04 17:59pm

Babe either way isnt there like a law over all no matter the state that like it takes 30 days + to evict someone... She has to give you a reason...If you were in cali my doors always open but you are so far away... Do you have a car or a savings account or anything? I was just talking to you why didnt you tell me! I have a friend in detroit how far away are u from him maybe you can go there? I know its weird but your mom cant just do this to you without you having a plan... Is she trying to teach you a lesson or something? Did you do something that she may have found out about? Maybe you should contact the babys father... Does your boyfriend have anywhere you can go? Pauls mom used to hate me and now she accepts me... And loves me... Pm me if you want my number and we can talk it out... There are always like church programs and what not that will take you in but watch out babe you can get messed and social serivces can take your baby... Ive heard about that... So look into it now~
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bellax0x

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Posted: 11-03-04 19:19pm

Oh wow! Im soo sorry she did that to you!! There are deff plenty of places/shelters you could go to until you find someplace better. =( were here foryou huni!

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gaby
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nippz

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Posted: 11-04-04 00:44am

Im so sorry to hear that! Why would ur mother do that to you, knowing that you have a daughter to take care of and nowhere to go? Does she not have any consideration? Im sorry if I seem rude, but I just don't understand..

I know theres plenty of shelters out there you can look into. I hope everything looks up and you find another home. I'm so sorry your going through this right now.
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