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rissalee21
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Feb 2004 Posts: 526 Location: michigan
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Any Help..bad News:(
Posted: 11-03-04 14:14pm
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Well guys today out of no where my mom
gave me an envelope and I opened it and it
was an eviction notice for me and rebekah.
Im only 16 but ill be 17 in 2 weeks and
at 17 in michigan I can be kicked out with
an eviction notice..So yeh me and rebekah
have no where to go:( this seriously came
out of no where..It brekaas my heart..I
have no family to stay with nobody will go
against my mom..I lost all my friends when
I had rebekah so caca is not looking good
at all..I could undestand if it was just
me..I can live on the streets I dont care
what happens to me..It just kills to know
I have a 2 mth old daughter I have to take
care of..Do any of you guys know any
programs to help? Any input thanks
<3
marisa
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IDABABY
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Mar 2004 Posts: 2236 Location: ***Wisconsin Baby***
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Posted: 11-03-04 14:16pm
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Wow, I can't imagine your own mother doing
that to you! Wow!! I don't know what I
would do if my mother ever did that to me,
without a child. Why did she do that to
you and your daughter?? I dont
understand, do you have a job or anything
like that? What about staying with your
boyfriend?
Kristin
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rissalee21
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Feb 2004 Posts: 526 Location: michigan
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Posted: 11-03-04 14:18pm
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Seriously she gave noo reason at
all..None..And the guy im with his parents
are reallllyyyy strict and they are kinda
racist against white people:( which
sucks..Who knows:(
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hm_03
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Apr 2004 Posts: 483 Location: Massachusett
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Posted: 11-03-04 14:20pm
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I can't believe your mom is doing that to
you that is just cold hearted. She
shouldn't be that way especially because
you have a baby with you.
I think there are programs I suggest you
look. Use a yellow page to find some
programs in your area or the internet.
I feel so bad I really hope things work
out for you.
God bless you and your baby and i'm sure
he is watching over you. Don't give up at
all. All I can say is karma what goes
around comes around becuase she is willing
to do that to you her own flesh in blood
i'm sure the lord sees all.
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JeNNy985
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Oct 2004 Posts: 295 Location: INDIANA!!!
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Posted: 11-03-04 14:21pm
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Is your boyfriend now the father of your
baby? And also there are homes/schools
everywhere for teen mothers!! Look it up
here on the internet and call around to
places! You can even ask your school
counselor what to do and they can help!!
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linuxChique
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 May 2004 Posts: 4535
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Posted: 11-03-04 14:21pm
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Oh my gosh! I thought you got along with
her  i'm so sorry
marisa! I don't know of anything, but
i'll look!
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IDABABY
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Mar 2004 Posts: 2236 Location: ***Wisconsin Baby***
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Posted: 11-03-04 14:23pm
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There is a home there for unwed mothers
that is through the salvation army.
Kristin
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smith8500
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003 Posts: 6623 Location: Louisiana
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Posted: 11-03-04 15:05pm
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I love you rissa. I'll talk to you online
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rissalee21
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Feb 2004 Posts: 526 Location: michigan
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Posted: 11-03-04 15:56pm
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No my boyfriend is not my babies father..I
dont talk to him he wants nothing to do
with me or the baby..Thanks guys..I just
hope what goes around comes around
<3
marisa
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oangelc543
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2004 Posts: 521 Location: TX
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Posted: 11-03-04 15:58pm
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I'm sure there are alot of places you can
go.. Where do you live? I can look it up
for you if you'd like.
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rissalee21
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Feb 2004 Posts: 526 Location: michigan
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Posted: 11-03-04 15:59pm
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Hey hun I live in michigan
<3
marisa
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lilmama2b_oct04
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Mar 2004 Posts: 1970 Location: Wisconsin
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Posted: 11-03-04 16:34pm
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What part of michigan do you live in? I
cant believe your own mother would kick
you out, and then its even worse since you
have a baby!! I would offer you to stay
with me (im just one state over, in
wisconsin) but im not sure how kevin would
feel about that, and we dont really know
each other so it might be kinda akward...
Brooklyn doesnt sleep in her room, so we
pretty much got a spare room that we could
rent for cheap until you got your own
place, but im sure you would want to stay
over there by your boyfriend. That is
just horrible, I just cant believe that a
mother could do that to her own child and
grandchild
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rissalee21
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Feb 2004 Posts: 526 Location: michigan
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Posted: 11-03-04 16:44pm
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Yeh hun thank you..Life is so hard right
now I just wish it would all go away and I
wasnt here..The only reason im still
pushing forward is beacsue of rebekah..My
mom is really heartless:(
<3
marisa
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babyluvwu
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2004 Posts: 509 Location: Charlotte, NC
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Posted: 11-03-04 17:06pm
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I cant believe your own mother would do
that to you! I could never do that to my
own child, and even worse I cant
understand why states would allow mothers
to evict their own children, it doesnt
seem right! Well I hope everything works
out for you sweetie.
If you need anything pm me or email me at:
aer
isangel88@hotmail.Com
~<3becca
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LHSbabe0207
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Oct 2004 Posts: 632 Location: Louisiana girl!!!
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Posted: 11-03-04 17:18pm
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Oh lord im so sorry your mother did that!
I dont know her background but she
shouldnt have done that at all especially
when you have a 2mth old baby girl!!

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oangelc543
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2004 Posts: 521 Location: TX
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Posted: 11-03-04 17:24pm
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Here are a few things I found for
michigan
michigan
-alternatives for girls
alternatives for girls has three
programs, two of which deal directly with
homelessness. Alternatives for girls
conducts street outreach and case
management to teens and operates a shelter
and transition to independent living
program for women aged 16-20 who are
homeless.
903 west grand boulevard
detroit, mi 48208-2365
(313) 361-4000
(313) 361-8938 – fax
www.Alternativesforgirls.O
rg
i'm gunna keep looking too
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jessamyn
Moderator
Joined: 18 Aug 2004 Posts: 4116 Location: San Diego, CA
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Posted: 11-03-04 17:59pm
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Babe either way isnt there like a law over
all no matter the state that like it takes
30 days + to evict someone... She has to
give you a reason...If you were in cali my
doors always open but you are so far
away... Do you have a car or a savings
account or anything? I was just talking
to you why didnt you tell me! I have a
friend in detroit how far away are u from
him maybe you can go there? I know its
weird but your mom cant just do this to
you without you having a plan... Is she
trying to teach you a lesson or something?
Did you do something that she may have
found out about? Maybe you should contact
the babys father... Does your boyfriend
have anywhere you can go? Pauls mom used
to hate me and now she accepts me... And
loves me... Pm me if you want my number
and we can talk it out... There are
always like church programs and what not
that will take you in but watch out babe
you can get messed and social serivces can
take your baby... Ive heard about that...
So look into it now~
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bellax0x
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Jun 2004 Posts: 3572 Location: Jersey Baby!
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Posted: 11-03-04 19:19pm
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Oh wow! Im soo sorry she did that to
you!! There are deff plenty of
places/shelters you could go to until you
find someplace better. =( were here
foryou huni!
<3
gaby
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nippz
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Sep 2004 Posts: 2173 Location: ,
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Posted: 11-04-04 00:44am
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Im so sorry to hear that! Why would ur
mother do that to you, knowing that you
have a daughter to take care of and
nowhere to go? Does she not have any
consideration? Im sorry if I seem rude,
but I just don't understand..
I know theres plenty of shelters out there
you can look into. I hope everything
looks up and you find another home. I'm
so sorry your going through this right
now.
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