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MiracleIn2004
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Feb 2004 Posts: 203 Location: Louisiana
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I'm So Tired of Him
Posted: 11-03-04 19:45pm
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My boyfriend makes me so upset. Everytime
he is with his stupid friends he think
that is a reason to treat me like shyt.
He hangs up on me and says whatever and I
hate it, seriously i'm crying so hard
right now. I hate him so much but I am
scared to lose him cause he is my heart
and I love him so much but he has no right
to treat me like he does...At times I
wanna leave him so bad but I cant cause he
is my world and without him I dont know
what would happen...But I hate how he
treats me sometimes, some days he can be a
angel but I guess today wasnt on of those
days 
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LHSbabe0207
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Oct 2004 Posts: 632 Location: Louisiana girl!!!
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Posted: 11-03-04 19:48pm
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Gurl! I would str8 up confront his a$$!!!
No lie! No guy is suppose to treat a
woman like that!
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linuxChique
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 May 2004 Posts: 4535
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Posted: 11-03-04 19:48pm
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Aw i'm sorry sweetie!! Have you talked to
him about it? Like sat him down and had a
good heart to heart?
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LHSbabe0207
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Oct 2004 Posts: 632 Location: Louisiana girl!!!
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Posted: 11-03-04 19:50pm
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Im real sorry about your situation. Guys
r just asses sometimes.. 
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bellax0x
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Jun 2004 Posts: 3572 Location: Jersey Baby!
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Posted: 11-03-04 19:50pm
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Aw you dont deserve that sweetie!! Talk
tohim about it!
<3
gaby
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MiracleIn2004
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Feb 2004 Posts: 203 Location: Louisiana
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Posted: 11-03-04 19:52pm
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I told him about it and I was like you do
it all the time when you are with your
little friends, he like do what? No I
don't....All of a sudden he gets amnesia
or something, and it angers me off so bad.
And if I say I will call him back on the
phone he gets upset. Like tinight I told
him I was gonna call him back cause I was
gonna give dj his bath and he was like
why? Why? I was like cause I am just
gonna call you back. He was like no thats
fine dont call me back and hung up in my
face.  then
when he called back he got mad cause I
didnt answer! Hello didnt you just hang
up in my face and I am supposed to run
when you call???!!!! Umm no. 
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GuitarJade
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Oct 2004 Posts: 330 Location: Pennsylvania
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Posted: 11-03-04 19:52pm
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Awwwwwwwwww honey. I know what you mean.
Boys can be so... So .I.C.K.Y sometimes!
But if he's going to treat you like that,
do you honestly need him? I know you love
him and it's hard, but what are you going
to do? Do you honestly want to live like
that for the rest of your life?My dad
basically did the same thing to my mom and
now she has a major inferiority complex
from it (she's finally getting better
though... Thanks to my step-dad). I
don't want you to end up like that! Love
is hard... Life is hard... And it sucks.
Feel better honey... And if you ever
need to talk, i'm here. *hugs*
~sam
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bellax0x
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Jun 2004 Posts: 3572 Location: Jersey Baby!
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Posted: 11-03-04 20:07pm
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Wow huni, you deff dont deserve that!! He
needs a reality slap! Maybe you should
take a break? Idk only you know whats
best
<3
gaby
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linuxChique
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Joined: 05 May 2004 Posts: 4535
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IDABABY
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Mar 2004 Posts: 2236 Location: ***Wisconsin Baby***
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Posted: 11-03-04 20:42pm
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Ouch!!! That is horrible....
last weekend my boyfriend was in the
car, and I was telling my friend chris
something..That "adam says, tonight you
are his in bowling". And then adam got
all pissed and was like you doing it
health forum, didnt mean it like
that...Gay. And I cried all night about
him calling me a doing it health forum..It
was just the doing it that was in front of
health forum that really hurt. After we
talked about, things seem to get a hell of
a lot better.
Kristin
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linuxChique
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jessamyn
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Joined: 18 Aug 2004 Posts: 4116 Location: San Diego, CA
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Posted: 11-03-04 21:00pm
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I dated a guy like that it was messed...
Trust me babe you can find someone better
you like think that you love him so much
and because of that you wont find someone
else better but you can! But if your
willing to go thru it with him sit him
down and tell him how it is.. Tell him
you want to be a part of this relationship
but he needs to open his eyes to reality
and know how you feel and what it does to
you that no matter how angelic he is aside
from people he looses those points when he
is with ppl... Your better than that!
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IDABABY
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Mar 2004 Posts: 2236 Location: ***Wisconsin Baby***
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Posted: 11-03-04 21:01pm
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Wow, that sounds like a huge...Tongue
twister...I just reread my post hehe.
Kristin
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bellax0x
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Jun 2004 Posts: 3572 Location: Jersey Baby!
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Posted: 11-03-04 21:05pm
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Aww imsorry to both of ya! I love you and
will always be nice to you! =)
<3
gaby
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nippz
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Sep 2004 Posts: 2173 Location: ,
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Re: I'm So Tired of Him
Posted: 11-04-04 00:29am
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| miraclein2004
wrote: | i hate him so much but I am
scared to lose him cause he is my heart
and I love him so much but he has no right
to treat me like he does...At times I
wanna leave him so bad but I cant cause he
is my world and without him I dont know
what would happen...But I hate how he
treats me sometimes, some days he can be a
angel but I guess today wasnt on of those
days  |
wow those words. I know exactly how you
feel I hope everything
looks up between you two. And I know it's
hard because im going through the same
thing .. Every..Single..Day.
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MiracleIn2004
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Feb 2004 Posts: 203 Location: Louisiana
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Posted: 11-04-04 00:34am
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When im with him I feel so good about
myself and when he treats me bad I just
brush it off cause I cant live without him
and I dont wanna lose him. Like he
cheated on me b4 but I forgave him cause
without him I am nothing...And my son
needs his father.
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nippz
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Sep 2004 Posts: 2173 Location: ,
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Posted: 11-04-04 00:36am
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| miraclein2004
wrote: | | when im with him I feel so
good about myself and when he treats me
bad I just brush it off cause I cant live
without him and I dont wanna lose him.
Like he cheated on me b4 but I forgave him
cause without him I am nothing...And my
son needs his
father. |
same
here. Cheated one me twice, I forgave
him, but I wasn't preggo then. But now if
he cheats on me again, i'd have to forgive
him, 'cuz like you said, without him im
nothing, too and my daughter needs a
father. Blah
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hm_03
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Apr 2004 Posts: 483 Location: Massachusett
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Posted: 11-04-04 12:14pm
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Wow sorry to hear that you girls are going
through this it must be so tough I can't
relate because i'm not going through it
(thank god) but I can imagine how you must
feel inside.
It sucks to have to say that you will
forgive him because you won't be nothing
with out him and your baby needs a father.
But what about your happiness does that
even matter? I have seen so many single
moms out there that made an effort to make
it on their own, yes it's a struggle
nothing comes easy but they never once
gave up and continue to be the best mom
and dad they can be.
I feel so bad because you girls are
hurting so much inside. I think if you
are willing to work things out you need to
talk to him straigth up and if he acts
like an a** in front of his friends tell
him "this is exactly what i'm talking
about how you be acting". I just hope he
doesn't act even more stupid but if he was
smart he will realize that it's not cool
at all.
I'm sorry you girls are going through this
cyber *hugs* to all you girls
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bellax0x
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Jun 2004 Posts: 3572 Location: Jersey Baby!
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Posted: 11-04-04 12:18pm
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Aww nobody should have to take that!
<3
gaby
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samismama
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Sep 2004 Posts: 824
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Posted: 11-04-04 12:35pm
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Heres my dilemma, ive never had a problem
with jimmy being with "hos" (seriously
thats wat they are not prostitutes though
hehe) as long as he always comes home to
me... Problem is I haven't seen him in a
week, when I call him I hear a girl in the
background, im sick of it now!!! I swear
its the girl that is always talking to him
(on the cell phone and I pay that bill
grrr) and is pissy when she wont talk to
her when I need something and hes on the
phone with her, but the thing is I love
him so much and he really is a sweet guy,
he just has women issues so I doubt ill
ever leave him
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