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YoungN
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Biracial Babies/interracial Relationships
Posted: 11-03-04 21:13pm
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Hey girls,
one of the things that is going to be most
difficult (dealing w/ telling me family if
in fact I am preggy) is that my child
would be biracial.
I was wondering if any of you are pregnant
with or have had a biracial baby?
I am white and my boyfriend is black. My
parents are already so unaccepting of our
relationship and haven't even met my bf
yet b/c of the fact that they do not agree
with me dating black guys...
My bf's family is somewhat unaccepting
too...Like I am not allowed over to
certain members of his family's
houses...And when we go out in public we
get really rude comments, dirty looks, and
we've even been threatened and had people
try to harm us physically...
If any of you have any kind of experience
with this sort of thing I would love to
hear from you! Even if you do not have
any experience with this, any advice,
comments, etc would be appreciated!
Thanks 
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cherriegurl
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Posted: 11-03-04 21:14pm
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That is horrible, my cousin has a malato
(sp) baby and my family is great! With it
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LHSbabe0207
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Posted: 11-03-04 21:19pm
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Sorry to hear your situation hun, my
cousin had a baby and it was biracial..
My family didnt like it..But I guess there
dealing with it... Good luck to you!!!
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bellax0x
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Posted: 11-03-04 21:25pm
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Aw im sorry hun. Theres a few girls on
here with mixed babies and im sure they
wouldnt mind helping you out =)
<3
gaby
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YoungN
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Posted: 11-03-04 21:33pm
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Do you know which girls specifically?
Because I would really love to be able to
talk with someone who knows exactly what
i'm going through...It's a very difficult
situation for me 
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kitty2luv
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Hey
Posted: 11-03-04 21:38pm
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I have the same problem w/ my dad and my
mom some times I like all races and its
not my fault is it nooooooooo how old are
u ?
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YoungN
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Posted: 11-03-04 21:40pm
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I am nineteen....And no, there isnt
anything wrong with it at all in my eyes.
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IDABABY
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Posted: 11-03-04 21:50pm
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My home girl callie, thats all she will
date is black men. We have a lot of
biracial babies in our family, and
everyone loves them, they are adorable!!!
There really isn't anything that you can
do, except just tell them. I'm so sorry
that you have to go through this. I'm
guessing that your family is going to be
really pissed at you...But once the baby
comes...Everyone will adore the baby
believe me. Good luck..I wish I could
help you more. My parents are unaccepting
of black people also...But not my whole
entire family, just my dad mostly.
I know what you mean about the rude
comments though and dirty looks just even
having my black friends by me, people look
just because there aren't really a lot of
black people in this town. I am not
racist by any means, and people shouldn't
judge because of skin color. Its a harsh
harsh world, sometimes...But there are
some people who accept it...So thats good.
Hope everything works out for you.
Kristin
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YoungN
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Posted: 11-03-04 21:51pm
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Also, I was wondering what your views on
interracial relationships were.
I am not trying to start a debate or
anything about whether they are right or
wrong, but I would like to know if you are
accepting of these types of relationships,
and if not, why you feel that way.
To me, it seems as if people are more
accepting of interracial relationships
dealing with couples that are not
black/white...To me it seems that if say a
white person was dating someone who was
hispanic or asian or something they don't
seem to make quite as big of a deal out of
it...
I really would like to hear your thoughts
though because I am trying to figure out
and understand where people are coming
from...I will respect your opinions no
matter what they are....
Thanks again :d
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kitty2luv
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Umm
Posted: 11-03-04 21:52pm
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I dont c n e thing ewronge either he/ she
is a person dont matter what color they
are uhh ppl are so ig
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kitty_55
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Posted: 11-03-04 22:01pm
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I honestly think that mixed babies are the
cutest.... I have nothing wrong with
differnt races dating eachother or
marrying.... Its just a skin color....
When I am older I hope you marry a black
guy...My nana and papa dont like the idea
of having a mixed baby but they are old
and thats the way they were brought
up....
I know that jeni and stacies sister have
mixed babies
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valleri
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Posted: 11-03-04 22:24pm
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Youngn- I am pregnant right now a little
over 18 weeks, my baby will be biracial as
well. I know exactly what you are going
through
-valleri
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bellax0x
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Posted: 11-03-04 22:35pm
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I know river, jeni's baby is mixed. But
they havnt been on here for quite some
time!
<3
gaby
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linuxChique
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Posted: 11-03-04 22:35pm
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| kitty_55
wrote: | | i know that jeni and stacies
sister have mixed
babies |
yeah jeni is riversmommy and stacie's
sister is soontobemommyofisaiah. Her name
is kristie. Stacie is mommy2seany.
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MiracleIn2004
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Posted: 11-03-04 23:06pm
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Im biracial and so is my son, my mom is
biracial(black and caucasian) and my dad
is puerto rican so that makes my son black
white and puerto rican too..Lol...We are
all mixed up..Lol 
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TQuartz490
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Posted: 11-03-04 23:55pm
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I would
love to talk with you. I am currently
pregnant with a multi-racial baby.
I am east indian and west indian from
trinidad & tobago ( father is indian,
and mother is west indian) and my
boyfriend, is puerto rican, irish and
black.
Any questions feel free to pm me ..
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nippz
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Posted: 11-03-04 23:57pm
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My parent's would kill me. Grrr. It's an
"asian" thing
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jessamyn
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Posted: 11-03-04 23:57pm
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They should love and accept their
grandchild no matter what... If it makes
you feel any better although it took my
parents a long time they are finally
accepting it took my mom 2 months and my
stepdad up until about a week ago but now they love
my little one growing
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samismama
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Posted: 11-04-04 00:36am
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Ive got a rainbow baby!!! He's
indian-black-white a bit hispanic :d
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jessamyn
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