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samismama
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Sep 2004 Posts: 824
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Posted: 11-04-04 00:53am
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Of course he's beautiful lol look at me
and his fathern 
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jessamyn
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Joined: 18 Aug 2004 Posts: 4116 Location: San Diego, CA
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Posted: 11-04-04 01:09am
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Haha a girl that knows how to accept a
compliment ! I love it!
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samismama
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Sep 2004 Posts: 824
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Posted: 11-04-04 01:10am
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Pregnant and feeling totally perdy
today!!!
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jessamyn
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Joined: 18 Aug 2004 Posts: 4116 Location: San Diego, CA
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Posted: 11-04-04 01:30am
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I loove pregnant woman seriously at work
i'll see one and go up to em and be like
awwww how far along are you!
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rissalee21
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Feb 2004 Posts: 526 Location: michigan
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Posted: 11-04-04 06:51am
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Well I totally agree with biracial
relationships hun..I have only been with
one white guy and thats my babies fther
..Ironically.. I have always dated black
guys..My mom at frst was a little edgy but
when I brought respectful guys over she
was fine..Hun its not you and your
boyfriend against eachother its you guys
agianst everyone else..And if you guys can
overcome that its a wonderful thign..Dont
goive up..
<3
marisa
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GuitarJade
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Oct 2004 Posts: 330 Location: Pennsylvania
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Posted: 11-04-04 07:36am
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I know what you mean. My sisters and I
are biracial (asian and caucasion), and my
dad's side of the family (asian side) was
sooooooooo mad at my dad when he first
brought my mother home. They learned to
*accept* her but they absolutely love my
sisters and i. And now that my parents
are divorced, my grandparents and my aunts
are still polite and nice to her! I hope
that your family will one day come to
grips with the fact that there's nothing
you can do about biratial babies or
marriages... Just as mine did!
~sam
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wr17
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Oct 2004 Posts: 287
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Posted: 11-04-04 14:23pm
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Well, about 3 months ago, I missed my
period completely (i'm now regular again).
My boyfriend is biracial and we thought I
was pregnant. Let it be known that i'm
almost 16 and he's 20!! Anyway, my mom
wouldn't of had a problem with it.
Infact, when I told her I thought I was
pregnant, that woman was picking out
names, lol. My mom's side of the family
is really cool, they are okay with
biracial relationships. My uncle has 4
biracial children with a black woman. But
my dad's side of the family...I wouldn't
be so sure about them. My dad passed away
in 2003 and he never liked the fact of
mixing races in relationships. Although,
he had many black, mexican, and asian
friends. I know he would sh*t if he knew
I was with a biracial person, but I think
he would've learned to accept it. I know
when my baby came, he would've been proud
of me. Don't worry about what your
parents say...They will learn to accept
your situation in the end. Plus, as soon
as your baby is born, they will fall
deeply in love with it. It's a guaruntee.
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valleri
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Sep 2004 Posts: 50 Location: missouri
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Posted: 11-04-04 14:32pm
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I agree...My sister was living with her
mom in kansas and when she found out my
sister was pregnant she was mad but when
she found out the dad was from
pakistan...She kicked my sister out and
said that her and her stepfather were
disgusted..Then she had to come live with
us and they didn't talk to her for 3
months..Blah blah blah..But now he is here
and her mom can't go a couple of weeks
without seeing him.
It will all work out. She was so afraid
to tell the rest of the family she was
even pregnant because of the things her
mom was saying...She finally decided to
tell our grandma and the day she called my
grandma had passed away just a few hours
before.
-valleri
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kitty2luv
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Joined: 22 Oct 2004 Posts: 1089 Location: with my love
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Aww
Posted: 11-04-04 14:38pm
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Sry val........
Like I love me some black men
and spanish men my parnets dont approve of
it well more my dad then my mom but I dont
care if I like da person im gonna b with
him no matter what and now im messin w/ a
spanish guy and my dad dont like it he
calls me names and caca so I dont kno but
I dont think I could see my self with a
white man but who knows
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sparklypixie12
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003 Posts: 3099
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Posted: 11-04-04 14:38pm
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I'd be disowned & thrown out of my
house for good
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jessamyn
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Joined: 18 Aug 2004 Posts: 4116 Location: San Diego, CA
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Posted: 11-04-04 14:49pm
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I just dont get it I mean I even just
called my mom I guess I was just raised
differently... I mean my mom would be
okay with a biracial baby and so would i.
I mean I wouldnt even look at them
differently.... I just dont get it...
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kitty_55
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Aug 2003 Posts: 1473 Location: Canada
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Posted: 11-04-04 15:48pm
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I dont get why people dont like it... Its
just a skin color it doesnt mean
anything.....
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bellax0x
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Jun 2004 Posts: 3572 Location: Jersey Baby!
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Posted: 11-04-04 15:55pm
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Me either. I never understood. Like
really I dont, whats the difference?? Its
not like your baby is half donkey or
horse!!
<3
gaby
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Mommy2Seany
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Sep 2004 Posts: 315 Location: Sewickley, PA
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Posted: 11-04-04 15:59pm
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In my family it was unheard of and my
family always had high hopes that we would
"stick to our own kind" I fulfilled that
family wish, because that too is what I
wanted. I dont have anything against the
other race, and I have been with the other
races, more recently than I wish I could
say. And I dont see anything wrong with
it. But my sister got pregnant by a black
man mind you, and that started family
issues that will never die. My uncle is
the most prejudice of all however, always
saying the n word and he is simply not a
nice man. He is nice to them to there
faces, but mean back. Larry was raised in
a family like that too. It stinks...
Im here if you wanna talk.
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babyluvwu
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2004 Posts: 509 Location: Charlotte, NC
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Posted: 11-04-04 16:01pm
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Sorry to hear about your situation
sweetie, hopefully things will get better
for ya, maybe if you get pregnant it will
bring your two families together. You
never know, good luck!
~<3becca
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nippz
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Sep 2004 Posts: 2173 Location: ,
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Posted: 11-04-04 17:04pm
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| guitarjade
wrote: | i know what you mean. My
sisters and I are biracial (asian and
caucasion), and my dad's side of the
family (asian side) was sooooooooo mad at
my dad when he first brought my mother
home. They learned to *accept* her but
they absolutely love my sisters and i.
And now that my parents are divorced, my
grandparents and my aunts are still polite
and nice to her! I hope that your family
will one day come to grips with the fact
that there's nothing you can do about
biratial babies or marriages... Just as
mine did!
~sam |
lol sam, I thought asian's liked
caucasion's though! I know my asian
family would love it if I married a
caucasion, but anything other than that
and asian, my parents would disown me 
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Megn06
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Nov 2004 Posts: 55 Location: St. Louis
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Posted: 11-04-04 22:44pm
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It was your choice to go out with him and
you did because you liked him and now you
are pregnant and your family will just
have to deal. They can't force their
opinions on you. If you love him or like
him then it your life and now they can't
stop you from seeing him. I hope you 2
are very happy together and have a
beautiful baby.
~meghan~
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YoungN
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Nov 2004 Posts: 42
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Posted: 11-04-04 23:25pm
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Thank you so much for all your advice and
support!!! You girls are so great  I am still going
to be with my boyfriend no matter what my
family or anyone else says...Although I
wish things just didn't have to be like
this because dissapointing my family is
the last thing I want....I love them so
much and feel like i've already
dissapointed them more than they deserve
(not with just this situation, but other
times in my life as well  ) *sigh*...But I
really care about my boyfriend and know
that he's a good person that deserves to
be loved, cared for, and treated with
respect by everyone, especially my
family.
I thought your family was supposed to
support you when you find someone that is
really good to you and makes you
happy?--but I dunno, guess this might of
changed without my knowledge :p don't
get me wrong, my parents are usually so
great about supporting and being there for
me in almost everything--thats what makes
this even harder.....
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samismama
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Sep 2004 Posts: 824
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Posted: 11-04-04 23:51pm
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My foster families accepted me and im
mixed (though u wuldnt kno it looking at
me) so when I had a bi-racial child my
foster parents (the only good set I ever
had) were very supportive
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AciasMommy17
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Nov 2004 Posts: 65 Location: Pennsylvania
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Posted: 11-05-04 00:56am
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My best friends little girl, shataya, is
biracial and she's sooo adorable! I'm
sorry about your situation hon I never
understood why some parents or just people
in general can get so upset over something
like that..I mean what's the big deal?
People piss me off sometimes lol
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