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Heathergirl
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Oct 2004
Posts: 719
Location: Michigan
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the Worst Night
Posted: 11-04-04 14:03pm
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I had the worst night last night. Mitch
and I get into a fight on the phone bc he
doens't understand what it feels like not
to have money. He was ridiculing my mom
for not having a job and not being able to
bring me back to michigan when it was not
conveniant for her.........My mom has
lupus and is too sick to work, but he
simply doesn't understand that. I can't
go on dating him when he makes me feel
like me and my family are below his and
his rich ass family. I don't know what
to do! I should never have to feel
ashamed of my familys financial situation
with someone I love. I am upset.
Because I love him so much, but I refuse
to let him ridicule my family. I won't
allow it. So he either cools it or it's
over. As hard as that is for me to say.
:'( and to make it worse, I really am
beginning to think it is possible that i'm
not goin to get my period saturday. I
don't know what to do. I just wrote him
a 45 minute email and this damn computer
at the library froze and lost it all!
Damnit!
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IDABABY
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Mar 2004
Posts: 2236
Location: ***Wisconsin Baby***
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Posted: 11-04-04 14:07pm
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Im sorry sweetie, sounds like you would be
better of without that man, I would never
be with a man that brough me or my family
down, that is god awful!!! I can't
believe that. You dont need him...Dont
worry sweetie, we all will be here for you
no matter what you decide.
I hate when that happens I just wrote
lauren a pm and then something happened
and I lost it all!! what? Hehe.
Anyways, im so sorry you are having a hard
time, if you need anything just pm me and
we can talk or email me *hugs* you have to
figure out what is best for you you
you!!
Kristin
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Heathergirl
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Oct 2004
Posts: 719
Location: Michigan
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Posted: 11-04-04 14:11pm
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Thank you kristin!!!!!!!!!!!!! You are
an angel........The only thing is, I
really don't think he knows when he is
doing it! Because his parents pay for
everything he has, his apartment, his gas,
his groceries, and so of course he doesn't
understand that it is not that easy for
everyone! So I am trying to understand
where he is coming from, but he told me
last night that he was fed up with my
family bc 'if its not one thing its
another'. And I love him...I know he
loves me...But he is an problem. And
when I do get home we're either goin to
work it out to where he never belittles my
family again, or like I said, it's over.
Whether i'm carrying his child or not.
Thanks for your support, i'll keep ya'll
informed. Thanks kristin!
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linuxChique
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 May 2004
Posts: 4535
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Posted: 11-04-04 14:15pm
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Omgosh! I agree! Ditch him. If he can't
respect you enough to try to understand
your situation, he doesn't deserve you!!
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IDABABY
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Mar 2004
Posts: 2236
Location: ***Wisconsin Baby***
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Posted: 11-04-04 14:18pm
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You are welcome sweetie!!! I completely
understand your situation so much....Ive
been there...I have had lots of money and
then again have no money (like right now
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but...I know what is like in both worlds.
Since he is given everything, he doesn't
know what its like to be independent, if
you know what I mean.I hope you two work
things out..How long have you two been
together? Please think about yourself in
the situation and what is best for you,
that is more important.
Kristin
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babyluvwu
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2004
Posts: 509
Location: Charlotte, NC
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Posted: 11-04-04 14:30pm
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Im sorry girl! I hope that things will
get better for you. Mitch sounds like a
stuck up problem to me who only thinks of
himself. Im sorry to hear your mother is
sick, I hope she gets better too I will
pray for you and her ok?!
~<3becca
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bellax0x
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Jun 2004
Posts: 3572
Location: Jersey Baby!
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Posted: 11-04-04 14:33pm
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Aw im sorry your mom is sick and mitch is
being a dick. I hope it all gets better.
You might be better off without him
<3
gaby
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jessamyn
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Joined: 18 Aug 2004
Posts: 4101
Location: San Diego, CA
Thanks: 11
Thanked:3
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Posted: 11-04-04 15:27pm
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Was it not just that one day babe? Dont
call if off work it thru you were just
talking about how much you wanted to marry
him... My family is all money and pauls
isnt and I love him no matter what! Make
it work give it a chance! But tell him
hes an problem... And I better be like on
the top 3 list of finding out saturdays
results!
Give your mom a kiss for me
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hm_03
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Apr 2004
Posts: 483
Location: Massachusett
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Posted: 11-04-04 16:05pm
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Jess is right but jess not all
relationships are the same because it's
good that you love paul no matter what his
finanicial situation is or how his family
is doing. (there should be more people
like you).
But it hurts when your own boyfriend says
things that are mean and hurtful
especially that he is not understanding to
her mother's condition.
I'm sorry about your mom but you should
talk to him about that?
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jessamyn
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Joined: 18 Aug 2004
Posts: 4101
Location: San Diego, CA
Thanks: 11
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Posted: 11-04-04 16:29pm
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I know hun but I also know how much
heather does love mitch I just want her to
make him realize he cant act that way!
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nippz
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Sep 2004
Posts: 2173
Location: ,
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Posted: 11-04-04 16:48pm
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Ohh boy I know how you feel. Boyfriend
doesnt send me money, my mom has cancer
and my father is paying the medical bills
since it doesnt cover 100% and he's the
only one working, let alone him supporting
my other two younger siblings, too. He
keeps telling me to ask my dad to send me
money, like dude.. Are u stupid, I
wouldn't need money if you got me
pregnant.
I know how you feel  if you wanna talk
pm me.
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LHSbabe0207
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Oct 2004
Posts: 632
Location: Louisiana girl!!!
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Posted: 11-04-04 17:37pm
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Im so sorry hun! Things will get worse.
Im sorry about your mom! .. And he
ssounds like a real jerk 
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LHSbabe0207
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Oct 2004
Posts: 632
Location: Louisiana girl!!!
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Posted: 11-04-04 17:38pm
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Omg! Not worse better lol.. I dont know
where my mind went today... Im still
stressing over abunch of crap
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hm_03
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Apr 2004
Posts: 483
Location: Massachusett
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Posted: 11-05-04 10:20am
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Jess you are right because i'm sure she
loves him a lot and yes he should
understand her situation and be supportive
about it.
If it's worth to fix the problem between
the two of you don't give up so quick but
if it continues then obviously he doesn't
understand
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