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Netti_H

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Still Waiting For Af
Posted: 11-04-04 19:52pm

Hi everyone

ive been ttc for 6 months, and also have been off bcp's for 6 months. I was due for my period on 24/10/2004, ive had 2 neg blood tests (quan), 5 very faint pos hpt's and 4 neg hpt's. I have had af symptoms and preg symptoms for about a week. Im now 12 days late. Im seeing my doc again on december 2nd. I have spoken to some ladies who never got their pregnancy confirmed till 7 weeks by bloods, and some as late as 11-15weeks. I have also read on a website that 10% of women take an extra 2 weeks after their period was late to trigger tests. Just wondering if there is anyone in a similar situation or this has happened to them before or they were pregnant. I have always had 35 day cycles and never missed my period before. Do you still think I could be pregnant?

Thanks for any advice, netti :d
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Netti_H

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Posted: 11-05-04 02:36am

Anyone. Im testing 2moro mornign fmu Confused
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ana410ny

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Posted: 11-05-04 05:08am

Could luck hun.

I'm on a 40 day cycle, so it can be kind of tricky determining when you can test. The sign that was the most obvious to me that I was pregnant was that my breast became so sore and big, very sentitive to the touch, but I still waited until I missed my period.

My last period had been on 9/22 and I was expecting my next period 11/1 (you see how far the dates are?.. That's because i'm on a 40 day cycle, so even tho most women would get their period around 10/22, october for me was not even an option), if I had tested in oct. The test would most likely have came back negative, so I tested on 11/2 and test came back positive.

But anyway, good luck and hope all turns out the way you want it to.
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Netti_H

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Posted: 11-05-04 18:40pm

Thanks ana- I hope I have answers soon. Tested again this mornign and it was negative, just wish af would hurry up and show, so sick of the waiting. Goodluck with your pregnancy :d
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ana410ny

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Posted: 11-06-04 08:02am

Thank you.




I know that feeling all to well. I was ttc for over a year before it finally happened.




What worked for me are the ovulation kits. I was tracking my menstual cycles for 6 months and kept trying to conceive at the wrong time. Most doctors assume that you ovulate 14 days before your next period, which isnt' so.




I had been doing that and had no luck. If I didnt' get pregnant by dec. My doc told me to come back and they will run fertility tests on me and hubby, but I said screw that, i'm not going to wait 3 more months. Like I said, I bought an ovulation kit that had 7 days worth of testing sticks.




I figured out that I was not running a normal cycle (28days) instead I was on a 40day cycle, so the ovulation kits tells you to count 23 days back from when you are suppose to have your period, instead of the usual 14 days that you get told.




I tested on oct. 14(23 days before my next period), and omg, I was so surprised, it came out positive, so I immediately told hubby we need to go try and we did. The kit tells you to keep testing for the entire 7 days, and I did, but all the following results were negative.




I was bummed out thinking that it wasn't going to work, and that I missed my window of opportunity. But I guess we made it right in time cuz we are expecting, like I mentioned earlier.




So here's my advice, if things don't work out for you this month, (i'll say a little pray for you that it will) try my technique next month. It wont' hurt much, the ovulation kit I think cost me like $15 (was a no-name brand) and give it a try.




If the kit only comes with 4 or 5 test sticks, you may want to buy 2. When you get it, calculate the day you should ovulate and I advice you to start testing 2 days before that date. I mean, I got lucky that I caught it that last day, so to be on the safe side, test a little early. One more important thing, tell your hubby not to ejaculate for 2 days before you start testing. That way he has the maximum amount of sperm and increase your chances of conceiving.




For instance, say your ovulation kit tells you to
-start testing 12/14,
-instead start testing early, 12/12
-hubby shouldn't ejaculate from 12/10 until you have intercoarse on the 12/12
-if you take the test, and it's negative, have sex anyway, sperm lives for 48hrs

- keep testing, until you get a positive and once again, keep hubby from ejaculating for at least a day in between, unless... Your test comes back positive, then I would suggest you have sex right away.




Once you have sex, stay laying down for at least 15-20minutes if you can, i've noticed that if I stand up and walk around, I tend to leak (and that's precious sperm escaping).

Probably sounds gross, but i'm just trying to help you.


Best of luck hun!! And i'll keep my fingers crossed for you. Let me know how it turns out. I'll be in and out (no pun intended..Lol) of these forums (since i've found another forum that i'm more comfortable at) to check up on your progress or if you have any questions.




Take care and relax, that was another thing that was hurting me, I was stressing too much.
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