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bellax0x

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Those of You With Boyfriends Who Dont Live Together
Posted: 11-05-04 08:47am

Do you spend the holidays together? (christmas/thanksgiving)? I cant remember if jay spent all of thanksgiving with us last year or only desert.. And I have no idea about christmas. What does everyone elsee do?

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mooma2binmarch

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Posted: 11-05-04 08:59am

Lol, when my husband and I were dating we didn't have any problems with that, he was raised a jehovah's witness so his family doesn't celebrate anything. He came to our family functions.
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bellax0x

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Posted: 11-05-04 09:07am

Hah you guys had it easy! Lol

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gaby
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MiracleIn2004

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Posted: 11-05-04 10:20am

We do half and half..Half the day is with our family the other half is just us together
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bellax0x

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Posted: 11-05-04 10:24am

Aw, I dont think that would workwith us lol. Its either one family or the other.. We'll figure it out

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gaby
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hm_03

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Posted: 11-05-04 11:22am

You mean if they live far away or just not living at your own place???
If that is the case. Last year he came over my place after visiting his family first. So he did both.
This year I may have to go with him and he could come to mine. We don't live far away from each other but I do spend night over at his place and he does too.
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noodleandshorty

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Posted: 11-05-04 13:30pm

Well last christmas ryan came to my house and this year we are havin our own lil christmas in the basement with our own tree Smile but yea we are together on holidays and switch off with families
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jessamyn

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Posted: 11-05-04 13:48pm

Haha I couldnt stand my family so I always left Smile
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LaDybUglOve

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Posted: 11-05-04 13:51pm

Well I live with my fiance but last yr we went over to my families holiday parties and what not so this yr we most probably will attend his families stuff. Unless they dont do anything good in which case we agreed to do our own thing.

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BbyBlu0602

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Posted: 11-05-04 14:37pm

I wouldn't really know, because this will be the first year that i've actually been with someone over christmas. I'd say that we'll probably each be with our own families for the first part of the holiday and then we'll visit his parents and then my parents and then we'll probably do our own thing later in the evening. Smile
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June4life

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Posted: 11-05-04 20:43pm

For christmas day I went to his family function for brunch, and he came to my family dinner!
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samismama

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Posted: 11-05-04 20:45pm

We live together but we usually spend the holidays with his family (grrr including his other kids and their mom~ the witch) this year thanksgiving is at our house so I dont havta leave and same for xmas eve, xmas day is at his mothers the witch complains b/c she has 4 kids to get ready all by herself (ummm darlin then why does he pay for the nanny???)
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oangelc543

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Posted: 11-05-04 21:17pm

The only family i've got down here is my cousin. He's going to san fransisco for the holidays.. My sisters seeing if she can leave college to come down and see me for a few days.. Other then that, I suppose i'll just be spending the time with rob and his family.
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bellax0x

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Posted: 11-05-04 23:26pm

Thanks guys!

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gaby
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nippz

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Posted: 11-05-04 23:46pm

My family likes to hog me (: so i've never spent any holiday with him.
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rissalee21

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Posted: 11-06-04 06:25am

Well when I was with dan(first love) we split them..We would go to both sides..It was fun..

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marisa
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bellax0x

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Posted: 11-06-04 08:35am

I think were going to spend half day with just family then one of us will go by the others house

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gaby
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Daile

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Posted: 11-08-04 04:40am

Well, with my ex, I spent christmas at his house, cause my family wasn't doing anything. I don't know about this year...We never really talked about it...I'd kinda like to do both. Go to his family and mine, which wouldn't be that hard since they all live near each other (which is sooo weird). I guess i'll find out in two weeks when I go home for thanksgiving!!!

Daile
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Kia

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Posted: 11-08-04 07:35am

We live together but usually christmas day is spent with my family and boxing day with his and then next time the other way round.
However, this year (our 4th christmas together) we are gonna be very very selfish. We aren't visiting anyone and not having anyone round.
It will be a quiet peaceful day with just us and the cats. We even have the perfect reasoning for everyone so as not to offend - I need peace and quiet during my recovery period expected to take upwards of 12 weeks to complete especially after today's complications.
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