Joined: 29 Oct 2004 Posts: 5 Location: always and forever in Houston Texas
Pregnant Posted: 11-05-04 11:28am
I'm 17 and me and my boyfriend had sex
while I was on my period. He finished
inside without a condom, becuase we
figured that I couldn't get pregnant.
Well i'm kind of worried now that I know I
can. I'm not really sure when I can take
a pregnancy test, or what i'm suposed to
do to not lose it if I am. I finished my
period like for days after we had sex and
the last two days were very painful how
would I know if that wasn't my misscariage
or when i'm supposed to take my pregnancy
test.
(he kind of hits me sometimes,but how
would I know if I haven't lost it yet. It
hasn't even been a month, but he hit me
the day after we had sex, while I was
still on my rag.)
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BeckLyn
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Nov 2004 Posts: 476
Posted: 11-05-04 11:41am
First of all, girl why are u with him if
he hits u? I'm not here to judge, but I
am concerned for you. You're only 17,
there is so much more. I dont' think u
wouldn't "miscarry" and know it that soon
after having sex. Why didn't u think u
could get preg.? U can pretty much
always get preg. Any time through out
your cycle. My first sugg. Would be to
find someone new, and my second would be
to wait until your next period b4 you get
too worried. If you miss and even if you
don't miss and are still concerned, then
take a ept test. They have preg. Tests
for only $1 at the dollar store!!!! Good
luck girl.
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bluebubble888
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Oct 2004 Posts: 499
Posted: 11-05-04 12:01pm
In order to have a misscarriage you have
to have concieved and since you were on
your period, you did'nt. The only way to
get pregnant while on you period is when
the sperm lives inside of you a couple
days and then you ovulate. Its
impossible to have your period turn into a
misscarriage! Secondly and might I add
most important.....You do not need to be
with someone that hits you! Why would
you want to have child with someone that
might harm the baby before it's even
born!!! Don't be stupid and let him do
this to you! I don't even know you but
you deserve so much better! Don't just
leave for yourself, leave for any
potential children you might have~!! You
don't want to have a child with a man who
hits you becuase chances are he will hit
the child! Get yourself something
better!
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mburciaga
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Oct 2004 Posts: 5 Location: always and forever in Houston Texas
Posted: 11-05-04 12:26pm
Bluebubble are you sure that I can't get
pregnant while on my period. I had sex
the first day I was on it and still had my
period for another 4 days.
Gosh I can't believe you allow him to hit
you, you need to be stronger than that and
not put up with that.
You should probably wait to see if you
miss you're next period.
Please girl if he continues to mistreat
you you have to let him go......
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nippz
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Sep 2004 Posts: 2173 Location: ,
Re: Pregnant Posted: 11-05-04 15:46pm
Yeah first of all, never ever let anyone
hit you. If he has no respect for you,
how is he gonna respect your children.
Imagine that if you are pregnant, what he
would be doing to them. It's just
horrible. Please leave him, you dont
deserve that kind of treatement!
Anyway, you can get pregnant while your on
period, before your period, and after your
period. You can get pregnant all the time
anytime. I dont think it was a good idea
to have sex without the condom and him
finishing in you - definitely bad idea.
You have a chance but i'm not saying it's
definite. Take a blood test and keep us
updated (:
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kristynchase
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Nov 2004 Posts: 179 Location: Michigan
Posted: 11-06-04 02:24am
I went through that with an abussive
boyfriend and believe me hunny it is the
hardest thing to get over yeah I know but
you need to leave.. I left my boyfriend
one day just out of the blue when he
called me a b*tch and I just said that I
was done and I was it was hard to get over
but you want to get out of that asap
believe me. The faster the better..
Ok, i'm your age, and first of all I had
to deal with my mom getting beat all the
time, so please do yourself a huge favor
and leave that man, no women, frankly
nobody should be hit, and I hope you are
ok, just please get help, noone deserves
to be hit, and you definetly don't need to
have a baby by him!
Leave him!
