Joined: 30 Oct 2004 Posts: 20 Location: Sarasota, FL
Fathers Lost Posted: 11-05-04 21:38pm
Well should I leve or stay?
My b/f wont talk to me any more and
I dont know if hes running or not should
hold on
or
move on
??????????
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oangelc543
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2004 Posts: 521 Location: TX
Posted: 11-05-04 21:43pm
What? Are u pregnant? Im lost.
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ChristineMoney
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Oct 2004 Posts: 20 Location: Sarasota, FL
Posted: 11-05-04 21:46pm
Yeah and he knows it too the father but he
just wont talk to me any more and I dont
know if I should leve him or try to talk
it thru w/ him
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oangelc543
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2004 Posts: 521 Location: TX
Posted: 11-05-04 21:57pm
Alright, well he is the father of your
child.. So i'd advise you to try and work
things out with him. That doesn't mean
getting back together with him, but let
him know you'd appreciate him being
involved with his child.
If he still being a bastardd, then yes.
Leave him, you dont need him I promise..
There are millions of single mothers out
there. You can do it!
How far along are you?
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pitterpatter
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Aug 2004 Posts: 619 Location: United States
Posted: 11-05-04 21:59pm
Sounds like he's already made up the
decison for ya! I would just wait it out
and assume your on your own. If he
decides to come back tell him he can't
just run out on you like this especially
with a kid on the way. That if he's
going to stay he better mean it. Even if
you don't stay as a couple atleast as a
father.
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ChristineMoney
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Oct 2004 Posts: 20 Location: Sarasota, FL
Posted: 11-05-04 22:07pm
Well we ar stell going out just he wont
talk to me so I dont know what that means
cuz I know how it feels to not have a dad
and when I do he's an ass. And i'd hate
to bring my baby in to the world like that
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nmmama2005
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Oct 2004 Posts: 164 Location: New Mexico
Posted: 11-05-04 22:39pm
Well I hope he comes around and at least
he knows. And maybe he needs time to
figure out what the hell hes gonna do(
some guys are like that) punks!!!! I
know its no way to bring up a baby without
a dad. But you'll get though. I know its
hard and thats how im gonna raise mine
cause I can not find the dad at all. But
I wish u the best of luck on him comming
through for you.
Michelle*
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nippz
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Sep 2004 Posts: 2173 Location: ,
Posted: 11-06-04 00:02am
Try to work things out and if he leaves,
let him, just make sure he pays for child
support!
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nippz
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Sep 2004 Posts: 2173 Location: ,
Posted: 11-06-04 00:02am
And if your hurting from him, psysically
or emotionally, drop it, you dont deserve
this during pregnancy. Just yeah, make
sure he supports you financially along w/
the baby! I hope everything works out.
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jessamyn
Supporter
Joined: 18 Aug 2004 Posts: 4107 Location: San Diego, CA
Thanks: 11
Thanked:3
Posted: 11-06-04 02:45am
He is wanting to leave because of the
baby?
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ChristineMoney
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Oct 2004 Posts: 20 Location: Sarasota, FL
Posted: 11-06-04 09:34am
I dont knonw he wont talk to me I tryd to
have one of my friends call him but he
dident talk to her. So I dont know.
