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babyluvwu
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2004
Posts: 509
Location: Charlotte, NC
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Scared!
Posted: 11-06-04 12:08pm
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Ok last night I went through this really
emotional trip. I started thinking about
all kinds of things (mainly the fact that
im going to be a mother soon) and I got
really scared out of nowhere and started
balling  . My
boyfriend didnt know what was wrong with
me or what to do. He thought I was mad
at him but I wasnt I was just really
scared of the fact that I know I am
growing up real fast and everything seems
to be happening way too quick. I had a
hard time accepting it for some reason
last night. I dont really know why I
guess I am just way too emotional right
now, I feel much better today. A little
dizzy but I feel confident enough that I
wont break down again anytime soon.
Oh and do any of you feel like this, I
feel like I have to be comforted a lot I
guess because growing up my parents
(especially my mom) used to comfort me and
show me a lot of affection so now I miss
that and I need it from my boyfriend but
he's not real big on affection. I mean he
loves me but you know some guys just arent
all mushy lovey. Well hes one of those
guys and I cant stand it, is there any
way I can get him to change from that. I
have cried to him before trying to explain
to him that I need it and he would for a
few days then it just disappeared. Does
anyone else seem to have this problem with
their man?
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cherriegurl
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Joined: 11 Jul 2004
Posts: 1218
Location: Washington state
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Posted: 11-06-04 12:09pm
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Im so sorry that u had to go through that.
Good luck and keep ur head up!!
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bellax0x
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Jun 2004
Posts: 3572
Location: Jersey Baby!
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Posted: 11-06-04 12:10pm
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Aw hun, yes you have to grow up fast but
dont wrry it will all be worth it when
your baby is here =)
<3
gaby
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oangelc543
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2004
Posts: 521
Location: TX
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Posted: 11-06-04 12:11pm
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Aww its okay, dont worry.. I had a little
breakdown last week just like that... And
I miss being comforted too.. I mean, I
dont even live with my guy, and I mean he
comforts me and stuff.. But he just
doesnt kno what to do when I get all
upset.. So yes I know how you feel
and dont worry, you are going to be a
great mommy! I can tell! 
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babyluvwu
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2004
Posts: 509
Location: Charlotte, NC
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Posted: 11-06-04 12:31pm
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Aww thank you angel! Yea dusty was all
like what do you want me to do and the
whole time all I could do was just cry on
his shirt while he had his arm around me.
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smith8500
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Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 6623
Location: Louisiana
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Posted: 11-06-04 12:32pm
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Those damn pregnancy hormones! You'll do
awesome hun!
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rissalee21
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Feb 2004
Posts: 526
Location: michigan
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Posted: 11-06-04 15:09pm
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Awe hun belive me its okay..When I was
pregnant I had the sammeee thing I think
all of us do..Its just your pregnancy
hormones..It will all be worth it..
<3
marisa
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LaurensEntourage
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Sep 2004
Posts: 1302
Location: Austin, Texas
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Posted: 11-06-04 15:12pm
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I start thinking like that late at night,
right before I go to sleep. I don't tell
anyone about it though, plus there's
really no one to comfort me. It sucks
though.
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babyluvwu
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2004
Posts: 509
Location: Charlotte, NC
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Posted: 11-06-04 15:16pm
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Aww sweetie if I was there id comfort you,
we could comfort eachother (alright that
sounds a little gay! Lol!) how far along
are you? Im sure you'll be a good mommy!
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LaurensEntourage
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Sep 2004
Posts: 1302
Location: Austin, Texas
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Posted: 11-06-04 15:21pm
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You're so sweet! I'll be 30 weeks
tomorrow  it's all gone by
so fast.
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nippz
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Joined: 11 Sep 2004
Posts: 2173
Location: ,
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Posted: 11-06-04 17:26pm
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It's okay hun, yeah its these damn
hormones, lol. But i've had breakdowns
time to time and al just doesnt
understand. He thinks its just so easy to
be a mother while he goes to work and i'm
gonna be stuck having to try to get a job,
go to school, and take care of my child.
They dont understand how we feel because
they're not the one carrying the
watermelon.
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