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callie8323
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Sep 2004
Posts: 231
Location: nc
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Cused Out By a Parent
Posted: 11-06-04 16:24pm
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I know this has nothing to do with this
forum but anyways I work in childcare and
I got cused out yesterday by a forin guy
well anyways he has a newphew in my class
he is 6 months old anyways he crys all
the time we do what we can we have 10
babys in my room w/ 2 teachers anyways I
went to take the trash out and the other
new teacher was in the room with the baby
that crys all the time his name is ricky
and there was a another baby in the room
when I came back ricky was crying and she
was looking for the other childs passy I
was helping her real quick .The guy (uncle
) comes in and grabs ricky and said you
let him cry like that all day!!! I was
shocked he said everyday he crys you don't
pick him up I was to shocked to say a
word. I just walked in the room too. He
went to the office and said who is in
charge here my boss had just left so
another teacher was in the office he said
they don't take care of my baby and they
let him cry all the time they pick up all
the babys but ricky. (not true) he
pointed at me too!! He said we should not
be paid we do nothing. He said he wanted
to talk to the boss tommorow not monday he
was sooooo pissed. He was so rude to me I
cryed all night. I take good care of
those babys ricky is spoiled so he crys
when u put him down I was walking around
with him before the uncle came. The other
girl should of picked him up while I was
gone so now I got cused out! I work in
the nursery 1200 till 600 ricky crys with
all the teachers not just me. He said
everyday he crys we do nothing he said he
never would complain till now. Ok 10 kids
2 teachers we do our best we feed them all
and changed there diapers every 2 hours we
do are very best its not a easy job. Do
you think I deserved to be cused out?? I
take good care of ricky he just walked in
at the wrong time. I know I won't be in
trouble with my work they know he crys a
llot too. That man just hurt my feelings
 im
just affraid he might cus me out again or
even more he looks very vilent. I hope my
school kicks him out. I don't deserve
that. Babys cry ya know if my school is
so bad watch him yourself! What should I
do???? Please help why does it bother me
so much I should just not care but I do.
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nippz
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Posted: 11-06-04 18:00pm
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Awww, it's okay, parents are just
overprotected like that..
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pitterpatter
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Aug 2004
Posts: 619
Location: United States
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Posted: 11-07-04 17:33pm
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No, I think that any parent who puts there
kid in a day care where there is ten kids
and two adults needs to expect that. If
they wanted their child to never cry than
they should find a private day care person
to watch him. Also it's probably
seperation anxiety and in that case
there's not a whole lot you can do. I
personally won't let any of my kids go in
a day care like that because iknow how it
is. I also worked in one before and I
didn't like how the babies would cry and
the adults couldn't really do anything
about it. So yeah, I don't think he had
the right to do that when his brother was
the one who choose that day care. What
do you expect when there's two adults and
ten babies?
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AciasMommy17
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Nov 2004
Posts: 65
Location: Pennsylvania
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Posted: 11-07-04 21:18pm
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We had a long talk after I posted this and
we decided for now just to be good friends
and date around some. My aunt said that
michael isn't the only guy in the whole
world and she's right but for the longest
time he was to me and maybe it's better
that I find out how he really is now than
further down the line if I get stuck with
him. Blah..Thanks girlies!
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pitterpatter
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Aug 2004
Posts: 619
Location: United States
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Posted: 11-08-04 00:04am
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Umm, girly you posted in someone elses
post about something totally different
than the topic. Just thought you should
know.
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callie8323
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Sep 2004
Posts: 231
Location: nc
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Bla
Posted: 11-08-04 09:35am
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Today I go to work at 12 I hope the uncle
is not rude to me today I swear today I
will make sure his newphew is not crying
when he picks him up today. I just hope
he took the child out I really don't want
to see those people today. They can't
speak much english either they need to
just keep there child at the nail shop
with them I guess babys don't cry with
there parents ha ha ha. Well pray that my
day goes better than friday hope I don't
get cursed out today! 
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mooma2binmarch
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Oct 2004
Posts: 89
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I Know What You Mean, Heres My Mean Parent Experience!!!!lol
Posted: 11-08-04 11:25am
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I was a pre-kindergarten teacher for about
1.5 years. I had a parent one time come
in cuz their child had diarehia (sp? You
know what I mean) you know the rules to
water bowel movements and they have to go
home.....Well when I called her and told
her she had to come she had a fit. Well
when she got there she dug through our
trash cans, with her bare hands threw
garbage all over our floor, and found the
watery mess (she had told me to throw her
panties away) and she told me thats not
diarehia, thats just how she poops. Well
I told told her until she had medical
documentation stating that, jada would not
be allowed to return. She threw the
panties on the floor and left, needless to
say we never saw them agian. Lol, just
thought I would share my mean parent
experience.
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Tazzy D
Advanced Support Team
Joined: 30 Oct 2004
Posts: 3718
Location: , va
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Posted: 11-08-04 11:31am
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Callie8323,
it will be okay. I worked at a daycare
before and the parents always try to find
something to nag and pick on. You are
doing the best that you can. With a 10 to
2 ratio you cant hold everyone right. And
like you said if they dont like it then
they will leave. People who act over
protective like that will never be happy
any where. Actually it is good for a bay
to cry it builds the childs lungs. Dont
worry go to work and have a nice day.
Leave it up to the director to handle it.
That is why they are there. 
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BADSAL
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Sep 2004
Posts: 257
Location: PA
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Posted: 11-08-04 11:46am
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Goodluck to you. I think if someone has
a problem like that they should handle it
with the proper person in charge and not
take it out on the poor workers there at
the time. Someone else gets paid a lot
more to be the boss and they should be the
ones handling the irate parents.
I commend anyone who gives their all to
help take care of other people's children.
Keep up your good work and don't let him
get to you. Some people seem to think
"their" child is "better" than everyone
else's and should be treated better
instead of equal.....
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jessamyn
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Posted: 11-08-04 18:13pm
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Some people are just very protective dont
worry...
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callie8323
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Sep 2004
Posts: 231
Location: nc
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Im Ok Now
Posted: 11-09-04 09:31am
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Thanks everyone I feel better now
yesterday he had a fever of 102 the baby
that crys all the time his mom picked him
up we said she ya tomm she goes he come
back tomm where like yes if he has no
fever she can't even speak english! Which
makes it so harder. I just made sure he
wasn't crying when she came in. We had a
parent one time that got mad b/c we threw
there childs panties away that was covered
in poop. Parents can be crazy I hope im
not like that!
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yoyo
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Nov 2004
Posts: 6
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Posted: 11-09-04 16:13pm
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The ironicy of the situation is that he
put his baby in a day care if he was so
concerned about his baby then take care of
him. I for one believe in the stay home
mom or dad theory although in some cases
that's just not possible but he shouldn't
complain so much if he himself isn't doing
the greatest job
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