i'm new to this forum so please bare with
the questions. My fiance and I are
getting married on 19 march 2005 which I
cant wait for. But what we cant wait for
even more is to start a family. I am
going off the pill at the end of this
week. The maximum I will be if I fall
straight away will be 16 weeks....Although
I think the chances are slim but I guess
you never know. Will I be showing at the
wedding? I really dont care if I do, but
I already have my dress so i'm kinda
hoping you will all say no!!!
I'm really nervous and excited about
trying to conceive, i'm just not looking
forward to the possible dissapointment of
not being pregnant.
Jill
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l2at24
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Nov 2004 Posts: 1509
Posted: 11-08-04 12:29pm
I know I posted to you last night so I
don't know what happened, but anyway your
belly more than likely will have changed
in some way. My belly was bigger with
both of mine and I had lost weight (from
morning sickness). Just a thought- you
should spend some time with your man just
being married, without kids. I miss
spending a lot of time with mine. We had
our first child and then I had an iud
inserted. It should have given me up to
ten years to have another, but just 20
months later we had baby number 2. You
never know what will happen in your life.
Take your time. I've been married for 6
years and I love it. Congratulations,
marriage is awesome!
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jillie81
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Nov 2004 Posts: 485 Location: ,
Posted: 11-09-04 18:37pm
Thanks for your reply. We've spoken
about having time to ourselves before the
pitter patter. I'm 23 and quite happy to
wait another 5 years to have children,
however dale's almost 30 and doesnt want
to feel like he's an old dad. I've
always wanted children and well we've just
bought the big family home and I guess
we're both looking forward to it and
ready. I guess we'll wait and see if I
fall pregnant straight away too, hopefully
no complications!
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Girrly
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Sep 2004 Posts: 113 Location: canada
Posted: 11-09-04 18:58pm
Hey,
my husband and I were the same way. He
pretty much purposed to me and a couple
months later we tried to get pregnant.
At my wedding I was only 12 weeks and my
dress had to be altered. Mostly because
of bloating. You don't want it being too
tight. I think my husband and I spent
enough time together while we were going
out and while we were engaged that we were
both ready. Getting posted far away from
home was a kicker but it's working out for
the better. Now we've got number 2 on
the way and by the time the husband is
able to retire both kids will be out of
the house, or close too it and we'll be
able to do what we both want to do and
that is travel and we'll both still be
relatively young.
