What Could Be Wrong With Him Posted: 11-08-04 15:23pm
I find that my husband talks to himself
alot... I also caught him once yelling
at someone who wasnt there but this
someone is an actual person we know. He
was mowing the yard and didnt think I
could hear him. He pointing his finger
and everything. I asked him what he was
yelling about and why and he said he was
just thinking out loud. He never does it
in front of me its only when he thinks hes
alone and I happen to walk in, then he
will play it off. Sometimes I think he
has a world all of his own going on in his
head. I have seen him start bouncing his
foot to music that isnt going. He will
tell off people that are on the tv and
cuss them but only if im not around. He
does this alot. Hes not violent unless
he drinks which is rare but when he does
anything can set him off. He can be very
twisted and manipulating. He lies all
the time about things that doesnt even
matter. Hes very good at it and its
usualy after the fact that I realize he
has done it. Does he have a mental
problem of some sort? Can anyone link
this type of behavior to something? Im
scared of who im married to and dont know
what hes capable of because ive seen that
horrible look in his eyes. Hes never
layed a finger on me but it worries me
that he could.
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inferno4
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Jan 2005 Posts: 2
Posted: 01-30-05 19:06pm
Hi
i want to help you but don't know if I
can.
I have some similar things.
I point my finger and say or think: ' I
will kill you (all)!'
'you motherf******!!' and other swearing
(to 'them')(people who aren't there, or
the very few times when I walk in the
street among other people but then it is
not directed to them but to the ones in my
mind/memory??)
and I think I have that same look in my
eyes as you mentioned. It is full of
hate. But undernieth it I think I feel
sad. I sometimes want to cry, feel the
need to cry but I can't.
I think this comes from the fact that my
father and brother were very hostile to me
at home.
I sometimes feel that I want to be violent
against people, to hurt them.
I think that thats what I want. I think
that I will feel good by doing that.
And othertimes I say to myself :' I wanna
go out of here' 'i wanna go away from
here'
i am not sure that that's a voice in my
head or me thinking that in some way, but
it is not my 'normal thinking'.
I went to a psychiatrist and he said I
have schizofrenia and advised me abilify
(15 mg). According to him it will get rid
of those thougts I have. So I have to use
it for at least a year he said. I am 30
years of age.
But I still didn't start taking them
because I think I don't trust his diagnose
completly and maybe even more important, I
think that by starting using this drug I
will loose my chance to heal normally.
Heal the right way, whichever that is.
Well this is my way of asking help. I can
not even open my own topic.
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xanlixanli
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Feb 2005 Posts: 5 Location: Canberra
Posted: 02-17-05 04:47am
Don't worry dukez0r, I have disturbing
thoughts also.... I like to release my
rage through playing fighting games or
rpg's on ps2. It means less trouble w/
the authorities!! Hahahh
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insanity101
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 May 2005 Posts: 5
Posted: 05-31-05 17:43pm
Oh my god! Your husband sounds exactly
like my dad! Are you my mom?
My dad can be very munipulating. He's
munipulated my grandma (mom's side) and
now she's against her own daughter (my
mom).
He always talks to himself. I would lay
asleep upstairs and hear him whispering to
himself downstairs. He used to say jokes
or practise saying intelligent things but
now he just cusses.
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yfguitarist
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Apr 2005 Posts: 44
Posted: 06-03-05 13:17pm
inferno4
wrote:
hi
i want to help you but don't know if I
can.
I have some similar things.
I point my finger and say or think: ' I
will kill you (all)!'
'you motherf******!!' and other swearing
(to 'them')(people who aren't there, or
the very few times when I walk in the
street among other people but then it is
not directed to them but to the ones in my
mind/memory??)
and I think I have that same look in my
eyes as you mentioned. It is full of
hate. But undernieth it I think I feel
sad. I sometimes want to cry, feel the
need to cry but I can't.
I think this comes from the fact that my
father and brother were very hostile to me
at home.
I sometimes feel that I want to be violent
against people, to hurt them.
I think that thats what I want. I think
that I will feel good by doing that.
And othertimes I say to myself :' I wanna
go out of here' 'i wanna go away from
here'
i am not sure that that's a voice in my
head or me thinking that in some way, but
it is not my 'normal thinking'.
I went to a psychiatrist and he said I
have schizofrenia and advised me abilify
(15 mg). According to him it will get
rid of those thougts I have. So I have
to use it for at least a year he said. I
am 30 years of age.
But I still didn't start taking them
because I think I don't trust his diagnose
completly and maybe even more important, I
think that by starting using this drug I
will loose my chance to heal normally.
Heal the right way, whichever that is.
Well this is my way of asking help. I
can not even open my own
topic.
i'm just like you, except i'm 17 and have
not gone to a psychiatrist yet. I have
those thoughts to real people though. He
thinks you need meds for the thoughts? I
wonder if meds would help me. I want to
cry but I can't. I want help because it's
painful but I don't want help because I
want to see how far I can take myself.
I want to kill people, too. I don't think
I would ever do it. I think it would make
me feel better though.
I'm a christian. I tend to have different
conflicting opinions at different times:
when i'm not fantasizing about killing,
i'm thinking how horrible people that do
it are! It's weird
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JoshGSchizophreniaNIN
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Aug 2005 Posts: 13 Location: Henderson, NV
Posted: 08-04-05 06:38am
Hey,
your husband seems to be like a
manic-depressive type?
I'm not an expert.
But I have a brother who does a lot of the
stuff you wrote there. My bro yells a
lot and cusses loud (especially when no
one is around) when he by himself. He's
so loud that neighbors can probably hear
him. I don't know if he still is like
this.
It seems to stem from having good but
perhaps not very satisfying to him jobs.
So my ignorant advice: maybe your husband
should seek anger management or a
therapist and get checked for something
like that manic depression?
