Hey girlies, I need some advice.
I need to talk to my boyfriend about where
we are in the relationship or if we are
even in one. Everytime I bring it up he
says he dont want to talk about it or
changes the subject. So I was thinking
about writing a letter to him, but I dont
know how to ask him and not sound like a
bi**h or a controlling nut. I whould
really like to know what he wants. Thanks
girlies love ya
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cherriegurl
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Jul 2004 Posts: 1218 Location: Washington state
Posted: 11-08-04 19:17pm
I wouldnt hurt to write a letter
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jessamyn
Moderator
Joined: 18 Aug 2004 Posts: 4101 Location: San Diego, CA
Thanks: 11
Thanked:3
Posted: 11-08-04 19:17pm
I am like the firmest beliver in just
saying it flat out no games and no health
forum just be like what to you want out of
this are you happy? Do you think about
other girls or hit on em? Do you want a
future with me?
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CAMAROGIRL82
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Aug 2004 Posts: 96
Posted: 11-08-04 19:19pm
Thanks gilies you guys are a big help.
If I ask flat out he gets pissed and gets
mad and either leaves or changes the
subject.
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nippz
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Sep 2004 Posts: 2173 Location: ,
Posted: 11-08-04 19:21pm
Al used to do that whenever we were on a
break because he "didnt know what he
wanted". Maybe he's confused.
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LHSbabe0207
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Oct 2004 Posts: 632 Location: Louisiana girl!!!
Posted: 11-08-04 19:29pm
Aw. Im so sorry about your situation!
Hope everything works out for the best! I
would write him a letter. That seems like
a good idea.. And the only he will listen
without changing the subject!
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bellax0x
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Jun 2004 Posts: 3572 Location: Jersey Baby!
Posted: 11-08-04 19:32pm
Sit down with him and dont let him change
the subject. Just tell him to let out
everything he feels. Good luck!
If I were trying to talk to a guy about
the status of our relationship and he got
up and left or changed the subject, that
would be answer enough for me right there.
Buh bye.
